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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can this girl talk to my friend after what he did to her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4929 days ago

3 July 2011 (F) age 30-35 - One night out my best mate led on this girl and then got with her, she really liked him but she didn't know till after they got with each other that he was with someone. I know since i'm also friends with her i should of said, but he's my best mate and honestly i thoug... (234 words)

Bully husband wants sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age - I feel, when I read or listen some of these question, very awkward: husband/boy friend cheating, girls and wives cheating, etc. My situation is a little different from those: I have been marriage for 21 years (23 yrs. together, 1 son 16 years old, going through his own battles ... (163 words)

Seems I can't managed any other way. Is a vibrator the only way I am ever going to orgasm?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4928 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I can't orgasm with my fiance. I am afraid maybe he is too small or something. I have never orgasm'd before with a man, but within 10 seconds of using a vibrator I can orgasm quickly. I feel like i'm cheating.. I'm not satisfied without orgasming. need advice. Is this the only ... (59 words)

I'm engaged but I am wondering if this girl likes me. Does that suggest I might be gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I need advice on whether or not this girl likes me. I work opposite her, so see her regularly across the road and such. I go see her a lot of the time but she's seems distant? I'm 26 and engaged to my boyfriend but I seem to find myself going to see this girl for the odd thin... (188 words)

If your senses of humor don't always coincide, how does affect the love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4929 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I realized the other day that my significant other, a man I love dearly, sometimes just cannot see the humor in a situation. Perhaps it's a cultural thing, although we have similar educational backgrounds. He seems to emphasize problem-solving thinking, and when I (or another ... (133 words)

How can I better deal with my father who treats me like I do not count in his eyes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hey, thanks in advance for reading this. I know I will sound like pretty much every other teenager on the planet, but I'm convinced my dad hates me. He doesnt like, abuse me physically but he treats me like my needs come second to his and I am not as good as his. Take today... (292 words)

What can I do to become more dominant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

3 July 2011 (?) age 36-40 - Hey guys my girlfriend wants me to be more dominant, assertive and aggressive (in a good way). I can be when I need to be but am naturally a timid, shy guy, like if she doesn't want to do something I won't push the subject. what do I need to do be more dominant etc..... (56 words)

Do you think he actually likes me? or am I just wasting my time with him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everybody i met a man a few months ago. i really like him and i told him this in a text last week. I also told him i know he is not interested in me and he doesnt want to see me, just wanted to see what he would say. He replied with, 'i do, just busy that's all' He is alw... (186 words)

Moving in together but get the feeling b/f isn't excited about it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4929 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my boyfriend four years, we are both in our forties have been married previously and I have teenage children. We now plan to move in together. I had felt this was long overdue but my boyfriend did not seem in any hurry. The problem is that I have doubts- s... (306 words)

I feel trapped in my marriage and am just trying to keep peace

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am having a big problem that has to do with trust. I discovered in March that my husband had an emotional affair for the 3rd time in 13 years of marriage. We separated briefly (2 months) and then reconciled. I agreed to recon mainly for the childrens sake and also because he ... (450 words)

Should I Assume It's Over?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4929 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My SO and I have been together for about 2 years. About 5 months ago, his phone calls ceased completely. He's called me thrice in the last 5 months??? He sends texts regularily but I told him we're going to have to be a bit more proactive with the communication. It fell on ... (150 words)

I feel like he should know better about how to please a woman and am thinking of dumping him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Well, I am dating a new guy. We have had sex about four times, it only lasts maybe 2 minutes (premature ejaculation) the problem is I really like him but sex is important in a relationship for me. He does not perform oral sex on me, or seem to want to try to please me knowing ... (118 words)

We kiss every time we meet. How do I contain this? Because I don't want it to go to next level

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4929 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy who i like and we met up and hung out. But at the end of the night we kissed.. passionately! We met again and ended up kissing, we both know it wont go further than this. We just get caught up in the moment and we like kissing each other, it's just a bit of ... (158 words)

He says he misses me so why wont he make time for us to spend alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello All, I met a guy on a dating site, seemed very nice, genuine, went out a few times - its been a month now since we have been seeing each other on and off, but he always seems too busy to meet properly or spend a day together, he has already introduced me to his family, ... (212 words)

