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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I help someone who is grieving?

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27 July 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - how can i help my friend deal with the death of her mother? she is forty something. single, has custody of her brothers child and she is a nurse. she lived with her mum but aside from being mum and daughter they were best friends too and went everywhere together. her mums ... (169 words)

I need help with my 14 year old daughter...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

27 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi a have a question I have a 14 year old daughter that shocked me today. she call me and was going to ask me a question and me messing with her I said no u can't go to your friends house before she asked her question and then she said forget it now all upset. so I said I j... (169 words)

Help! I am failing for my FWB partner...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I have a friends with benefits thing going on with a friend..we full around once in a while.. I try not to meet up with everytime he calls.. Due to that I'm getting emotional attached to him.. I haven't really opened up to him of my feelings.. Due to I don't want to ruin ... (68 words)

I'm lost and confused please help. any advice will help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

27 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I broke up on new years eve, ever since then he is been going back and forth. He would start seeing a girl they see right through him the she split he would come back to me. one time he was dating this girl we both work with and then coming to my house everynight. she ... (343 words)

Very extreme, unhappy love. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

27 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, Imma 14 year old girl and I know this is gonna sound stupid but this is something that tears me down nowadays.. Im not just another foolish young child, I have an idea of the world and I understand what people will say, I don't just live in another dream world (-; Im m... (353 words)

He said he was an accident but why was he hiding my little girls underwear in his closet?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

27 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey all. I really need some input. Last November...of 2010, my ex was at work. We were together (in relationship) at the time. Something happened while he was at work, to make me want to search his apartment. Can't recall exactly what it was, but isn't the important part. So as ... (318 words)

Why is this happening when he touches me to roughly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year. Lately he's tried a new fingering technique which makes me bleed while he does it. He has been going deeper and does it harder than normal. I've never bled during sex or fingering before. Could he just be being too rough? I... (66 words)

How should I deal with my father-in-laws bizzare behavior when he is at our house?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 31 year old married woman. We have had a difficult time of late because my father-in-law is visiting and while he loves his family, he hates everyone else. He calls other people "outsiders". He gets upset with my husband when other people come over because he lets ... (159 words)

How do I "wow" my fiance' again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

27 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So my fiance' works a lot. I mean... A lot. 80 hours this week. Just this week. He comes home and he is tired.. In which case I do understand. When we first met, I was 80 pounds heavier than I am now, and he says that he loves my body.. and maybe its just my self ... (102 words)

I love him more than anything, but he's not right for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4895 days ago

27 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend (Let's call him Jeremy) and I have been dating for over 10 months now. We've liked each other since we first met, and we'd been best friends for 3 years before we even started dating, because he was dating another girl during those years and I was with someone else ... (1424 words)

I just discovered that my wife has been living a secret life, plz help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

27 July 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - My problem is this, i am/or was a happily married man of 22yrs w/3children. We had what i would consider very minor and infrequent everyday life problems that u plow thru as a married couple, like kids,money, etc... I recently discovered that when she went out with her facebook ... (278 words)

I love him but he can't seem to keep a job...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4893 days ago

27 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm currently in a long distance relationship for almost a year and a half. I'm 25, he's 26. We have both decided to save some money in our current jobs, get things together and then move in together. Originally we thought he would move to where I live (Canada), however we ... (516 words)

Her 16 year old son is ruining our relationship. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

27 July 2011 (M)

age - after 2 and a half years of dating my girlfriend tells her 16 year old son that lives whith his dad about us and he flips out and tells her if she does not break it off with me he will mever hav anything to do with her again. now she says she has to choose her son and maybe in ... (107 words)

How can I get my boyfriend text me more and become romantic again without sounding needy or clingy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello there.... I've been with my boyfriend for almost two months now...In the beginning, he was the most affectionate and romantic person in the whole world! He would kiss me and hug me all the time which I really enjoy since I'm very affectionate too. He works freelance ... (407 words)

I think I have a really high sex drive, is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I think i have a really high sex drive. This in itself is not a problem but im just wondering if it is normal to have one as high i as i believe i have. I get myself off at least once a day and on some days it can be up to 5 or 6 times. I don't have an obsessive charac... (431 words)

Is my boyfriend's mother too clingy or am I being over sensitive??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

27 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year now, he's 20 and I'm 18. He's just about to start his third year at University and I'm about to start my first University year in the same city. He's an only child, and his parents had him quite late (his mother was 38, and his ... (336 words)

Both me and my crush are shy, what's the best approach to take?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello :) Basically I really like this guy, but he's SO shy. I'm pretty shy too, but i like him so much that I've tried to just sort of go for it. I've dropped some hints so I'm sure he knows i like him, but I think he's too shy to make the first move, or to tell me to back off ... (94 words)

I get him off, but he doesn't seem like he wants to get me off. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend, who is 21 and without any previous sexual experiences, and I (20 and having already had one sexual partner) have started becoming sexually active just within the past few weeks. I just started giving him blow jobs within the last week. I've given him two and he ... (544 words)

Is my bf spending too much time with his ex?

