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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Any advice on what to do and what not to do on the first date?

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22 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my friend went to meet her boyfriend and his friend in town. (it was the first time i've met his friend) We went to the pictures and my friend and her boyfriend was so cute together, cuddling and kissing. Anyway, i took his friends number and weve been talking everyday... (139 words)

I work at a gym. How do I approach a girl that comes in?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4870 days ago

22 July 2011 (M) age 30-35 - Question for the guys, i've got a problem, put yourself in my shoes and tell me what you would do. I work at a gym and this girl is a regular member there, she is probably the most attractive girl who uses this gym. When i first saw her if i'm honest, i just couldn't look away ... (239 words)

Is my ex paying enough child support?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4869 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

- hi im not sure if my ex is paying me enough child support? He works 60 hours a week fitting solar panels, Im not sure of his actual job title and dont know how much he earns per month. He only started the job last month and said to me this evening that he will give me £20... (176 words)

I really love my GF and don't want to lose her but how do I deal with all the insecurities?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

22 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - hi i am in a relationship with my gf more than three years.we both love each other a lot.But recently we hav started fighting a lot.these may be the reasons first of all she is not that expressive she only says i luv u when i say no initiations from her side she rarely says i m... (219 words)

My girfriend doesn't respect her parents. Ethically, how can I get her to see this is wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

22 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I was born outside USA and so notice some cultural differences in how my girlfriend relates to her parents. I have had an American girlfriend for the last 2 years. We seem to have been hitting the spot ever since we got off to a good start. But I don't like her misbehaving with... (168 words)

I want to move to England but don't know how to do it

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22 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi there i need help plz i don't feel safe in ireland any longer and want to move to england i no of all the places but still least its something and just want to no how i do it i want to protect me and my daughter do i find a job first or an apartment is it easy to drive in... (84 words)

Ideas for a "welcome home" surprise?

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22 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so I need some advice on how to surprise my bf in a respectful kinda way tomorrow. I've been away on holiday with my female friends for a week, and get home tomorrow. My bf works shifts and is on Nights, but has asked me to let myself into his house when I get home, where ... (214 words)

My ex wanted to meet me and now he doesn't because I couldn't make it, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have had a relationship with a guy who i think is my soul mate.The kids got on well and this lasted 9 months.He was going through divorce after 26 years of marriage and I was separated 3 years but needed to do my divorce.He told me he could't be with me whilst my divorce was ... (233 words)

Is he interested? Is it too soon?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So this is not as complicated as it i think it is.. I broke up with my boyfriend of almost 2 years 2 months ago. Yes, i was the 'bad one' for calling it off. We were making each other miserable, i was falling ill because of it, it was not worth the pain at all in the end. ... (578 words)

Any tips for my first meeting with my online boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am taking all the precautions, being safe, public place, telling my friends etc etc. My question is, is it normal to be so unsure of everything? I like him a lot, but I feel nervous, that he wont like me at all, that maybe we aren't meant to be, that this might end after ... (100 words)

My mother is preventing me from seeing my ex-bf, whom I love soooo much!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Guys , I was with my boyfriend for over a year and a few months ago he broke up with me, he recently has told me he wants to give us another chance and I'm soo happy because i love him so much and the past few months have been horrible without him. The only problem ... (106 words)

What topics are important to talk about on a first date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm going on my first date, and I need to know which topics are important to talk about for future dates so I get a good idea of what sort of person he is. Things like future goals, etc. Any advice?... (44 words)

I feel I am really a lesbian...and I wonder if this makes me a bad person...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am single..I have been raised as a good daughter and a model of being a good and responsible person. I dress well and my talk and even my gestures are very firm and proper but suddenly, I my have learned that I am attracted to a female like me and now that I am 28 and surely ... (98 words)

How can I feel sexy again? The guy I was seeing doesn't seem interested anymore.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi... Lately I've felt tired all the time, and I feel really sensitive about my body. I feel fat. I feel as though the man I was seeing has lost interest in me because I'm not sexy anymore. He rarely texts me unless he wants a favour. And when we meet he's very reserved. I... (113 words)