I don't know if I could survive an LDR...should I just dump him although it would break my heart??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - From what I understand MOST LDRs don't work out in the end. I understand there are some, and it all depends on the relationship, and the circumstances, but for the most part, I don't have faith I could survive one. The problem is I'm just entering my party phase, and my fianc... (194 words)

We spent a night in a hotel and now no contact...please help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Agony Aunts and Uncles, i have a bit of a confusing situation in my mind. Recently ive been talking to a guy who i became very close to, he always text me 'good morning beautiful' every day and we stayed up til at least 2am most days just talking etc etc, however, the ... (248 words)

Can I avoid running from love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4929 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I got back together with an old flame last month (20yrs ago old flame!), we have spoken loads on phone/ by text and have agreed to take things slowly. I've met his family and friends, he has no kids/ ex wives etc. and is an absolute darling. We see each other once or twice a ... (276 words)

I want to give her a night to remember with no sex involve. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

3 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I want to give my gf an instance night of passion that will leave her shaking in pleasure. Only problem is we've agreed not to have sex and I'm not that good at foreplay. Any thought on how to give her an awesome night. Nothing for me to get of on this night is 100 about her... (76 words)

Do I ask her out after she dumped me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

3 July 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Okay so there's this girl who i really like, she's my ex infact and her friends keep bugging me to ask her out but im unsure and also i do not know how/what to say, she asked me out when we dated and also she dumped me so im lost. How do I ask her out? thanks in advance.... (59 words)

Does a relationship work if 2 cheaters get together?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

3 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Can a relationship work if both people have cheated to be together? Will it have a happy ending or not and how long roughly do cheaters stay together before things start to go wrong? ... (39 words)

We have an open relationship. Does that mean he doesn't love me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi ok i have been in an open relationship for a year now.i know pple may critisize but it works for us we r both not ready to propaly settle down i am not jealouse if he goes and sleeps with other girls cause i know that to him its just for fun for the trips. and i have fun ... (197 words)

Do you think we could get married someday?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - so what if im only 15...i have been dating this guy for over a year ALMOST 2 years. he is my third boyfriend. i love him so much. none of my other boyfriend were like him. he is original. he loves me. he proved it to me so many times. we're not like the other teens in love b/c ... (294 words)

My best friend is rebelling against the guys that hurt her and now I'm worried she is self-destructing herself!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need to understand what my best friend is going through. She is self destructing herself, with constant jump from guy to guy and what she calls meaningless things with them. She has always been a happy well respected girl, she never put herself out there to easily ... (307 words)

I'm with a new guy but still miss one one true love!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4929 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i was with a guy from wales for a year and a half, we were engaged and trying for a child and possibly moving in together.....we seperated for 5 munths and then i got with a reali nice guy whom i have been with 2 months almost, i love him he loves me......thing is i still have ... (83 words)

Feeling withdrawn, depressed and fearful after a break-up. Is this normal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

3 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - After breaking up for good with a girl I have been seeing and communicatin constantly with for the last 2 years or so I don't want to do anything but sleep or stay at home. i am ignorin calls from friends and really dont want to do anything at all. it's been 2 months now since ... (128 words)

I keep away from alcohol because I am afraid I will get addicted, but my bf does not understand!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - If you're aware that you have addictive personality traits and are prone to depression, should you completely avoid something which you could quite easily become dependent on? I can be a rather obsessive person; I tend to get fixated on things which excite me and often struggle ... (219 words)

Does my ex still kind of have feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - A couple days ago my boyfriend of about a month broke up with me because of personal issues going on in his life and because he'll be too busy to be able to balance a relationship. Today I had to meet up with him for the first time since we split because the last time we hun... (296 words)

Should someone be given a chance if they have mental illness?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

3 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey all, I need a reality check... I was with a girl from Sep 07 to May 09, living together... The good times were fantastic but I think she has some personality issues, unresolved anger, etc... that basically put me into a "fixing" her role and when we did fight, whic... (459 words)

Crushing on my friend's brother

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4928 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I seem to have developed a bit of a crush on one of my friend's brothers. Have met him a few times at social gatherings and not too sure if the feeling is mutual? Was at a BBQ and he did seem quite jokey with me, and made sure I knew he was talking to me as he did keep say... (253 words)

