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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is he to young?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

29 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 22 year old female and I like a guy who's 19 he likes me too. Is 19 too young?... (21 words)

How do I feel better about myself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Im never satisfied with my looks, and feel ugly all the time. Some people say im pretty but I never believe them. Im not very popular or outgoing, im very shy. How do I feel better about myself?... (40 words)

I can't get these cruel words out of my head

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

29 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together 6 months and everything was going great however I did always feel a bit smothered, if I wanted to go out with my friends he ALWAYS wanted to come along. My ex boyfriend is an event ticket salesman and there were Aa few events he had free... (333 words)

Sad and worried about my marriage

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

29 July 2011 (F)

age - Hi. I have been married for 21 years and my husband is the love of my life. lately though he has been working (from home for ever) and won't do anything at night, besides watch TV. I suggest things to do even free events and he is never up for it. sometimes he just sits at his ... (200 words)

Should I feel like crap because I let him win? or do I ignore it and see what happens?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I have been together for almost 4yrs now. I'm not even going to get into our history because it's been a long, exhausting, emotionally draining rollercoaster of him cheating, neglecting me, and just being a jerk in general. Lately, it seems that his answer to ev... (585 words)

Is he leading me on? I really thought he liked me but I'm not so sure now

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I honestly thought this guy liked me. He really doesn't like affection, but doesn't mind when I show him affection, and shows me much more affection than I've ever seen him show to anybody else. He flirts with me a lot. He compliments me a lot and notices small changes in my ... (318 words)

Suggestions! what can we do when she comes over so I don't bore her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everybody. I've come to this site seeking some suggestions and maybe even some tips? My situation is this: I've been texting one of my friends back and forth and while doing so, we've gotten a bit close and I learned how she really acts compared to how she is in ... (171 words)

I never used to have problems lasting during sex, now I do! help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, Im 18 and have been with my girlfriend for a year. I'm worried about sex. I've been with about 5 girls over the past couple of years. But when it comes to sex i'm always worried about lasting long. I had no worries or troubles with lasting long with my first... (177 words)

How do you get through those first few days after a break up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 July 2011 (F)

- I will keep this short and sweet. Whats the most effective method of mending a broken heart, in the early days when you dont even want to get out of bed and when you feel so low you actually dont know what to do. I know the cliche - time is a good healer - but how do you get ... (82 words)

Guys, would you be put off by a 21 year old virgin?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

29 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi there! im 21 years old. i'm a university student. basically i am still a virgin and never had a boyfriend. its not that i don't get asked out. im a normal girl, love going out and having a good time. but i guess i just haven't met a guy i liked enough to get intimate... (147 words)

I've been hurt before and I don't want it to happen again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I,m in a bit of a dilemma and i could use some help. Last night i went out with my friends and one of my friends brother. Now i hardly know this guy but his sister and my best friend told me he's a nice and sweet guy. Last night I ended up snogging him and spent the en... (152 words)

I've got a grudge holding problem, how can I fix it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

29 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 15, and I have a huge grudge holding problem. I can't help it! I know its wrong and immature, but once i get them, they never go away. I've been told countless times just to let it go but I can't. I feel like I'm "punishing" them for what they did. Almost like if i let it ... (108 words)

Is it normal for a man in his forties to have a sex drive this high?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

29 July 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Is it normal for men to have the same sex drive in their forties that they experienced in their twenties? I'm in my mid forties involved with a lovely woman who commented about my high sex drive and being very sexual, but not in a vulgar, pornographic way, but more along the ... (201 words)

Should I feel ok about my fiance telling me to put on some weight?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

29 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - should i feel ok about my fiance telling me to put on some weight and try do something about it or should i let her deal with my nature of being skinny? really like her but being under lot of pressure by her. is it right that skinny and not skinny dont match in relationships? ... (57 words)

How come it's much harder for a man to to find someone to cheat with?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

29 July 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Statistics show that the number of both attached men and women that cheat on their significant other are about equal. If this is true, how come it's much harder for a man to meet a woman to cheat with than it is for a woman to find a man to do the same? Women have a much easier ... (132 words)

Is he finally realising what he lost or is the jealous dog coming out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Its been three months since we broke up, maybe more, which is a good sign since i stopped counting the days. I feel im at that point where, yes im thinking about them still, but they aren't my only thought. So i began to move on, i have been getting close with someone else, bu... (416 words)

Feeling guilty for lying so much to my ex, help me get rid of this guilt

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend dumped me one year ago. We remained together for two years. It was long distance relationship with occasional meeting here and there. When I looked back into that relationship, I felt guilty and ashamed for lying with her about my job and salary . I exaggerated ... (229 words)

I'm 33.....time to be an adult! Any ideas?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok. I'm a 33 yr old male. I have no children. I currently am single. Here's what I have learned about myself in the past 6 months after the woman of my dreams walked all over me. I was 23 and thought to myself there has to be more enjoyment in life than this. I worked as a ... (265 words)

