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writes: My favorite soft drink is Mountain Dew and I have a Mountain Dew T-shirt. After my girlfriend came up in my room and when I wasn't in my room with her, I think she took my T-shirt. I'm not 100% sure she took it, but my T-shirt has been missing for a while and I seen her wear a Mountain Dew shirt a couple times. I'm not trying to blame on her for taking my shirt. It seems obvious she took it, but I'm not 100% sure she took it from my closet. Do girls try to take their boyfriend's clothes? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Tbosse +, writes (8 July 2011):
We dont steal, we 'borrow'...but you may stil ask her so as to make sure she took it.goodluck
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reader, birdynumnums +, writes (8 July 2011):
awhhh Man, you can't do the heart thing using the less than sign and the 3 on DC?
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reader, birdynumnums +, writes (8 July 2011):
She lurves you. 3
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reader, MissTellAll +, writes (8 July 2011):
"Hey, is that my mountain dew shirt?""Well, yea, it reminds me of you/ is comfortable/ I like mountain dew.""Oh, well, okay."She's probably doing it because she wants something to remind her of you. With my past boyfriends I've borrowed shirts, hoodies, even a pair of boxers (hey, they're awesome as pajamas). It's a sign of affection........or she's a klepto..... but I'll just put that in the 'unlikely' category.
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reader, Jay_xxxxx +, writes (8 July 2011):
A lot of girls I know which have boyfriends are always borrowing their boyfriends clothes like t-shirts and jumpers, it's just a comfort thing, it's probably because it smells like you and she thought that you wouldn't mind her borrowing it. Don't be worried about asking her if she has borrowed it, she is your girlfriend, just explain that you can't fin yours and you were just wondering if she'd borrowed it. She wont bite your head off for asking Jay x
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reader, YouWish +, writes (7 July 2011):
Ahh...heh. Yeah, it's like the proverbial letterman jacket of old. She wants a piece of you to wear, and I'm guessing that if the MD shirt is special to you, she might want it.
Just be really nice when asking her. It's also possible that if she spent the night at your place, she threw it on when she left.
Personally, I wouldn't grab my boyfriend's shirt without asking, but I'd sure ask, and this isn't quite stealing unless she's being a klepto and lots of your stuff goes missing.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (7 July 2011):
If there is cash missing from your wallet and your iPod has vanished, that's one kind of stealing, the bad kind. The accidental 'borrowing' of a favorite T-shirt I think is actually pretty common and probably means that she's really into you. It's very comforting and nice to have something soft and cozy that belongs to the guy you care about. It makes a girl feel closer to her guy.
Just ask her.
"Jenny, my Mountain Dew T-shirt went missing. I noticed you had one on the other day. Is there a chance that these two events are connected in some way?" Ask that with a smile and you'll get your answer.
If you really really cannot stand to have that T-shirt gone, ask her if you can swap one out for that one, if she admits she snagged it.
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reader, Jmtmj +, writes (7 July 2011):
Heh, a lot do in my experience... but they don't do it because they're short on clothes. Either they like that it smells like you or its a big warm hoodie that's warmer than anything in their wardrobe.
But relax buddy, its a good thing.
... and mountain dew shirt... seriously?
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reader, kenty139 +, writes (7 July 2011):
Girls always wear their boyfriends clothes. So don't worry.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (7 July 2011):
She's your girlfriend, why don't you just ask if she took it in a non-accusatory way?
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