I love her but she has a boyfriend, what do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

3 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - VERY strange situation, I have asked numerous people for advice and they are all just as baffled as I am. So at my job, there is a girl who has been coming in for about 2 years now. We began talking a little over a year ago, exchanged numbers and whatnot, and have been really ... (205 words)

Boyfriend cheated on me with my cousin!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi,my problm is relatd with my bf and my cousin.i am in a relationship with my bf frm last 6 yearz.He promisd my parents that he will marry me 4 sure.He married 2 me in a temple but I dn have d proof of our wedding.during dat time my cousin askd me for help in her studies.i ... (96 words)

Successful cheaters only, tell me your stories.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I was curious to hear of stories from women who have had affairs with married men and got their happy ending. Please no slander or judgements, all I would like to hear about is stories that have come out the other side were a married man has actually left his wife for his ... (58 words)

Why do my nipples burn with great pain?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Right, so long story short, I have been trying to conceive with no luck for just over a year. Periods have always been messed up. I'm not using any contraception. I have missed 7 periods in a row in the past and my doctor thought in the early months that i was pregnant. Well no ... (213 words)

She's hot and cold, and stares at me and then looks away. I don't understand what's going on!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

3 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi ladies. Just got a quick question here. I went on a couple dates with a woman almost a year ago and still see her around often. We basically have only said hi to each other and keep moving when we see each other. She dumped me by the way. Anyway, for the past month or so I ... (204 words)

Should I break up with my lying and cheating bf for good??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Agony Aunts and Uncles! Okay, i'm dealing with a terrible situation right now. My boyfriend and i been together for 2 years now and throughout those 2 years, he has cheated 4 times, he mistreats me, he hid things from me and lied to me. Okay, recently he hid our ... (291 words)

Never Ever Give Up on something you cannot go a day without thinking about ... or is that an old wive's tale

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

3 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok ... .. about 5 years ago now .. almost 5 to the day .. I fell in love with the woman of my dreams, a woman that made me feel the way I never thought I would feel, in a way that I didn't think was possible for anyone .. let alone me .. problem was I was a month and a bit aw... (669 words)

I want to know how he feels!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4928 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - For a couple of months I've been talking to a boy who i get along with really well, we can talk for hours until very late. I really like him and he's even told me he likes me too but he's confusing and plus my best friend once liked him a few years ago. I don't want to hurt her ... (249 words)

He says I'm gorgeous, does he like me maybe?

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3 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - a couple weeks ago i broke up with a guy and we are still on good terms, we still talk and it dosent seem to be awkward. but anyways this other guy who im not really close with but i kind of like told me he was glad because i was way out of the first guys league and that i ... (96 words)

Online Lesbian Stalker

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this chic in February while in a relationship with now ex. I met the chic from a site n wanted to get to know her, in a none sexual way. So we exchanged numbers and maybe within a week or so met. She seemed real cool. It was only 3mos later that I decided to cut off the ... (427 words)

Everyone is living their lives, except for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - i am 39 and i feel like my life is going nowhere. just spent another sunny weekend in the house alone while my son is with his dad (a once monthly stay over) after a series of wrong relationships i have taken stock of things and am determined that i won't make the same ... (456 words)

We were supposed to move into together but he broke it off and has a new girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my fiancé was together 5 years and was moving in together in end of march and the day we were moving in he broke up with me as he told me he didn't love me any more.I was heartbroken and didn't see it coming at all. Then the next day rang me to say he made a massive ... (330 words)

Is my girlfriend ashamed of me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

3 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Well ive been with my girlfriend for about 3 years, it's weird she never brings me around her house, never wants to have sex It comes to a point were I have to literally ask her if we are ever gonna have sex or not.. Its sad She broke up with me and after couple weeks she... (196 words)

Why would my ex say all those things if he's over me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Your Open Question: Why would he say all of that? am so hurt:(? My ex boyfriend asked to be friends 6weeks ago cos he's moved on. But I said I couldn't cos I still love him. Last night. We spoke again and told me to move on and find someone better and be happy... (179 words)