Someone on a bike groped me! Should I tell my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I was coming home from work today when some idiot on a bike rode up behind me and grabbed my butt. He didn't do it in a pervy way, I know he was only being cheeky but it kinda upset me. He cycled off at once, thoroughly pleased with himself, and I was too shocked to do anything ... (277 words)

Does saying "I love you" lose it's meaning if you say it a lot?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, does saying "i love you" lose it's meaning if you say it too much? I'm asking 'cos i've been with my bf for 10 months. He told me he loved me after about 6 weeks. For me, it felt too soon, but by 3 months, I felt I really did love him and told him so:) Anyway, in the... (218 words)

She has a girlfriend but she wants to break up with him. How should I proceed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4870 days ago

22 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys. I'm gonna keep it simple, just need some advice. Basically, I've really liked this girl for a while now, and I told her last weekend how I felt. I knew she had a boyfriend, but I just needed her to know I felt so I could get over her when she rejected me. But... (306 words)

Did he really cheat on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello! I am a female, 39 years old. My husband and i have been together over 23 years. We started dating at 16, and married at 25. I never cheated on him, and I believe he never cheated on me. We grew up together, experienced all,and we were so happy. Our circle was ... (600 words)

27, never had a girlfriend, now can't even go out...

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22 July 2011 (M) age 36-40 - I'm 27 and have never had a girlfriend or any kind of relationship with a girl at all. I can talk to girls though. In my job there are maybe half a dozen girls, all of whom I find attractive and I can chat with all of them. I got on really well with one girl a few years youn... (425 words)

I am sure there is an attraction, so why did he tell a friend he didn't want to date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been interested in a certain guy for a year now, and I have no idea how to handle my situation or figure him out. It's summer vacation now, so I have time to organise myself for when I get back. We talk frequently, and we've been flirting for the entire year I've known ... (258 words)

Is there anymore I can be doing to help my boyfriend out of the rut he is stuck in?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4870 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for just over a year. We rarely get into arguments and when we do, it's either about something incredibly dumb or his lack of self-confidence. He is a bigger guy who grew up in an environment where his mom was and still is a manipulative ... (565 words)

In a dead relationship but somehow still together....what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Im in a dead relationship with my boyfriend he has cheated I have cheated but for some odd reason we are still together he's very attentive to me when he's out of town but when he's home he completely ignores me my question him he gets upset and argues what should I do?... (54 words)

When she comes to see me, should I tell her my feelings right away or just be friends first?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4870 days ago

22 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Well for the first time, i don't have a girlfriend or any lover, but am trying to have, but it seems like a war between me and the girls i am meeting. This is where the story starts,there was a university in my country, i opened internet cafe there. since i opened the office. I ... (823 words)

Why is my cousin so judgmental about the men that I date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello Cupid! I met a 28-year-old distant cousin at a family reunion two years ago and we instantly clicked. At the time she was living in NY, and we would talk on average 3 to 4 times a week, sometimes more. And the majority of the conversations would range from guys/relati... (540 words)

At the end of his trip he stopped contacting me and it has carried on now he is back! Should I start snooping to find out what is going on? Or wait for him to tell me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I want opinions, if you went away on a trip and your bf talked to you everyday during the trip and before the trip you either saw your bf or talked to him everyday. Then a couple of days before your trip ended he stopped calling texted very little. When you came back he left to ... (213 words)

I was sexting another man behind my husband's back and now he has found out....how do I make this right?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a happily married woman with two beautiful children. I became overweight after having my kids and have always had selfesteem issues. Although people constantly tell me I have such a pretty face I struggle with body image. Recently a man at work asked for my cell ... (240 words)

I think he discussed me not giving him a blowjob with his friend, does this mean he was just using me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Im a sixteen year old girl, and hes a few months younger than me. But he goes on like hes a lot older because of the company he keeps. And i know all his best friends as theyre my friends also. I was kinda with this guy for a few months, but we weren't officially together and i ... (615 words)

