New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

245057 questions, 1084625 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in July, 2011, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day)

1 (53), 2 (53), 3 (72), 4 (85), 5 (76), 6 (82), 7 (87), 8 (58), 9 (65), 10 (66),
11 (72), 12 (69), 13 (51), 14 (70), 15 (64), 16 (55), 17 (58), 18 (78), 19 (67), 20 (77),
21 (70), 22 (71), 23 (52), 24 (55), 25 (78), 26 (70), 27 (79), 28 (57), 29 (52), 30 (61),
31 (62),

Archived questions from: 8 July, 2011 (see latest questions)

(More questions from July, 2011)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm 15, and this 21 year old guy who has a GF in a long distance relationship, wants to have sex with me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

8 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 15, and the man I am having issues with is almost 21. First off, he has a girlfriend. He is having a long distance relationship with her and he is a bit 'deprived', as some might call it. We started talking about 3 months ago and he always talks about/asks for sex. I r... (412 words)

Do you think he likes me? And do you think I like him, or I just like the attention he gives me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

8 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Last year, I met this guy, and pretty much straight away I liked him. I knew one of my friends liked him so I never said anything, and then they got together, so nothing happened between us. Then I went into my final year at school so just focused on my exams, so I never we... (360 words)

Why do I feel so badly when I should be excited?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

8 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My question is more of a concern. I've been with my boyfriend 3 years and we are very much inlove. We've talked about marriage/kids etc and at the moment were looking to buy a house. However I am so nervous, I'm on complete eggshells every 2 minutes thinking he will change h... (92 words)

My gf makes plans at the last minute, and then gets angry when I hesitate to help her!! What can I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

8 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been there for my gf. I gave her a place to stay when she almost got evicted. I give her rides whenever she needed to handle her business. Just being there for her. But she does things so last minute and she expects for me to jump up and go along with whatever she has to ... (223 words)

How I control my premature ejaculation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

8 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - When my partner and I start to engage in sexual activity, mainly sex, I ejaculate shortly after entering her. Then I lose my erection, leaving both of us feeling unsatisfied. Help!... (31 words)

How do I help my bf through his divorce from his former wife?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4907 days ago

8 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a relationship and my boyfriend is still married. He is separated for over a year and going through with his divorce. I just need to know what I can do to help him with all this and should I be at all. We together as a team at everything we do. I love him and he loves ... (119 words)

My boyfriends parents are driving me crazy!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

8 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, my boyfriends parents are driving me mad!!!! I've been with my boyf for 2 years loved his parents but now they are driving me crazy! I lived with them for a few months when i first met my boyf and everything was fine, then my family bought a flat half an hou... (621 words)

Should I contact him or wait for him to contact me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4914 days ago

8 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. I need help and would like your opinion on this question. If a guy really cares about you and seeing you, will he call you/send you an email right away after not seeing you anymore? For example, since school has ended and he said we would keep in touch in t... (220 words)

Giving Away My Girl to My Best Friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

8 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - No actual names are used My name is Steve and I am a junior at the University of South Caroline. I have been dating Jenifer for nearly 5 months, no rings yet. The other day I had a massive scheduling conflict and had to choose between taking Jen to a party she has been dyi... (176 words)

My nine year old son told me he has sexual feelings about me, and both men and women

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

8 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a son who is almost 10 years old and he resently told me that he's had sexual thoughts about me as well as men and women. What or how should I handle this.....I am concerned that he's thinking about men and myself in that way, but I don't want him to feel as though I ... (82 words)

I really want to ask him out but I'm scared he'll reject me in front of his friends...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

8 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hi, i have a crush on this boy. we get on well, we ocasionally flirt (mindlessy) with each other. but the problem is he is two years older than me and whenever i see him he's in the school yard with all his friends. i'm to scared to go up to him in case they make fun of me and ... (86 words)

B/f wants me to move out, I have 2 month old baby and can't get a job!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

8 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - okay i recently had a baby she is going to be two months in 2 months i dont have my g.e.d im so upset the father wants me to move out and i want to take the baby with me and i dont know what i should do i love him so much but he tells me he wants me out and then 2 hours later ... (166 words)

I lost intensity for things after my girlfriend dumping me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4915 days ago

8 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend dumped me 15 months back saying my personality and financial position poor. we remained together for like one and half year. When I look into mirror and check my financial position then I start forgiving her that she was right dumping me. Now I am on very low on ... (97 words)

Guy I really like left on the last day of college without exchanging numbers...and I may never see him again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4914 days ago