Depressed boyfriend now he has quit drinking and I'm not sure how to help him.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. My boyfriend recently quit drinking, about 2 weeks ago. Since then it’s been an up-down rollercoaster with him, and I just don’t know how to help him. He’s been depressed, irritable, overall moody. And since most of his friends drink, it’s been even more difficult because ... (365 words)

Why do I feel like I don't want a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Lately, I have been pondering if I really want a relationship. Being a quiet, observant guy all my life, I seen how much of a hassle relationships are whether it be from school, college, or my siblings. At the same time, I do want to be in a relationship, but that's proba... (182 words)

Left my ex and got with a new guy, but now I miss my ex and have ended it with the new guy! What should I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So basically about 5 months ago I came out of a 2 and a 1/2 year relationship with someone called Adam, our relationship was one of those where then it is good, it is really good and when it is bad it is really bad. We had, had our ups and downs to say the least, as time went ... (420 words)

How can I get over my anxiety? It is holding me back in life....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

29 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - How can i get over my anxiety ?. I am unemployed at the moment, and i enquire about, and apply for , jobs and college courses, e.t.c, but sometimes, when i have been offered interviews , i have been too scared to go and haven't gone to them. And i have only been offered a few ... (194 words)

Guys: Would you ever approach an average looking girl?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

29 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am wondering if there is anything that an average looking girl could do to grab a guys attention? Is there a (non-slutty) way she could dress? A specific perfume? Any behavior? Something she could say? Have you ever developed an attraction for a girl after hanging out with... (91 words)

Is he just not interested or does he really like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What should I do? is he just not interested? I really like this guy at work. He's really friendly and lovely. He stares at me when am not looking and looks away when I catch him. I gave him my number, we were chatting on the phone for over an hour and he said he likes me. Lik... (139 words)

I am really hope we are not drifting apart...what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I know i sound paranoid but..., its summer break and i miss the guy im with, we haven't been speaking as often,n i guess its because its summer break and hes got a guest at home but still... i just hope we're not drifting apart... hes also my best friend and i dont want to ... (75 words)

Should I stay in this relationship even if it is only for friendship and the occasional hookup? Do my son and his father need to know about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 July 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a 43 y.o. woman divorced for about 4 months. I started seeing a guy in January, but it has been an on and off dating thing. He has potential, but I don't feel like getting into a strongly committed relationship yet. We date, go out, have sex when we can at his place and ... (206 words)

How can I stop myself from falling in love with my best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

29 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How can i stop myself from falling in love with my best friend? I'm freely bisexual and so is my best friend. Anyway, we have flirted a lot in the past but nothing had ever come of it. We have only known each other for like 6 months but we just clicked and ever since have got... (141 words)

How can I improve my attention span when studying?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I can't be attentive in my study.when i start studying i frequently lose my attention.after reading for so many times i forget what i read the previous day.how can i complete my studies in due time with proper attention? ... (39 words)

It breaks my heart that he may not be over her and that he lied to me....What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive just found this page and I have a question that I need to find an answer to. I have been seeing this man for about five months. I do like him very much indeed and we have a great time together but the point is that our relationship is rather complicated. For what he told ... (521 words)

Why has she gone so quiet? What is wrong with her? What shall I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - This is about the girl whom i love.. She is now abroad for study and for now she is having her exams.. The way of us being in contact is internet chatting or calls.. Regular calls is not possible. So just facebook mails and chat is the way. But now a days i don't know whats ... (403 words)

Turned on by porn but not my husband!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

29 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi!I'm a 31yr married female and i love watching porn so much and it always turns me on but when my husband touches me or does foreplay with me i don't get turned on and i don't even enjoy sex but before i used to enjoy it. i don't know why is this and he tries everything but ... (83 words)

What does this dream mean? I'm scared to sleep in case it happens again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

29 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. Last night when I went to sleep, no dream no nothing, and this morning I wake up, and i got out for a bit, theb went back to bed rough two hours later. I had felt it was needed. Then about an hour later, I'm waking up screaming and crying my eyes out. I had a ... (193 words)

I don't know why I am with her anymore! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My gf had a past. she had her ex for 4 yrs. even after being in relationship with me, she cheated me behind my back.she used to enjoy with another guy who was attractive and was her college mate.I made her realise her mistake on time.Now when she has no one with her,she is ... (144 words)

Love triangle with my two best friends.....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have two best friends. One's a girl, let's call her Mary, and ones a boy, let's call him Jack. Well Jack is dating Mary and what she doesn't know is is that I love him.. And That he loves me too. A couple weeks ago I told him I loved him and to my surprise he loves me too. ... (150 words)

If I get a job my child will suffer, if I don't I will suffer through lonliness! What am I supposed to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

29 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi My husband is the only son of his over possesive mother.We are married 10 years but .My mil stays with me....who thinks herslef as Mrs.Perfect.Bcoz of her constant critisim I lost my cofidence .I took up a job...but she was not ready to take care of the house or child.I... (192 words)