My boyfriend wants me to choose between him and my dad

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22 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I accidently sent my bf a text that was meant for my sister, discussing what my dad had said about my boyfriend and how i should take a university place at the other end of the country because it would get me away from my boyfriend. and I ended up having to tell my boyfriend ... (232 words)

Need guy advice: How can I keep my man interested in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - To all guys out there: Can you give me tips on how I can keep my man interested with me? I know and feel that he is in love with me and he says it all the time. We are together now for a year and we are still very much in love with each other. However, the stories in this ... (86 words)

Separated from a 'soul mate' (the one that got away)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I knew there was something special about this person from the first time I saw him. Call it love or lust at first sight, call it what you will but it was only until recently I began to think of the term 'Soul mate'. Subsequently after first meeting there was a lot of staring at ... (586 words)

How do I forget my teacher?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4863 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i am a female and working in a nice company. My problem is when i was studying in 10th std, i was 15 years. I have met a female teacher, she was 55. When i see her a first time, her face was very familar to me. I didnt think that she was an unknown face to me. She was also ... (342 words)

Should I purposely not answer his calls every other day?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4870 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello Cupid! Recently, I befriended this guy who shares everything in common with me. We are both from the same state, love seafood, comedy and share an affinity for basketball to name a few. If our lives weren't constantly on-the-go, we could easily talk from sunrise to ... (233 words)

I hardly trust anyone! I don't want to be scared anymore...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello. I have a problem: i cant trust people. I have several reasons for this, many things have happened over the years and i think its quite normal that after all of this i dont have confidence in no one except God, not even in me. 1. My father took us out of our countr... (842 words)

How can I make him see that I don't want to be anything more than friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, here's the situation. I have been friends with a guy online for 10 years from Morrocco, Recently I have come to notice that he has feelings for me. I tried very hard to let him down nicely but firmly, and let him know that I am involved with a man that I am very much in ... (153 words)

How do I make him see that I am different to other girls and I wont hurt him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone so this is my problem me and this man have been having sex for the past 4 months we have just started sending each other dirty pictures and texts we get on really well even though he is 10 years older than me. he has never slept with anyone else while we have been ... (136 words)

He stopped seeing other girls one-on-one, but now a girl is on the scene who wants to go on a double date....what is this all about?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - A long time ago my bf cheated on me emotionally. We decided to make a go of it and he changed and stopped seeing girls one-on-one so that I did not have to feel insecure. A year later a girl asked if him and her could go for coffee and he suggested a double date to her, where I ... (90 words)

Having sex with my new partner but he cant cum, why is this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i have just started a sexual relationship with my new partner. we were discussing other realtionships in the past etc, he mentioned it had been a few years that hes been with someone after it took a while for him to ejaculate, in fact he didnt and we have had sex twice since i ... (96 words)

What should I do, if anything?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age - An acquaintance of mine, out of the blue started texting me. We had a few exchanges over about six weeks and saw each other at one social event. How can you get to know someone just by texting? Once, I think there was a slight misunderstanding, and I texted him that I ... (151 words)

Does this break mean we are over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my fiance for 3 years now, last night he came in from football and was really angry he then said that one of his friends has told him i slept with someone on holiday with my grandma i did no such thing i love my fiance so so much plus he knows that i was on my ... (123 words)

Is this a red flag?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I can't seem to relax on this issue that seems to be only in my head since I don't think my boyfriend has any idea how much this thing is bothering me that he told me the other day so here it goes... my boyfriend was talking to me about somethings from his past and told me ... (510 words)

I caught him red-handed with another girl! How do I get over this and stop blaming myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for more than one year. Two days ago we spent a nice evening celebrating my birthday, and so I thought that things were just all going great between us. Until tonight, I caught him near his home being with and trying to get it ... (193 words)

I made a mistake and our relationship has never recovered, should I give up or keep trying?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i am in relationship in about 4 yrs and 5 months now,but my bf is different now,he is not like before i know i had made a mistake with him,becus last dec,2010 i had sex with a black man ,(but he know about it becus i met that person in internet then visited me here)so after ... (300 words)