8 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - It's a long story, but I'm gonna try to make it short as possible, there's a guy that I like so much, I've liked him for almost 2 years, and he likes me too. We are both in college, and he always sits behind me in class and tries to find any excuse to talk to me, and all my ... (408 words)

Is it stupid to have feelings for someone I've only met twice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

8 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend from college's home town is three hours from mine. When I went to visit him last summer, I stayed the weekend and met all of his friends. To make the story short, one of his friends contacted me about them comming to visit me. Ever since then, about 5 months, ... (125 words)

Will my parents let me take the gymnastic lessons?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

8 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, sorry if this question seems stupid or something but I'm really nervous. So I'm an incoming freshman, and me and my two friends want to try out for cheerleading next year. I already told my mom my plans for becoming a cheerleader, and since I'm a dancer and really flexi... (211 words)

Opinions on beards please!!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

8 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiyaaaaa, Well this isn't really a problem more off a personal opinion and preference! I don't do art as a subject anymore but I recently bumped into my art teacher and saw him with a beard!!!!! So guys why would you guys grow a beard or you know the facial hair especi... (125 words)

How to get to know him better?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4903 days ago

8 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So there is this guy and I sort of have a crush on him. I want it to go further, I think he is interested in me because he looks at me and gives me glances, when I look back at him he would keep long eye contact. I’ve seen him around school and we smile at each other. School ... (209 words)

I wonder if he actually likes me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

8 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I dated this guy for about three months. We broke up about a year and a half ago. I came to realize after a while that the true reason he dumped me (I think) is because he wasn't over his ex-girlfriend who he dated for two years In high school. I took the break up really hard, ... (329 words)

Beautiful woman extremely friendly to me at first meeting. Red flag?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

8 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Right, so my mate and i were at a pub couple of nights go, and im sitting at a table, and i notice a drop dead gorgeous woman sitting with a friend. Friend goes up to go the ladies room, so gorgeous lady is sitting alone. I whisper to my mate to challenge him to go up and chat ... (315 words)

Why doesn't he share his fetishes with me? Why is he hiding them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

8 July 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - my bf watches asian soft porn when im not with him have never discussed this and i found out by accident . im not asian by any means . he also has a pantyhose fetish and shoe fetish why dont he share this with me .... (46 words)

How can I trust my family again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

8 July 2011 (F)

age - when i was a very young child i was a victom of child abuse for 12 yrs,i was in a abusive relationship (my first adult)i fell pregnant to that man then after baby i abused myself with drugs alchol and sleeping with anything that moved, 29yrs on i reflect on my life more now ... (126 words)

How can I let him down easy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

8 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hey i'm friends with this guy, and he's really sweet he keeps on buying me food and he wants to go on a date, but i dont want him that way. and i dont want to lead him on, how do i gently tell him this without hurting him?... (49 words)

I've been involved in a few indiscretions since he left for vacation. What is he going to say, and what should I do to make it right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

8 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been with my boyfriend for a 2 months now but we were seeing each other before. one night i was at a seshion and got drunk i ended up being all over this guy. he heard i was all over someone and we met up that day to talk about it and to see each other before he went on ... (370 words)

My friend lacks confidence! It seems like she needs a man to be complete..Can I help her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4915 days ago

8 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, my best friend since high school is a serial dater/serial I need to be in a relationship kind of girl. She has been in a relationship ever since she left for college. Ever since she went off to college she has been hanging around people that aren't good for her and ... (727 words)

Why do some guys date pregnant women?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

8 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've heard a few stories of guys dating pregnant women, who are pregnant with someone else's baby. Meaning she got pregnant and then they met/ got back together after she got pregnant. Why would a guy want so much baggage? You would always be put second, as the baby is more ... (103 words)

I am married but this other woman will not leave me alone!! Help!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

8 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm 35 and married. In March this year, I started flirting with my female colleague. After few weeks, we realised that we both had a lot of things in common and we're sexually attracted to each other. She told me that she wanted commitment, so I told her that it was not ... (329 words)

Do you think it's possible that she's nervous around me? I mean, do you think she likes me too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4915 days ago

8 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what to make of this. I am a 17 year old gay girl and I am madly infatuated with this girl who is in one of my classes. She seems very shy, talks to almost nobody in class (unless they talk to her first) and I always catch her sneaking glances at me. I first ... (463 words)

Is it okay to cry so much, in front of my girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

8 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Im in a distant relationship with my cute girlfriend, i really love her so much, i always write poems and songs for her, Everytime im with her as we talk deeply i really lose it and cry in front of her, even when she is not there, everytime i send her something as " miss u " ... (132 words)

Will I end up lonely ? Should I lower my standards ?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

8 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I think I am the most complicated person ever! I'm 25 but have been though more in my life them most people twice my age. Thing is I'm terribly lonely but I have huge issues that stop me finding anyone. I'm a lesbian, I'm more feminine then most heterosexual women, I'm not ... (382 words)

Why does he treat me like this, I'm carrying his baby !

