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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I don't like sex, people think thats a bad thing

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

25 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am an 18 year old female and I dont like the thought of sex, at all. I think its repulsive and gross. I am still a virgin and perfectly okay with it. I dont see how its can be enjoyable or pleasurable for anyone. I have not been brainwashed by society, porn, ... (169 words)

I think I'm more into her than she is to me and its bothering me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

25 July 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Good Afternoon, Couple of months ago i had posted a question on this forum and i got some great advice from folks here on site. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-girls-like-their-space-will-she-feel.html I have a followup question on the same girl. Things have ... (650 words)

Where can my boyfriend take me away to relax?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a little bit stressed at the moment and i've asked my bf to take me away, I just mean away from my house for the day (sadly come home in the evening /early hours of the morning lol) because things are rough at the moment and my mum wont let me sleep over anywhere. I ... (107 words)

Fallen and I can't get up...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

25 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 29. The man I have been with since I was 20, the only man I have ever had sex with or even kissed, and then married at 25... has delusional jealousy. Life sucks. I don't have the strength to leave him. I love him still to an extent, even though a lot of the positive ... (287 words)

Will he ever respect me or should I just move on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

25 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys now i have been seeing my boyfriend for 17 months yesterday we got into an arguement and i called him immature and a wannabe because he made his female friend fall off a rope while she was walking on it and also turned her kayak and made her fall in the water , she has ... (315 words)

How to face my girlfriend after 7 months break up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a very arrogant and proud guy being from very rich family here. I get everything in my life without dropping a single drop of sweat . 30 months back, I fell in love with a amazingly beautiful girl here and I kept my family status in hide from her for initial three months ... (575 words)

Any ideas on what tricks I can do, to teach my new puppy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

25 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am getting me a Boston Terrier it is a female what kind of things can you teach a puppy? I have had cats so i am not use to having a puppy of my own. so i need some ideas on what to teach my puppy. so if you know of any ideas please let me know ... (59 words)

What should I wear on a first date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) age 30-35 - What should I wear on a first date, I want to look nice but not too try hard. Also I dunno how much make up to wear or how to have my hair. Any general tips ?... (37 words)

My adult son has shunned me, because I moved away from the family! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

25 July 2011 (F)

age - New to DC! Hello everyone. I'm a 56 year old female. Mom to three adult children.(2 kids are in their 30's and youngest is 20) I am divorced since 2000; currently in a long term relationship for 8 years. My current partner and I have always planned to semi-retire and live ... (879 words)

How do I find a counselor in the UK?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

25 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, how would you get referred to a pychologist or a counsellor in the UK, preferably without going to the doctors? Im 21 yrs old and have been depressed since i was about 12 years old and at times has been pretty bad. It went away but has come back in the past 2 years. Im a ... (123 words)

How do I tell my son that he will be seeing a father, he barely knows?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

25 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - First I would like to thank everyone for reading this. So here it goes, I just had found out that my kid's father was granted for an access to see him. I've been reluctant to agree with this due to my kids father hasn't been a father to my child. I have been taking care of my ... (189 words)

We had split up because he was not serious about our future as I was. Should I take him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I was talking to this guy for a year and a half. We weren't in a relationship and I was gone for school most of the time. We "liked" each other, flirted etc Eventually I told him to go away since this wasn't going anywhere. After that he says he realized what an idiot he... (429 words)

Problems with my ex...how do I handle this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

25 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I told my separated husband I'm pregnant. He still wanted to make it work. I asked him if he was sure. He said yes. We continue together for a month, within that time I took him to interviews he needed help with his car I help him get it fix. After the car he said he confused ... (150 words)

Telling my lover he can't come to my home..will make him angry! How do I deal with this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

25 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I know I will be judged for what I am about to write, but I am just looking for open minded opinions. I am a 37 year old female, have been seeing a 39 year old married man. I was in a relationship myself (not married, but dated and lived together for 10 year) My ex found ou... (590 words)

I want a family, he wants to join the RAF. How can I end it without hurting him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, well this has been a really hard decision for me to make and to be honest I'm still not a 100% sure if it's the right decision either. Me and my boyfriend have been together for over 5 years now and we seemed perfectly happy together, we wanted the same things but ever... (286 words)

Am being silly because his friends kiss each other on the cheeks? This makes me uncomfortable!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - hello i am here once again, as i always do if i have a problem and know you agony aunts and uncles put my mind at rest, how would you take this, me and my man of 2 year go out with a couple of other couples, so they is six of us that go out, have a drink sometimes a meal and ... (418 words)