Should I tell him I know about the porn he watches?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4846 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf is 25 and we have sex once a month! last time I had it was 6 weeks ago. and he was drunk. it was perfect though. but the first 3 intercourses (when we just started dating)were unsuccessful, I mean he couldnt come at all. and he just stopped. I wasnt upset though, cuz I ... (1100 words)

Should I try and move past this, or have I already made up my mind and I need to move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4870 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. So I have been dating this guy for a little less than a month and it had been going very well. We click so well and have a lot in common and I believe that he likes me a lot. Hes told everyone close to him about me and they all knew my name before I even met them. ... (593 words)

Any suggestions on how to lose weight? 100lbs seems so overwhelming!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all. This is more a self-esteem/relationship with myself kinda deal. I'm currently 220 lbs and at only 5'4", I'm a big girl. It sucks and I hate it. I was actually one of those girls you called anorexic back in elementary school because I was so tiny at the time. Then I hit ... (519 words)

Nicknames for my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and i are thinking of nicknames for each other and i can't think of any for him, wanna help me out? Hes kinda nerd like science-y and he likes video games :)... (40 words)

When is the best time to have sex so she doesn't get pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

22 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend doesn't want kids and I'm not ready for them. We have just started to have sex. I do wear a condom but I want to make damn sure that I do not get her pregnant. but we don't have the money for birth control not to mention if her family found out they would kick her ... (102 words)

My boyfriend doesn't take me out because I don't drink!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4870 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, is this justified? I can't drink, and I have a very good memory. So if someone does something stupid, I would remember it for a very long time. Because of this, my boyfriend doesn't take me along when he goes drinking with his friends (both male + female). I usual... (163 words)

Married couples - question for you: Let's talk finances

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Newlyweds, how do you manage your finances. In the 20th century I see a lot of couples having seperate account plus a joint account. If you are doing this, was this discussed prior to marriage? What percentage of your income is personal account and joint account? What if the ... (130 words)

Can sex be great all the time even after marriage and kids?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - He says "the sex always feel like the first time" with a smile. What does that mean? Everytime he says this I feel like I am always trying to give my best. I'm nervous because I know we have incredible sex but Ihope I will be able to keep up once we get married. I would rather ... (108 words)

My ex refuses to tell me where I stand! What should I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm having a physical realtionship with my ex and when I ask him were do I stand with him he either avoid the question or just refuses to answer i have feelings for him but he refuses to tell me how he feels my question is what do I do now... (51 words)

I've always wanted to tell him I like him but don't want to make a fool of myself or get rejected!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I am going to see a movie at 7.00 with my friend/co worker. I think he's really cute. My friend thinks he may have a crush on me. And I do on him. He is leaving in a vew days to go to college, I'm only 2 years younger than him. I don't know why it starts so ear... (319 words)

Desperate need help for a comeback!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

22 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a shy guy when it comes to dating. I've been seeing this girl sporadicaly along the past 4 months. The thing is that during our last 4 or 5 dates I haven't dared to kiss her although I already kissed her once a very ver long time ago. It seems the moment is never right or ... (304 words)

Movement in my stomach, What could be causing this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4851 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I am VERY sure I am not pregnant. About 11-12 weeks ago I had sex. Anal none the less. It was 3 days after i started a new pack of the pill (which i have been on for over a year now) Off and on I feel movement in my stomach...I am not sure what it is? And sometim... (86 words)

I can't seem to become attached to this child inside me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help me people. I'm 4 months pregnant and this whole time I've been up and down. But lately I'm really feeling resentful to this thing in my stomach and don't know what to do. I'm not with the father we really can't stand each other. That's fine though. I feel useless ... (114 words)

Would you remain friends with an ex who was unfaithful and disrespectful towards you?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

22 July 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I broke up with my girlfriend about 3 months ago because I felt she was not loyal to me. She wanted to spend a lot of time with her three times ex boyfriend whom she claimed they are just friends. She was also spending a lot of time with another male friend always excluding ... (148 words)