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27 July 2011 (F)

age - Is my boyfriend spending too much time with his Ex? They have been divorced for 11 years and they have a 19 year old daughter. She is a wonderful girl, they did a great job of raising her. I am also divorced, with grown sons living away from home (meaning: I understand ... (213 words)

Just curious, why do parents put their kids into honors classes they aren't ready for?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

27 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm an incoming freshman who attends public school. Its a good school, but not the best. Its just a regular school but has alot of very intelligent people. Anyway, earlier this year course selection. You teachers would write down our reccomended classes and we'd choose ... (175 words)

Is this a possible date? Could a relationship come from this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

27 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - How's everyone doing. I'm 18 yrs old and live in the US. For about 4-6wks I've been/ met this girl who at first I wasn't much attracted to both physically and personality wise. And in the first week or so of meeting her my feelings for her started developing, and I actually got ... (337 words)

Should I come out and be honest about my sexuality?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - okayy im 14 and definitely a lesbian , have know for years , and the other day the pressure of it all was too much because i told my friedns about it but felt like i needed and adult to talk to it about ,not my family though coz i dont want them to know , so i told my ... (207 words)

Will he catch my genital warts?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi me in my boyfriend had sex twice with condoms. And I have genital warts. Will he catch it, even though we use condoms ?... (25 words)

Any advice on masturbating without direct touch?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Heyy, I've recently started masturbating and I love it! I've been using a vibrating massager which I put on my knickers. I prefer doing this than touching my vagina with my fingers. Is there any other ways I can masturbate without touching my vagina directly with my fingers? T... (53 words)

Struggling with work, what could this be and how can I get back on track?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

27 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, this is not exactly a relationship question, but I need your help! I'm a text writer. It is expected of me that I write 3/4 texts each hour of a workday (8 hrs in total). I've only been doing this for 4 weeks. My problem is that lately I can't seem to concentrate anym... (182 words)

Will I ever be enough for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Will I ever be enough for him? My boyfriend and I have a one year old child together, he also has two other children that he has full custody of. He never puts my sons needs first, me and my son are always coming up short of spending any time him. He kicked me and ba... (187 words)

All he can ever say to me is "I wish I loved you"! Why cant he like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey. I'd like help from guys around 17 but ayone would be a read great help right now. Im popular,funny,confident,outgoing but most guys will just call me ''fine''. ok why is it that out of the 2 out of the 6 bestlooking guys in my school wanted me, but the one i want no matter ... (108 words)

Should she enema before first time anal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

27 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I am looking for advice on whehter my GF should use an enema before first time anal sex. I have heard many pros and cons. Pros being that they obviously clean things out, cons being that they can irritate and make poo that would otherwise stay put, a little runny and can make ... (171 words)

If this guy is serious about meeting me, is it reasonable for me to ask to meet him half-way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 July 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Readers, I need some advice please. I have been in contact with a guy in Sydney over the last 2 and a half years. The contact to be honest has mainly involved pics and phone sex, a little bit of chat about life etc although to begin with he did communicate to me more so wi... (521 words)

I never enjoy sex....am I doing something wrong??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear All, Since i started having sex, i never enjoyed it,i thought maybe i was doing it with wrong people but only to find out that is the same, i started having sex by the age of 19 and now im 21,i dont know wheather im doing it in a right way or what? please help.... (59 words)

Is it legal to date an ex teacher?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

27 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Is it legal? Some close teachers, were aware I had feelings for this teacher. and they were actually okay with it! He never taught me. And yes, mostly everyone has agreed he feels the same. Question is, would he be in trouble with the law? Thanks for answering! ... (56 words)

Is it ok for 17 y/o to date a 15 /yo??

