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writes:So there was this girl I liked a few months ago. She is 14 and I'm 15 and we both go to different schools. She liked me back and when I asked her out, she said yes. Then she texted me saying that she wanted to hang out more before we date. We weren't able to hang out much because her parents are divorced and so she can only hang out every other week. She ended up dating this other guy at her school for 3 months and broke up 3 weeks ago. We started talking again and it seems like she may still be into me. We are hanging out with a friend of hers and a friend of mine this weekend. I want to find out if she still likes me. Also, my friend is trying to set up a kiss between me and the girl. Is this wrong to do? I want to and would think that its ok if we both like each other. So my questions are: How to tell if she still likes me or how to get her to like meIf it is ok to kiss her if she does like me
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (7 July 2011):
 Well if she wants to hang out with you and texts you frequently then these are good signs that she likes you, it will be easier to judge when you meet up with her at the weekend rather than trying to guess how she feels right now.
Watch her body language at the weekend and see how she behaves around you - does she stay close to you for most of the night? Does she make lots of eye contact? Does she talk to you more than anyone else? Is she flirting with you? If you get these signals when you are together then I think it is safe to say she likes you.
As for kissing - DO NOT let your friend set this up, it will make her feel uncomfortable and pressured. But if, say at the end of the night, you have got on really well and spent lots of time with her, and it feels right - then kissing her would be fine. But having you friends set it up is just childish and it wont be a good thing, she really wont like it. Only kiss her if it feels right, not because your friends want you to.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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