Should I end it and find a relationship that best suits me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Help. I have been ambivalent in whether or not I should stay with my bf. I need a definite answer asap. We have been together for 2 years. We had some really good times, we have a great connection, and we do love and care for each other. Unfortunately, I feel like he just does ... (557 words)

Confused about my actions being perceived

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

22 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello! I have a question that hopefully the community can provide some insight. A friend of mine recently became single. Yes I have feelings for her. I first told myself that I would be a friend first, feelings come second because it's the right thing to do, in my opinion. S... (193 words)

I just want to fit in and feel good about myself

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey :) well basically i could use some help. I dont really how to say this but i feel so un-attractive its unbelivable. Its been really getting me down and no matter how hard i try i just cant seem to feel like im pretty or good looking at all. ... (497 words)

Should I speak with her or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4871 days ago

22 July 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello. So..I told this girl I like her and she said she likes me too. After 2 weeks we had this little argument about why I'm so cryptic and I told her it's because I don't know where we stand (if we're bf/gf or just friends or whatever). Instead her answer the question... (196 words)

My boyfriend thinks I don't know what love is

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 9 and half months my boyfriend is afraid that he is going to lose me i told him no you aren't going to lose me i love him and i want to be with him he trust me and loves me my thinks i don't know what love is and i do to i am 25 years ... (199 words)

How can I improve my accent?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

22 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - OK so am a legal immigrant to the USA. But I have this problem with my african accent. I speak good English people undesrtand what I say but others tell me to speak up cause they didn't hear what I said especilly when am talking to them on the phone . Is there a way I can ... (141 words)

I want to date this guy but I'm scared. I've been really hurt

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4870 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so like 2 months ago I got in contact with an old friend haven't seen him in years.. When I saw him we talked for a bit then when I was leaving he asked me for my # so I gave it to him, later with in a week he calls me wants to hang out.. The last time we hung out that I ... (433 words)

Is this the end of things between us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4871 days ago

22 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been dating my girlfriend for almost 2 years now,but I've just realised that its a one way relationship in the sense that she is not committed,she gets angry/defensive when I confront her about her wrong doings.Now we are always in arguments and angry. At each other,is ... (55 words)

We can not decide how to go about this without him and his cousin falling out

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4870 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a man 12 months ago and spent an evening of being wined and dined by him which was great,now due to interfearance by a family member we parted instantly without any way of further contact then to my suprise i was attending a function and he was also there our eyes met ... (123 words)

Should I continue to ignore him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4871 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay how to start how to start. Ever since I was young I have always been told or under the impression that if you ignore a guy long enough than he'll come to you. I think, no I know, that this guy is my soulmate. He's my best guy friend and trusts me with everything. Very ... (143 words)

Are they really too clingy, or am I just jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4871 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Alright, well, I've got these two friends. They have been currently dating long-distance for 6 months(Soon to be 7 months on the 25th of July). They meet each other every break of school they have. Example, Summer break, Winter break, and Spring Break. And the male of the ... (772 words)

Getting pregnant from a handjob?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i gave my boyfriend a handjob and some semen got on my hand.i wiped it dry with kleenex. after 15 minutes i went to go have a shower as i was takign off my clothes my hand touched my vagina accidentally. could i be pregnant?? pleas help me i am so worried. i have these weird ... (70 words)

Broke up with my bf the same day he found out his dad dosent have long to live

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22 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i broke up with my bf the same day he found out his father is very sick and can die anyday... ok this might sound very bad on my part but my ex bf really didnt leave me no choice... he has been calling me names putting me down and always accusing me of being a cheater for about ... (325 words)

Not sure about my LD relationship anymore! there is another guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

22 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, this is kind of complicated.. and I could use some advice please.. I haven't told anyone about how I'm feeling and I think I just need to tell someone and get some help. Basically, I met a guy on the internet in February we started going out in March, and we're still ... (417 words)