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27 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it ok for a 17 year old (like me ) to date a guy whos almost 15?...... (18 words)

How do I get it across to him that I want him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 July 2011 (F)

- ive made such a mess of things and Im so depressed about it. I finished with my boyfriend 2 weeks ago because of something so trivial. A couple of days later I realised Id made a mistake and told him I wanted him back. He said he needed time to think about it. A week later he ... (503 words)

Should I stop watching porn?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

27 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Can anyone tell me of any reasons that they can think of as to why I shouldn't watch porn? I watch it every couple of weeks, or so - just when I'm in the mood to. But then I feel sort of guilty, like I shouldn't be watching it. Do you think I should just allow myself to watch ... (71 words)

Relationship troubles and thinking of another guy.....what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i have been with my boyfriend almost 6years now and i am in my early 20s. We argue a lot and he doesnt really treat me well all the time. I recently went on holiday and met a guy out there, nothing happened but we liked each other and since i got back i cant stop thinkin ... (108 words)

He hasn't said anything about last night......

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 July 2011 (F)

- I am living with my boyfriend. We are together a year now. He has a 7 year old son. He had to work last night so I was babysitting his son. I hadn't heard from him all night so at 10 I text him and said we are off to bed and what time would he be home at? He started telling me ... (244 words)

How do I tell him I don't want anything from him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - There is this guy that I have know forever. He likes to party a lot and all the girls he has gone out with always end up without him. I have had a crush in him for years now but nothing every happened between us. I recently came out of a relationship myself and want to make ... (327 words)

The ex that wont go away.....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My relationship with my husband has been one I have never experienced. We met online and 7yrs later we'd never thought wed be this happy as parents. There's one issue that has haunted our relationship since day 1-his ex girlfriend. She is a mutual friend of his, we run into... (267 words)

I havent had sex in 2 years and scared of getting emotionally attached....should I go for it anyway?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so me and an old friend got in contact through facebook.. We've talked met up a couple of times.. Well I remember I used to have the biggest crush on him.. He was even my first kiss back when we were in our teens.. Well we're older now and we kind of have this attraction ... (258 words)

Ex girlfriend said I did nothing for her.

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27 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex gf popped up and we got into a huge blowout. She yelled at me, insulted me and said stuff but when I said the same thing to her it was a blowout. She started talking about how she did all this stuff while we dated, I'm not good with relationships, I was told by ... (175 words)

Is there anything we can do to improve our sex life? I don't know why I'm not interested in sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I have been married less than a year. The problem is that I have very little sex drive. I have never been interested in having sex with him, aside from when we first started sleeping together (and even that was short lived). He was the first. I am generall... (249 words)

Does he like me or am I getting tricked?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - A really popular guy is always saying hi to me and asking me how I am and he asked me if I wanted to do something with him when my friend left. He's got some friends who are super-popular and i'm a nerd. Is it possible he likes a nerd or is he tricking me? I've fell for a ... (66 words)

I found out that the man I was dating is married...now what?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

27 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I was dating a man for 3 months and a week ago I found out that he is married. His wife read my message on his phone, contacted me and told me that they've known each other for 11 years, are married, have a 6 year old child and that she's now pregnant with his second child. ... (316 words)

Would you enter a relationship knowing it would have to end?

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27 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, My question is: Would you enter into a short-term romantic relationship knowing it would have to end? I ask because I have seen people do this with no problem and I can't do it and am wondering if maybe I am missing out. At summer camp this summer, a few America... (216 words)

Should I be specific and let him know that I'm looking to finish what we started the other night, sexually?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Went out with a guy twice (but kind of knew him through mutual friends before that). First time, he was a perfect gentleman and only hugged me at end of night. A few days later, he invited me impromptu to hang out at his house w/a few guy friends (after I called [I]him[/I] ... (695 words)

Lack of intimacy with my boyfriend is really hurting....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

27 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. I'm a very physical person, he's not. that presents a problem. He will not have sex with me for a variety of excuses, the most commonly used one is he's afraid to get me pregnant (I'm on the pill, we'd use condoms). th... (169 words)

Would you do extreme commuting to be with a partner?

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27 July 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi Ive been with my partner almost 3 years now, its a distance relationship. We get on fantastic when together but sometimes the strain of being apart leads to a few arguments. We both have decent jobs we have had for 20 years and dont want to give them up. Weve talked ... (278 words)

Should I hold back my feelings out of fear?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) age 41-50 - I desperately want to tell him my feelings but I hold back out of fear of rejection. I am afraid that he doesn't feel as strongly about me as i do about him. We have never expressed our love but i feel his actions show otherwise. He is married but it is more like a living ar... (225 words)

Since he confessed he loves me he has backed off! What is going on here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, a guy recently confessed that he has been in love with me for around four years and that he never had the guts to ask me out because i was in a relationship during that period. the guy is very cute and i just cant get how he has loved me for so long because though many thi... (123 words)

I want to quit masturbating!