I hate my in-laws! What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4846 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) age 51-59 - OK. This question is for anyone who has in law problems. I can't stand my in laws!!! They have never been really nice people . I'd love it if we never had to see them again! But that's not an option. Despite the problems with them, my hubby won't just tell them like it is and ... (178 words)

All the signs are there...so do you think he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Im not sure weather this guy likes me. He was bugging me since friday to come out on saturday and i didnt so he bugged me to come out sunday, so i did with my friend who i always go out with when we see them. He doesnt have my friends number but he knows her quite well and ... (163 words)

Should we still just be fooling around at 7 months or should we be taking it to the next level ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been messing with my guy bestfriend for a while now, about 7 months. We normally text everyday, from the time we wake up til the time we go to sleep. (Normally he falls alseep first so in the morning he responds to the text from me the previous night) He's a very sexual ... (688 words)

I'm pregnant and nearly married but my partner has changed;

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Well i have been with my partner for 3 years. ^ months ago we split up dor 6 months but he said he loved me and wanted me back. When we got back together all our previous problems seemed to have dispppeared and he proposed. Wedding is in 9 weeks and is all paid for im also ... (323 words)

Do women look too ?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

25 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - A question that will ignite a debate, we men although may have the most beautiful wife/girlfriend but we keep on looking at other women, we don't get enough! although we may be having the best woman...Are women like us in nature, do they look at men even if they are in a ... (53 words)

Cold texts but warm body language, what does this mean ladies ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ladies help me out with this one, girls are sooooooo difficult to figure out. I used to work with this girl, every weekend. I think she likes me because she is so shy around me, makes effort to speak to me but recently has been going so red in the face because of co-wo... (337 words)

Why was she sitting on his lap? is it all as innocent as he makes out or was he cheating again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Last year my husband finally told me the truth about what really happened when he was involved with another girl before we got married. We have been married 4 years, together 10 this year, and about 5 years ago he cheated on me with a coworker.. So I was on the net this past ... (315 words)

Ready to loose my Virginity, so whats holding me back ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Physically and emotionally, I'm certain I'm ready to lose my virginity. I'm in a relationship (albeit a long-distance one) with a man whom I care about very deeply indeed, and I know the love and trust I feel for him is reciprocated. Even if we weren't to last forever I ... (170 words)

He's a virgin and I'm not

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

25 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all! Hope you are doing well. Got a bit of a connundrum to deal with today and any help is appreciated. What does one do when they are more sexually experienced than their partner? My boyfriend is a virgin. I am not. We haven't had a serious sex talk. I don't think eith... (351 words)

Is sexy an attitude or a physique? Can fat women be found desirable and sexy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a question for the guys: Can a fat girl be sexy and desirable? Being overweight, I have always seemed to have a hard time finding a partner that was attracted to me in a healthy way. What I mean is that it seems guys tend to fall in the extremes: either they aren... (168 words)

I don't know how to get through to my father

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I really need some advises from you guys to help me to improve my relationship with my parents. I don't understand why my dad always over worries about me and he always try to suck extra economic and political knowledge into my brain. I am already excellen... (369 words)

Not sure what to make of my ex's messages

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - What is going on with my ex ?. We broke up in May. He broke up with me. He dumped me for a girl he spoke to online, who he has never even met !. We live in England, and she lives in America. They spoke to each other through webcam and microphones. We had been on and off for six ... (222 words)

How can I tell if he wants to take things further?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - what do you do when you feel like your bf's wants to do a ''home run '' on you??, and especially, what do you do in the case that your not ready to do that??, ( i think we've already done second base ... should that be a sign that he wants to go further?? like reeeall ... (58 words)

Am I expecting too much from him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So, ive been with this guy since about the end of school..., hes my best friend, we have so much in common and sometimes i really think hes like THE right guy.. but i still think about something that concerned me first at the beginning of our little relationship...his age, and ... (210 words)

Should I avoid going to his house?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) age 26-29 - I got invited on a date with this guy and I'm meeting him at his house. He said we could have some fun and I put my foot down, he said he wouldn't try to make me do anything I didn't wanna do. He says he doesn't want anything serious and only a bit of harmless fun. He also ... (174 words)

I didnt get any closure, why did he do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Has anyone else here ever felt this way ?. I was seeing a guy for two months, and he stopped contacting me in May. I am 27, and he is 50. The age gap didn't bother me though, and it didn't seem to bother him. The last time i had a night out with him, he got threatened by this ... (1427 words)