Should I keep waiting for my ex girlfriend to come around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - im just a guy, pretty confuzed about this situation. i knew this girl for 4 years, as soon as we met we became best friends for a year, then decided to date which lasted 2 years. we broke up because another girl who was jealous of our relationship was giving me false info about ... (468 words)

Why is she not dying to be with me, like I'm dying to be with her? Even if she doesn't want me, how can I be closer to my daughter?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

29 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi i have a big problem about my relationship, any one for honest advices?.I met my gf at work where we were colleagues together it was october 2009 when we started dating. Now i am in another job and she is still working there.I really love her so much and she is too. We have ... (459 words)

Is this normal? Has anyone else experienced this before?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Its been a week after my period and I feel off an on emotional and achy legs and some fatigue here and there. I had (anal) sex 12 (almost 13) weeks ago. He didnt ejaculate in me.... had 3 periods since so we can cross off pregnancy. I have been working out more often... (150 words)

Dating tips?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

29 July 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - How can I find a girl I really like? I've been really depressed lately and haven't been talking to many girls because I always get lead on. Tips?... (29 words)

I don't know what to do or feel anymore.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi again! So the last time I was on here my question was about an ex and now I'm sad to say that I have a new ex. We had been dating for a year and 3 months and now we've broken up. The past 3 months have been on and off bickering about silly things and I kept telling myself ... (212 words)

Our families will never approve of our relationship but we cant live without each other! What should we do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a bengali brahmin and my bf is marwari. I am a student preparing for medical and belong to middle class family. N, my bf (two years older than me) has passed b.com with quite good marks. He has 5 jewellery shops of his own and has quite high status. We love each other ve... (112 words)

Any "happy ending" love stories?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

29 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - There are too many "my horrible love life is slowly killing me" posts. Anybody have any happy ending, true love, stories? Thanks! :)... (26 words)

Never had a girlfriend or even been kissed and this bothers me to no end!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

29 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am an 18 year old male. I'm kind of frustrated. It seems that every one of my friends has a significant other and when I hang out with them I always feel like I'm getting in the way. I have never had a girlfriend or even been kissed and this bothers me to no end. I go to bed ... (168 words)

I really don’t think he will cheat on me, but there is a nagging worry in my mind. Am I over reacting? Or should I be cautious?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4844 days ago

29 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am really sorry that this is so long and if anyone does read all of this then I deeply appreciate it. I’ve been with my boyfriend 'Carl' for 11 months now and things are pretty good between us and we’re gonna try and attempt a long distance relationship in ... (684 words)

My lover and me are both trapped in loveless marriages and are hopelessly in love with each other...and now I think I'm pregnant with his baby

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I was wondering if I could get advice any would be appreciated. Where to start... I have been with my current Partner since I was 18 years old we met in college. We became best friends and fell in love we know we are soul mates... this is where it gets complicated we ... (245 words)

I feel that I'm taken for granted and undervalued. My boyfriend has all the benefits whilst I don't get the one promise that I want!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, please help! When i first met my bf he seemed so overwhelmed with love - as is typical i expect. Anyway over three years on, been living together for two +, he has waivered between talking like he wants to marry and have kids and acting otherwise. I wasnt bothered... (342 words)

I cant deal with the fact that my boyfriend of two years suddenly wants to break up with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Wednesday night my boyfriend of two years unexpectedly rang me up and asked if we could just be friends because he didn’t want to be in a relationship. I feel like someone ripped my heart out, I haven’t stopped crying since. I love him so much and although we have only bee... (295 words)

Any advice on this situation? because I can't stop these tears from falling, but this isn't the first time

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. Well my boyfriend, who's my ex now, has been treating me terribly. We've been through so much, well i've been through so much with him 'til it doesn't matter what he do, i'll take him back. He has been caught cheating numerous of times, 5 times to be exact, he's very ... (279 words)

Do I take heed of the Value Judgements of others? Or can my fiance and I find happiness following our dreams to help others?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

29 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - im having a bit of a personal crisis in my life right now, this may take a while to explain so bear with me. When i was a teen i had 2 best friends, we had all been home schooled and spent as much time together as we could. that all changed once we started dating. we all hit ... (589 words)

I am faithful to my current Girl friend who means a lot to me. My ex just causes me grief and will not let me see our child. How can I stop my ex hurting us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 July 2011 (M) age 36-40 - hi there im 25 years old. I broke up with my x. After she told me she was pregnant. I am with a new gf now who is 20 and we have been going out less then a year but were living together. i don't see the child because the times that my x gives me don't suit me and she's not will... (131 words)

I think my weight gain could affect my relationship. Can I have any tips to help please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years and he is compeletly honest with me. So when he told me that I was gaining weight.. I was unhappy with my gain ( which I am ) I want to lose the weight but I am 5'2" 20yrs 175ibs I wear a Canada size 8-10 and I'm not built in... (113 words)

Incredibly attracted to a guy and don't know if I can resist him for much longer

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 35 and have a warm attractive intelligent man working on my house. He has a good body and is tall and athletic. He used to be a lecturer but was made redundant and now runs his own specialist business. I have a loving relationship with my boyfriend but we do not live ... (359 words)