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writes:Hey guys so I like this girl but I don't seem to be able to ask her out. As most of you probably know you want to wait for the right moment but it just hasn't come, there has always been something in the way. So how can I create that moment? Also what should I say? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everyone an I wasn't just asking guys that was just how I addressed everyone sorry :)
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reader, Jay_xxxxx +, writes (8 July 2011):
 I know you have asked for a guys advise, but I have learnt that men and women think very differently. So I maybe able to shine a light on the subject...Ask yourself this, if it was the other way around how would you get her to ask you out?Just pull her away from her friends and talk to her, you don't need to create a moment when you are asking her out, leave that for when you are taking her out on dates!Just tell her what you are feeling, alot of girls love romance and she would probably like to know what it is that you like about her, so compliment her.I know men don't like to express their feelings much so if it comes to that just ask her if she'd like to go to the cinema with you or go out to dinner, you could also make it into a group date.Hope I helped Jay x x x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (7 July 2011):
There's never really a right moment. To be honest, people who wait around for the right moment usually miss out. You should just get on with it and hope for the best.
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reader, spinnaker  +, writes (7 July 2011):
 Some times you just have to throw caution to the wind and do it.
I don't know what interests either of you but I would suppose given your age you would enjoy movies. So as an example you could say "I plan to go see (x) movie friday, if you would care to join me"
Putting it that way is not very forward and a lot less pressure.
Or go to the book store or some other low key place.
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