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27 July 2011 (M) age 26-29 - I find it hard to quit masturbating I do it daily and I mean I just dont want to do it anymore. does anyone have any advice for that, other than just dont do it? because trust me I tried to quit cold turkey but it didnt work. please help... (50 words)

Do emo boys go for non-emo girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not emo and find some emo boys attractive. Do you think straight emo guys would go for a non-emo girl?... (21 words)

Should I take my ex-girlfriend back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend, after having spent two years together, dumped me April last year saying I was doing smalltime job , so I was too poor to afford her. Now two nights back, she resurfaced , telling me that she wanted to come back. She knows I am still doing smalltime job and ... (127 words)

What is going on with my ex? Do I have another chance with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4892 days ago

27 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So my Ex girlfriend I dated over a year ago just broke up with her boyfriend a cple weeks ago, and lately shes been askin me to hang out quite a bit, but the last few times have been different than just a couple of friends hangin out. The other night she asked me to hang out ... (351 words)

All about tattoos...just how bad is the pain?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this isn't a relationship question, but I get a lot of great advice from this site and it's always my first choice. My question is for those who have tattoos. I've been looking at a lot of tattoo related things lately, and my biggest curiosity is the pain. I've heard... (151 words)

How many months should pass after a serious relationship ended before a new relationship is not consider a rebound?

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27 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So almost everybody tends to have a rebound relationship after a serious relationship ends...my question is, how many months should pass after a serious relationship(Like 1-2 yrs relationship)ended before a new relationship is not consider a rebound P.S I'm not in a rebound... (54 words)

Trying to get back with my ex but he has just told me there could be a woman pregnant with his child....what should I do?

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27 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my ex have been trying to get back together for 3 months but today he told me there might be another female out there that maybe 3 months pregnant with his child, but he doesn't know for sure. my question is should I stay and wait to see if it true or should I just say ... (64 words)

I'm pregnant and want a family but BF doesn't want to get married, although he says he loves me.

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27 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend always said that he loves me, that i'm the girl he wants to be forever with but he doesn't want to get married, now i'm pregnant and he still doesn't want to get married. Honestly i feel he's never going to change his mind and i really want to be married at least ... (113 words)

Does he like me? Or am I getting "played"?

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27 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy. I like him and we hooked up when we were drunk. Instead of us becoming awkward though, we started talking more and got to know each other. I've told him before that I think he was a "player" but after a lengthy discussion, I took it back and said he was a ... (285 words)

How can I help my sister deal with her BF and a potential LDR?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4881 days ago

27 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My sister's bf decided that he wants to move away to place A which is in state X. He is from place B which is in state Q. He felt that he was unable to accomplish anything in state Q and he has expressed how sick he was of this state and the people he surrounded himself by. Th... (327 words)

Am I wrong in thinking that we're too far along in this relationship to play hot & cold "thrill of the chase" games?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Still negotiating through my 1st relationship (9 months so far). Here's the situation: I adore my boyfriend. I love him and love to take care of him--I want him to succeed in life, to feel loved and cared for, to realize the potential he has. I've helped him through some ... (198 words)

Is he breaking up with me? Does he just want a break? Is he waiting for me to respond?

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27 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together four and a half years. We had a huge fight last week (about a lot of little things, both of us wanting attention, affection, more time together, etc.) and he told me to give him his house key back and he threw mine at me. He even blocked ... (448 words)

I'm a VIRGIN and I don't deny it!

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27 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello there! Ok I seem to be so confused! Im in highschool and in the words of other people im ''a trip, funny, popular, cute, pretty, fine ,curvy, athletic, confident, independent, smart, loyal'' i was even nominated most outgoing and most outspoken and id like to say im a ... (197 words)

I was mad and cheated on her, but now her family and friends hate me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex and I got into a fight while we were still dating and I was mad and cheated on her. I felt horrible and told her about it the very next day. She was mad and we broke up. A few weeks later we got back together and I cheated again. This all happened a year ago. since then ... (150 words)

How do I talk about sex with a man who was sexually abused by his father?