How can I stop my lack of trust towards women and the fear of unknowingly raising another man's child from affecting my relationships?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

25 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi guys,something has been bothering me for a very long time and has affected my relationships with women big time! From an early age among friends and family members many have accidentaly discovered that one or two of the kids they were raising with their spouses werent even ... (353 words)

Do I persist, or just accept that he took advantage of me and its over?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone - please could I have some help. I met a guy at a party last week and we did some stuff together (he wasn't drunk at the time, I was a little bit). Nothing major, but it was like really intense and I felt more like connected to him than I have most other guys. He ... (178 words)

My boyfriend earns more than me, should he pay for more once we buy a house together?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

25 July 2011 (?) age 41-50 - Hi. I have just had an interesting conversation with my colleague. I am about to buy a house with my bf of 18 months. He has fronted the 10% deposit for the house as he has managed to save really well over the last couple of years whereas I am c**p with money. We are not ... (302 words)

Any last minute tips for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I think I've made up my mind. I have posted some questions asking for help or advice because I'm very shy in matters of dating. I think the girl I have been dating just lost interest in me. I'm sure its because I haven't dared to kiss her. So tomorrow, I will go visit he... (134 words)

Is she trying to shrug me off? Should I keep trying to contact her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

25 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - There was a girl who I thought we got along very very well for 7-8 months, then she became very very withdrawn and quiet. We haven't spoken for 3 weeks now, I was the last one to text her. We met 3 years ago in a few days time, had we still been good friends, I wante... (317 words)

My sexuality is not up for debate, but one family member has said such awful things in front of my partner!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Am needing some advice, so hoping someone out there can help. I’m currently in a long term lesbian relationship. My partner and I are very happy together and moved in together about 4 months ago and things are still going well. Everyone in my family can see how happy I am ... (912 words)

I cant stop calling and texting my boyfriend! How can I stop this madness?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear all, Please help!! I am so clingy, and insecure that I keep calling and texting my new BF of five months. Sometimes up to five times a day, and it's starting to drive him mad, and he says he thinks I am keeping tabs on him. I am so so scared of losing him, and feel so ... (266 words)

After I orgasm my boyfriend cant keep touching me as its unbearable for me, do I have a problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, When I am masterbating with my boyfriend and he is rubbing my clit or going down on me it feels great and I can cum... But the problem is I can cum then it is unbearable to have him keep touching my clit, like I can't take it anymore~ It feels so great to reach orgasm ... (133 words)

What do guys think of my body shape? Is it a turn off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i am really shy about my body. its not curvy and nice like most girls. im not fat, not one bit.. but im really tanky. so i have a guys body sorta. its really embarasing and i hate wearing bakinis because i dont like my body. what do guys think about this? is it a turn off? ... (60 words)

Should I worry he might be losing interest in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, Out of the blue my man asked me if I was losing interest in him. Of course I told him I wasn't because I'm not, and asked him the same, he said not at all! Do you think I should be worried that he might be, or was he just feeling insecure because he just lost his job as ... (83 words)

I hate not being able to sort this out right now! How should I play this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - How can I say sorry more than I already have? Ok lets cut a long story short: - -Been seeing this guys since March he lives about 2hrs from me and I am so in love with him its untrue -I still live with my ex as neither of us have anywhere else to go until the house sells -... (277 words)

How much does your first time hurt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - On a scale of 1 to 10, how much does your first time having sex hurt? just out of curiosity... (20 words)

I want the money I gave him back now I found out his debts are due to an ex! What should I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My parter is 40 and I am 27, we live together and everything is great relationship wise. However, my parter is broke. He is in debt to up to 30,000 and he is paying it back slowly. To make matters worse his income is very low so this will probably take about another 15 or 20 ... (250 words)

I took the coat to her, so surely she should be the one to travel to return it to me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I am hoping you could give me some objectivity here. You see my gf and I broke up a few months ago. It was an ugly break up. A lot of wounds. Still, there is anger and resentment on both sides. Now, while we were dating I lent her an expensive coat my mother owned because sh... (381 words)

Pressure over lending money to my fiance, please help!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I need advice. Basically I am engaged (have been for a year now). I am working part time at my dad’s shop and generally trying to make money for the future. My girlfriend has been unemployed for about 2 years, she has tried her best to get a job but has had no luck. Her ... (458 words)

How do I act around him at work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What does he mean by that? I really like him.;)..x? So I've finally given the guy at work my number, he rang me and we talked on the phone for over an hour. He said he likes me but he didn't think I'd give him my number, he wasn't expecting it. He sounds like a good guy... (170 words)

