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writes:Hi guysI just want to ask, from your experience, how would you know if a girl wants to kiss you? I'm 16 and I've never had a girlfriend or kissed a girl. I like this girl, and according to her best friends, she likes me. But I'm not sure when to kiss her when we hang out. What are the signs? We usually don't do stuff like going to movies, but rather hang out and just talk at parks and stuff like that.Any advice on what are the signs to move in for a kiss?
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reader, Abella  +, writes (7 July 2011):
 As you spend more time together you will touch her hand, allow you knee to touch hers, accidently walk really close, shoulder to shoulder, catch her eye, smile at her, tell her cute things, listen to her and laugh with her.
And before you get into kisses that signal more you will get an opportunity to offer her a promise of more, with a sweet kiss on the forehead, administered gently and sweetly.
I regard it as the sweetest most delightful kiss that signals respect, and interest at the same time.
It can disarm her.
Can have her hoping for more. It will leave her feeling delighted but not threatened.
It's not pushing the girl too far, too soon. And will leave her feeling well disposed to your next kiss. Make the next one playful, quick and teasing. Still wanting more. Let your eyes show your delight in her. Watch her reactions. Does she lean into you? Touch your hand.
When she wants more she will possibly flirt and manoerve herself to allow herself to accidently touch, or move her face into
the right position.
My best wishes to you, at this delightful time in your life, Regards,
Abella
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reader, Odds +, writes (7 July 2011):
 When you're standing very close to each other, facing each other, and holding prolonged eye contact. Private or semi-private, dim locations work best for the mood, but aren't necessary.
You'll notice that being close to her, facing her, and making eye contact are all things you can actively choose to do, rather than things which only happen by chance. Go out on a normal date with her (whatever that means for you), hold her hand, hug her, laugh and make her laugh, be playful and have a good time. Aim to kiss her two-thirds of the way through the planned date, but be open to other times.
Don't worry about technique. You can save biting or using your tongue for later; if you leave those out and just use your lips, it'll come naturally, so that should take some pressure off. You can practice for real later.
The hardest part is not the timing, or spotting the signs, or doing it right - it's taking the chance when you see it. Chickening out is easy to do. Just remember, every single one of your male ancestors managed to get it right at least once, so it's in your blood. Don't think, just take the shot when you see it, or even a second "too late." Good luck.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (7 July 2011):
 As soon as possible. Get that first kiss over with, and all that follows will be easy. One way to get that first kiss out of the way is during a light-hearted moment, when you are both in a good mood and possibly having a laugh or two and she is smiling at you - just smile good and give her a kiss on the cheek. If she likes that, then add a little kiss on the lips with a hug. After that, you'll then know what to do.
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