A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:My ex and I have been broken up for over a year now. She has a boyfriend now. We cut off contact and I thought I was over her during that time. She ended up contacting me and we've been talking and meeting up for lunch every so often. Sometimes while at the bars, we'd dance and make out... obviously without her boyfriend's knowledge.The other night, she was out partying in a different city with her friends and I was at the campus bars with my friends. She texted me and said "not gunna lie, I wanna talk to you." She ended up calling me and we talked for 3 hours. We talked about random stuff and some of our more memorable moments, like sex, dates, crazy nights, etc. She made a comment about how she and I had a great time when we were together. I agreed. I feel like I'm not over her and I'm almost positive she isn't over me. But if she's not over me, why is she still with her boyfriend?
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reader, sammy1986  +, writes (7 July 2011):
being with her boyfriend is probably a rebound thing and they never work i would text her or call her and tell her how you feel its pretty obvious she likes you aswell
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2011): she may be having problems with him. some people when they have problems with their current partner they want to start searching out their options and their ex is one of those options. this doesn't necessarily mean she wants you back...if the problems with him work out then she'll stay with him. She just wants to feel secure that she has options.
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