Can I make my man's penis bigger?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi am a 21 year old woman and i have a problem my fiance have a small pennis and i real love him so much we are getting married by december what am i suppose to do?is there anything that can help to grew up his pennis?please help me.... (49 words)

How do I get my missing rib back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

3 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi cupid, There was a girl. she was my first girl. the first time we met, everything was fine and really good.she text and call me everyday and night and i also do. After some times, I got serious anger and told her to stop calling me. She asked me what's wrong? I told her to ... (299 words)

There was a lot of suspicious noise in the background when we spoke ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4929 days ago

3 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I just got off the phone with my girlfriend.... and as painful as this is for me to admit something did not sound right. When there is break in talking on the phone there is not a lot of noise, but I heard what sounded like moaning from her, among other"sex noises" I was con... (219 words)

Devastated after going though his phone ....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - was with my man for 2 years until he left me in may 2010 as he had met someone else although we kept in touch.2 months later we started meetin up as friendsm him sayin she was out his life,and he had only done it to push me away.We were gettin on well ( i was over th moon to ... (419 words)

Why are guys pursuing me now? I just want to be friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4929 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm extremely confused and being pulled in a million different directions... bear with me if I get confusing... I recently got out of a very bad relationship. he was controlling, manipulative, and overall not right in the head. I still find myself completely in love with him... (361 words)

After 6 months of friendship, are his feelings changing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hi all, I met this guy and we got close then lost contact for a few years. We got in contact again about 6 months ago and have been talking and occasionally meeting up because we live a long way from each other. There is a lot of flirting involved, but recently he has ... (147 words)

The sex is sooo good but no orgasms!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I just can't figure out why i can't orgasm with my boyfriend. The sex is SO good!! But I've only come close a few times, but just haven't got there. I can orgasm by myself pretty easily. It's really frustrating for both of us! It's been months since we've started havin... (94 words)

Boyfriend never buys me any gifts and has lame excuses!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have been with my bf for 2 and a half years now. I know we both love eachother. we don't live together yet. what really bothers me is my bf has never had a car or licence so I am always the one who has to drive to see him or drive where ever we go. hehas only offered me ... (140 words)

I asked a question and don't like the answer I got!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

3 July 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a more touchy-feely person than my wife is. I think she is incredibly sexy and to show her I think so and to be affectionate I like to lightly slap or rub her bum for instance when she is standing at the sink doing dishes. It's a cheap thrill for me (I think her ass is f... (221 words)

After 36 years married male friend found me. Now what?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age - There a guy that in high school we were cloe and wanted to get involved but slowly drifted apart after goin to college. He's married and I am widowed. He has been looking for me. Surprise he found me. We have talked on several occasions and enjoy conversation. He calls me ... (120 words)

I'm pregnant and found husband is in touch with girl he cheated with. Should I end the marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband used to cheat before and i forgave him he has been proving to me that he was done and he wouldnt hurt me no more .. im now pregnant with my second kid and i caught him on his email searching for the old girl he was cheating on me in the first place . i really love ... (140 words)

I didn't think a crush would go this far!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - when i was 14 and my cousin was 15 we kissed and felt attracted to eachother..even when i was little i had a crush on him but i never thought it would go this far.i know its wrong and our familly would disapprove.i dont know how to handle the situation,i dont know if i should ... (61 words)

What's wrong with me? or is it that my boyfriend cheated?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - can someone tell me whats wrong with me? okay so thursday my boyfriend went to his friends house. and didnt text me for 5 hours i texted him but he didnt text me back. so i texted him again and he finally texted me back. then we texted for 1 hour and he seemed like he didnt re... (326 words)

He caught me fliriting online, and now I've caught him flirting online

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So ok last week my boyfriend caught me flirting online sexually suggestive like, no i didn't send pictures, my number,or ever met up with these two people. From that day i cutoff contact with both guys, gave my boyfriend all my passwords and even deleted my fubar which caused ... (140 words)

I know I can get very controlling, I don't want to yet I don't know how to stop!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost three years now, and I know its about time that I should stop feeling so obsessed and passionate. I am so controlling in our relationship and I don't know how to fix this problem, there were things that happened in my life and the way ... (359 words)