Guys: Why might I seem unapproachable? What can I do to change this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

25 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi there. this question is aimed at guys specifically but ladies feel free to answer too. I am a 21 year old female and i am a university student. i have been struggling with trying to get dates. there are plenty of guys at univerity and i go out plenty but i can never seem t... (220 words)

Trying to pass off another man's child as my husbands....Is this really such a big deal?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

25 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 2 months, but pregnant with another man's baby. i dated by husband for 3 years, but he really treated me badly for a while. I fell pregant by him and he "forced", me to abort, which i regreted.I resorted to cheating on him with another man and planned to ... (172 words)

I am still desperate for him to love me, although I am not sure if he does. Any views on this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) age 30-35 - Hey. I posted a question relating to this a while back and it would take a while to rewrite concisely so please view this before reading: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-has-caused-this-outbreak-of-non-platonic.html Anyway... I still really like him (my friend.) I think ... (1043 words)

Is rubbing my head a sign of anything?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok...this is a bit of an odd one...guy I'm seeing for 4 months, always rubs or strokes the back of my head. when were out and were standing next to each other he rubs the back of my head with my hair. Im wondering is this a good sign. Means he sees me as mate etc? Were not ... (117 words)

What is the typical refractory period and number of orgasms for men?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

25 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - What is a typical refractory period for men out there? By refractory period, I mean the time it takes for you after an orgasm to be erect again and ready for the next round. I'm sure it varies a lot, and surely varies with age. I'm just interested in a cross section. Also... (73 words)

Girlfriend is accusing me of seducing other girls with eye contact! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend says I seduce every damn girl out there in shopping malls , market places and on streets using my dirty eye contacts and movements. Last night,while crying, she warned me if I couldn't get this stopped , she would dump. I talked to her in details to make her... (105 words)

What gives women the right to judge men for having been to prostitutes?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

25 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Every time a man complains about a woman's sexual past he gets told he has no right to talk about it. But a lot of women will judge a man if they hear that he has slept with a prostitute. It's hypocrisy. If the past can't be held against one gender then why can it be held ... (349 words)

Are thee any feelings there or was it all an act? Where did I go wrong?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

25 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - now i want you to know... my ex is bipolar. so confused someone help. my ex gf came over the other night and hung out with me when she got out of work. was a little past midnight and we ended up talking and hanging out till about 3:30 or 4. she told me how much better i lo... (385 words)

Should I take a chance with my ex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex that i lost my virginity to has contacted me through Facebook, it's been 8 years we were each others first we had a deep love and we had a horrible breakup. he hated me for a while but then last year over Facebook we would write statuses sbout one another without actually ... (163 words)

Boyfriend abruptly deleted his Facebook account and I'm suspicious.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

25 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My LDR boyfriend abruptly deleted his facebook account yesterday and I think it's very weird. But maybe I'm just over-reacting ? He didn't even mention it during our conversation. Only later when I text him to ask did he text back that it was getting to be too annoying wit... (268 words)

I don't want any drama but feel like I am being taken advantage of....

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

25 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - A man that I was seeing for 3 months has gone overseas. He has been gone for 4 months and I knew as soon as I started dating him that he would be leaving very soon to take this trip. We were crazy for each other so we went ahead and kept dating anyway. Everything has been fine ... (378 words)

My ex cheated on me with my best friend and now everything has turned upside down!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - dear users , this is actually a story can be made like a movie !!! ... i won't say much details but i will tell you the outlines and i want you to help me choosing the right way , 4 years ago i was committed to someone " a guy" we lived a great love a story , " a real grate... (928 words)

Should I stay with my girlfriend? Leave her for my best guy friend? Date a different girl? Or go to college single?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So this is a bit of a sticky situation. Over a year ago, my best friend (turning 20 years old this December) was suicidal and I (just 18 this year) was her go to person. During one of her episodes she confessed that she couldn't be with the person she wanted so badly. I asked ... (629 words)

Does he just want sex? Or is he interested in me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

25 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - This is a question that I'm hoping some men might be able to answer. Ok,here's the story. Met this gorgeous guy out of the blue a couple weeks ago. Turns out we both were incredibly attracted to each other from afar. He approached me,we chatted a bit,exchanged numbers,and ... (434 words)

Did he just use me for sex? How do I get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i broke up with my bf a couple months ago. we were together for about 4 years and things were starting to go sour... we tried to mend the relationship but it was too broken to go on. after the break, we kept it friendly, but i never stoped loving him. i like to believe that he ... (206 words)

