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writes: I have a problem, I have this friend that has a girlfriend, he has said that he isnt happy with her, we get on really well and I think Im begining to have feelings for him, he has been round my house and I have been round his, on each occassion we have started watching tv, he has put his arm around me and kissed me on my forehead, then we would look at each other and start kissing. The other day I went round to his and things got a little out of hand and we had dry sex, we both enjoyed it, but I feel really guilty about his girlfriend. Its not the sort of thing I would normally do. What shall I do??
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2011): If you are feeling really bad, then you will not allow this to continue. Period.
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reader, person12345  +, writes (7 July 2011):
 This can't end well if you have an affair. Generally this is the point where he's thinking, hey I can have two girlfriends now! If you want to make sure he truly wants to be with you (you don't know he's unhappy with his girlfriend, he could just be saying that to cheat) you should stop hooking up with him and tell him you won't continue unless he breaks up with his girlfriend. And mean it. If he doesn't, he never intended to be with you in the first place anyways and isn't worth being with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2011): If you're feeling bad about this then you already know what you should do. Break it off with him until he breaks up with his girlfriend. And he's not that special if he would do that to his girlfriend. Don't you think he would do the same to you if you two got together? Think about it and for the time being, move on.
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