Is he holding me back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4928 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - OK here's my situation. I'm mainly venting, but other points of view would be nice. I'm engaged and we have been together for a little over 2 years; we've got a house but the downside is that there's nothing in the town we live-most people make a living working at the prison, ... (236 words)

At 18 I am bored with my fiance of four years!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - We have been together for about 4 years. Were supposidly engaged,I love him to death, and and i wanted to marry him....but now im doubting this...hes immmature, lazy selffish and an asshole....he doesnt go anywhere with me maybe besides walmart, he hardly ever has sex ... (173 words)

I worry past mistakes might catch up with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4928 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Where do i start, okay so a little over a year ago I made a huge mistake and thought I was pregnant. I told my old best friend (We'll call her C) after I found out I wasn't, she then accused me of lying about it. Of course we quit talking. Right after i found out I wasn't, I ... (240 words)

Why does someone always have to ruin things?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - okay my boyfriend and i wanna have sex but everytime we get a chance someone ruinz it... im just getting confused i want him to make the first move but he keeps telling me tht if i wanna do it to "just pull his pants down"....... it makes me mad tht he doesnt wanna make the ... (122 words)

I want to ask her for a date, but feel there is a far distance between us. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

3 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - It all started when I saw a girl in the university about a year ago .. From the first moment I felt it was a different girl .. We did not talk a lot just to say hello as colleagues. She had a lot of friends and was very popular within the university .. i kept my eye on her for ... (483 words)

Does everyone have a type?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have heard before that people can have multiple "soul mates" or people that they are attracted to or fall in love with. I have also heard that everyone has a "type", and the one they end up with falls into a mold of a person that is their ideal. I've been struggling with if I ... (115 words)

Why is Divorce Ok? I am put off if I find a person is divorced.

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4906 days ago

3 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Im asking the question: Why isnt it shameful to be divorced? Why would anyone admit it? to me it makes the person look selfish and non commital really.. I have to admit it puts me off a person quite a lot. What does everyone else think? ... (48 words)

Can it be true that you make your own luck? Do some people attract bad luck due to their own attitudes?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4908 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi agonys after 7 years of mental cruelty by my son`s father i finally had the guts to tell him exactly how i felt. And what he really meant to me. In the past i held back my true feelings as i still loved him and had hope that he would change to be a warmer loving person. But... (260 words)

Date during the break? Or sit in my room alone all the time?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

3 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I after having been going on / off about ten times have decided to take a three month NC break to see if the issues that were facing us around both our sets of kids, her insecurities with family and friends knowing how we met ( we had an affair whilst we were ... (304 words)

Could being friends with his ex be dangerous? Fourth of July planning help needed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my crush's close friend recently became friends with me. i she and i don't know each other well but she invited me to his house for the fourth of july. i told her i'd love to go but wanted him to invite me so i don't feel like i'm intruding. tonight i will see them both but if ... (154 words)

I want to forget this cheat!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

3 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, i am in a very pathetic situation. i loved a married man for 2 years. he was so nice to me. he showed a lot of love. i knew it was bad to love a married guy who' s 20 years older than me. yet, i loved as i got expected love from him. at last i confronted some money problems ... (111 words)

I fell for a teacher, he kissed me, sent me roses daily, I got sick, he moved on, what do I do now??

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3 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My name is Alex (I'm a girl). I'm a freshman at highschool. When I started school I saw a very cute guy (he must be about 26) who was a teacher at the school (he isn't really my teacher, he doesn't teach at my classroom). We kinda liked each other, we exchanged smiles, we ... (412 words)

When men start to like me, I start to dislike them, why??

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3 July 2011 (?) age 30-35 - the moment i get close to a guy and realise they like me back, i start to dislike them and they begin to annoy me. i don't know why, it is starting to really aggrivate me, does anyone else get this? or know why? because i liked them before and it's not as if i get to know them ... (80 words)

I am lonely and vulnerable, but should I accept what he brings to the relationship??

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3 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I was seeing a guy for 2 years and we got on really well. About 3 months before he started texting my best friend's mate after they met briefly once at a party. I confronted him and he assured me they were just friends. He then broke up with me in October saying I wasn't ... (345 words)