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27 July 2011 (?) age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I am dating a guy that told me he had been sexually abused by his dad. I knew he didn't have a great relationship with his family, but he brought it up in a strange context. We were in bed after he had stopped me from going down on him. He said that he felt lik... (557 words)

I'm having second thoughts about moving in with my boyfriend.

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27 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been planning on moving in for a couple of months. Last month two of his friends asked him to stay with him for a while until he was. They're a couple. He allowed them to move in but did not tell me. He said it was a short term deal. I have been away and ... (299 words)

How long do you think a guy waits to pop the question?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I am 20 years old and my bf is 25, we have been together for a year and a few months. We both love each other a lot and we have made it a point to include each other in our separate lives since we started dating. I know all of his family and close friends very well and ... (491 words)

It's really hard to spend time with my bf because his roommate always tags along

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

27 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend is bestfriends with his college roommate they are going to be Jr.s this year and have been rooming together every year and both summers they take every class together, and join all the same activities if one jumps the other jumps and its really hard to sp... (280 words)

My boyfriend is really self-concious?

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27 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So the other day, I asked my boyfriend to wear a t-shirt I liked. He agreed, but instead of changing shirts in front of me, he went into the washroom and put it on then came back out. I've never seen him without a shirt, but I didnt realize he was that self-conscious? ... (102 words)

I don't want my parents to know I lied to them about my boyfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

27 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so I broke up with my ex a few months ago. We'd been on and off since fourth grade, and i still like him Some people told me he was spreading rumors about me, but he said otherwise. I was upset, and didnt want to break up with him just because of some rumors that may or ... (147 words)

Do I tell my boyfriend how badly depressed I am?

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27 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - We've been going out for awhile, but he's not used to me sharing emotional issues. Or knowing how to comfort them. I appear happy and normal to him. Inside, my depression is very severe. When we dont see each other, it's even worse. I feel like I need to warn him how many... (92 words)

Is it weird that my friends and family think my girlfriend is perfect, but I don't?

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27 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - ok, so my everyone thinks my girlfriend is perfect. they all think she is smart,funny,nice and beautiful, the problem is i'm not so sure. i find a lot of the things she does annoying, i mean sometime i really think i like her, but other times im not so sure. one second i'll ... (137 words)

I find myself attracted to older men.

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27 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi there, i am a 21 year old female student. basically, i find myself attracted to older men. i mean i have a limit. but i find that i find men older than 30 most attractive. and i don't just mean lookswise but also i find them a whole lot easier to talk to. i have tried g... (176 words)

Is it me or to women get over with child support?

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27 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im not sure why/when child support payments got so high. I understand your child gets 20% of you money but that still seems like a lot. When I was growing up my father had 4 kids and had to pay my mom 200 a month ( he hardly even payed that). My mom used that money for things I ... (678 words)

I am starved for in depth conversations?

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27 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like my boyfriend. Physically, we have good chemistry. But conversation wise, I cannot get him to talk extensively. He is so quiet, I have to drag conversations out of him everytime I feel like discussing something.And the problem is, Im very interested in what he has ... (198 words)

My bestfriend's brother is texting me. I don't want to reply and risk losing my friend. What do I do?

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27 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so i have had the same best friend for 6 years and we are always together which means im mostly over her house, she has an older brother and we fight all the time, some say like a married couple, but she has said that she doesnt have friends that like her brother. we text... (99 words)

I'm horny all the time. Is this normal?

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27 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, to jump straight into it im horny all the time and dont know what to do. iv always have a very high sex drive, but lately its much worse. latley im finding myself mastubating at any chance i have, but once i do this about half hour later im horny again. iv had... (95 words)

I can get a roomate or move in with my mother for free and save for a house...advice?

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27 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all, After a horrible year and a break up with a guy with an addiction, I feel like I want to get my life on track. I'm 37, now single, female with no kids. I feel like I have wasted so many years on bad choices and now would like control in my life and would like t... (256 words)

Should I get back together with my partner or go travelling?

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27 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My partner and I broke up a couple of weeks ago. We desided it would be best to take a good break from one another as our whole relationship we have been living together. I was really gutted about the breakup and really love him alot, we are getting along alot better now and ... (147 words)

We are a really close group of friends but lately I have slowly been kicked out!

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27 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - my friends phone just rang me in her pocket and i answered and could hear all my friends at a sleep over with out me and i could hear them bitching about me being a bitch and a slag... i text them to say i had heard all this and im not answering when they call but they sent me ... (136 words)