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

8 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a big problem im 7 months pregnant from a guy who is now disrespecting me, hes very abusive emotionally and physically. He calls me names the after day he told me he made out in a park with a girl he met on blackberry messager group. he keeps telling me im not his ... (133 words)

I want to look experienced even though I'm not, help !!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

8 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey so I've got a difficult situation to deal with. I really like a guy, and he really wants to have sex. I'm a virgin, but he thinks I'm not. I think I'm comfortable with vaginal sex, but he has somewhat of an obsession with getting head. I've obviously never done this, and ... (145 words)

He has a girlfriend but he's so irresistible I just can't help myself

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

8 July 2011 (?) - Hi everyone, after a year of this problem growing, i feel i can't quite fix this and need some advice! 2 and a half years ago i moved in with a guy, i've always considered him my flatmate even though we have an intimate relationship, we sleep in the same bed. i like him and r... (559 words)

Should I let him see his son if he's clean ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4911 days ago

8 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - _bout a year ago me and my husband separated for about four months. I dated a guy and he dated alot of girls. Well i feel in love and got pregnent. I already had a son with my husband. We turned out after i found out i was pregnant my bf had a meth addiction in the past and was ... (149 words)

Will he ever stop cheating on his GF and be more than a FWB to me? He is my first lover

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

8 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I dated this guy and we broke up on our month Anniversary and a month later we began to have sex. About every month we meet up once or twice to have sex. Most likely he is just using me because I am an easy target for him. He knows he's my first and that I have only been wi... (305 words)

How can I change to be a better me ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

8 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a fairly confident person. I get on well with a lot of people. I am friendly, im sensitive, I feel I am genuine, nice etc. People have told me this on a number of occasions. However, I have lacked confidence for a fair while due to all these negative thoughts going t... (226 words)

I broke up with my married lover. Will I ever find another man who thrills me like my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4911 days ago

8 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - well, i had an affair with a married man and broke up. I know loving a married man is not good, but i got the love i expected from a man. I did it considering his wife. I felt sorry for her and walked away from him while he was crying. Am I happy now??? No way! I feel sad. I a... (273 words)

Spotting but still no period, am I pregnant ?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4846 days ago

8 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i need some help urgently and i would really appreciate if someone answered this. okay so im 17 and i had sex a week ago(28th june). i was supposed to get my periods around the 4th to 7th july (my last period was on the 4th june). On the 7th of july i noticed a few spots of ... (189 words)

When will the hate go ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

8 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I *hate* my ex. I hate the year I wasted trying to work things out. I hate that I still worry every time the phone rings that it will be her. I hate that I let her pressure me back into a relationship twice. I hate that I let her steal my stuff. I hate that I didn’t tel... (167 words)

Make a move or move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

8 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I have this friend, which is a guy, and we have been talking on and off for about 3 years now. We both go to different colleges which are states away, but whenever he comes back for any break, we spend a few days together. Whenever we do spend time together, we have a ... (181 words)

He's around 23 and I'm 18. He keeps touching me. Does he like me? Or is he trying to take advantage of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

8 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I have a huge issue. I kinda liked this guy, and I met up with him today for the first time in about 2 months. We hung out in this old shopping center (fun place to hang out) and then we headed out to a park closer to his house. I will admit that I kinda had a crush on... (330 words)

This is my first relationship with a boyfriend. How do I act towards him when we go back to school?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

8 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - okay hey i just got my first boyfriend and i dont know how to act or what to say to him when school starts what will i do when i pass him? What will i do if he comes up to me. can someone please help me.... (47 words)

Should I follow my heart OR just settle?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

8 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, Agony Aunts, I'm completely torn. 4 years ago, when I was 18, I met a guy online. It was casual, we were just friends at the time, but there was an obvious mutual attraction. We are in a very complicated situation because he is in the Coastal and we live on different coast; ... (815 words)

Why does everyone like to talk about themselves but never want to listen to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