Dating a new guy but my ex is back on the scene....what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4868 days ago

25 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - so there was this guy i dated for almost 4 yrs, we were crazy in love and he meant the world to me,after 1 yr of being together i feel pregnant we were so happy life was perfect for us, when our daughter was born things were great, but she fell terribly ill at 6 months old and ... (311 words)

Should I say happy birthday to my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So my and I have been broken up for 3 months now and at first we tried to be friends but i couldnt handle it cause it hurts so much and it was to awkward..so we haven't talked to each other for awhile now. I feel like I'm not over my ex yet, but i'm getting there. But anyways, ... (85 words)

Is it wrong to date 2 girls at the same time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so i havent really dated much in the past. Ive only had a LTR which ended about a year ago and i havent gone out with a girl since. Just recently i met a couple of girls and i was needing some advice. Theres this girl i met and i am extremely attracted to her. She is real... (202 words)

Should I blame myself, or prove to him that he is to blame?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have finally ended my 7 years relationship with my bf and I don't know if It is right. I didn't cry at all and it feels strange. He blames me for everything that happened between us. He said that he run away because I have pushed him so hard and he keeps on explaining the ... (335 words)

Struggling to trust him and I don't know if this relationship can be saved......

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4866 days ago

25 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for one year and 3 months. Recently I had to move back to my home province to get my life sorted out. Our whole plan was that we both get our lives sorted out and go back to school. After we're done school I'd move back to the province ... (584 words)

Friends with benefits with one guy, and now a second guy has given me his number. I don't want to play them both - how do I handle this?

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25 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been having a sexual relationship with someone at work. It's been going on for several months and I have no idea how long it will last. I think I have developed feelings for this person but don't want to admit it as I don't want to end the relationship we have now. ... (118 words)

Is there any way this could go wrong?

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25 July 2011 (F) age 30-35 - There is this guy who works at this store that i used to visit three times a week for half a year because of my work. It was obvious that we were both attracted to each other, just too shy to do anything about it. You know how sometimes the way the guy looks at you, how they ... (225 words)

He is still friends with the girl he cheated on me with!

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25 July 2011 (F)

age - I am seeing someone who has slept with a girl he was sharing a house with when we were together but going through a bad stint. He didn't tell me I found out months later through someone else. She hates me but he has remained friends with her and every time we have a fight he ... (109 words)

Is a threesome classed as cheating?

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25 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend wants me to get with another girl cos he thinks it will be such a turn on. I don't mind I said il do It but is it classed as cheating if he was there? And where can you meet a girl who will wanna do it? ( no escorts or anything like that) Thanks ... (61 words)

The passion that my GF had for sex, is dead and anytime I try get it back I get shot down. Suggestions anyone??

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25 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - so my lady is less and less interested in sex, she has never been one for foreplay and she hasnt let me get her to orgasm in just under a month and i am finding that my own self confidence is crashing because i feel like my gf is just going through with sex to make me happy and ... (166 words)

Where is she going with this?

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25 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - THE GOOD: Okay so me and this girl I'm into have hung out twice, alone. The first time was coincidental but we ended up spending 6 hours together. Then, I asked her if she wanted to do something together again and she said yes, so I took her out and then we spent nearly hal... (496 words)

How can I show her that I want to change and things can get better?

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25 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. I've seen a few questions on here, and I feel like you guys probably can help me.if not. Please try. My wife and I have been married for four years, but were dating since our sophmore year in highschool. All my life I've dealt with an anger problem. During my child... (434 words)

Introverted and feel like I am missing out. Any help to get past this?

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25 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ive always been shy and not very talkative and as ive grown up this has been such a big problem. People never recognize me as im too quiet. Im too nice, i never say no to people, as a result of this people use me. I have no self confidence and i really wish i did becaus... (122 words)

Any advice on what boys like and don't like, how to flirt with a boy, and how to gain confidence in myself?

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25 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ive just finished my last year in school and i start college in september. I never really had many boyfriends throughout my highschool years as i never really thought it was something i need. However, im now 16 and would like to have a boyfriend sometime, the thing is im ... (115 words)

Broke up with my BF because he was "sexting" this other girl, but now I want him back!

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25 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically, I've just recently split up with my boyfrienda month ago because he was 'sexting' this girl, we saw eachother a couple times after but now we don't speak at all because I deleted him off facebook and stuff, (I done that cos I thought out of sight out of mind but that ... (161 words)