8 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Why is it that people want me to listen to their life stories constantly (females especially), but when it comes to me, everyone just thinks of it as annoying. Is there a limit on how much you should talk to yourself? I know that my aspiration to talk is what has caused several ... (96 words)

How do I figure this guy out? One day he flirts with me. Next day he ignores me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

8 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Is it smart to kiss this guy? Let me explain him real quick. He is cocky and flirty (in teasing manner) and tends to shoot for "out of his league" as people say. I've been friends with him for about a year (a year older) and I really like him. He sometimes (a... (208 words)

Hate is a strong word. But do you think it fits? considering how she is relating to me now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4916 days ago

8 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Does it sound like she hates me? There is a girl and we used to flirt a lot and were friends until I made her mad. She used to always say 'hi' and spend special time with me. Lately she avoids me completely and will greet everyone except for me. I said 'hi' to her casually... (114 words)

My dad is taking my marriage advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

8 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I need advice on my relationship with my dad. My parents marriage has had a lot of turmoil for several years, and recently, it's gotten even worse. On the one hand, because my dad and I are very similar, we communicate well and I tell him the most about my issues and vice ... (215 words)

My friend is always unhappy. How do I tell her to move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

8 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help. My friend has a guy friend that she likes and he was her first kiss. He used to call her beautiful, and once he got a girlfriend that whole close bestfriend relationship changed. She tells me that she doesn't find herself beautiful. And she doesn't believe anyone ... (119 words)

Why do women get involved with married men (or men who are in committed relationships) and stay with them for years together, waiting for "their man" to leave his wife/mate?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

8 July 2011 (F)

age - Why do women (of all ages)get involved with married men (or men who are in committed relationships) and in some instances stay with them for many, many, years, waiting and hoping for "their man" to leave his wife/mate? Despite you academic success, your successful career, your ... (65 words)

Recently separated from my husband, should I now confess my feelings to my ex who is also my FWB?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

8 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been having problems over the last 3 years, which have escalated to several talks of divorce but then he always tries to convince me that things will be better. During this time I ran into my ex unexpectedly (almost 1 yr ago). My ex and I have a child ... (413 words)

Should I cheat on a potential cheater?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

8 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it wrong to cheat on your boyfriend if you think he may have cheated on you? I know most of you will probably say - YES! and that we should just break up. But lately, it feels more like we are dating casually than boyfriend and girlfriend. We have been exclusive for 4 ... (242 words)

I like my sisters potential boyfriend but I don't know what I should do..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

8 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So my sister likes this guy who is my age. Shes only a year younger. Were both in high school but go to different schools so i've never met him. She told me a lot about him and from what I heard he was definitly my type. We like the same music, same personality etc. But i never ... (415 words)

I miss the one that got away

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

8 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - dear cupid. the boy i feel in love with is gone now and its been nearly 2 months since ive last seen him. i miss him. He doesn't use facebook or anything. i think i should move on and i don't know how to i just always wake up during the night crying, there is someone else i l... (96 words)

Me, him and the baby mama

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

8 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating this guy 4 a yr now. when i met him he said he was single but has a child. i asked him a few times about baby mama n he said they were over. To cut long story short he lied about breakup with baby mama. Today his baby mama saw us together n she flipped on him. ... (100 words)

I'm in a disaster waiting to happen

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

8 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i'm in a really big pickle right now and i need some serious help before everything comes crashing down. i had been with my ex for two years before we broke up. we broke up about two weeks ago because i caught her having exchanged phone numbers with someone else and they st... (476 words)

Now what do I do, how can I tell if she likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4916 days ago

8 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I posted a question here a couple of days ago and got some quite helpful advice so I thought I should try it again. Anyway the girl that I though liked me but wasn't sure and then felt bad for not doing anything before she left is coming back for a couple of days. We used to... (165 words)

My husband is always crossing the line with females!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

8 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been with my husband 5 years married nearly one. weve always been up and down..but thats just us. but as long as ive been with him and dated him..he alwayss crosses the line with female friends. hes always flirting etc. and it bothers me to no end. i dont do that crap to ... (142 words)

I love her but I keep catching her in lies, and she insists she's telling the truth even when lying right to my face!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

8 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Sorry for the length of this one. Im in love with a girl I have been friends for 5yrs and lovers for 5 months. We were co-workers/friends about 5yrs ago, parted ways, kept in tough and now in love and happy for the most part. Only problem are the skeletons coming out of he... (752 words)