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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Threesome damage and I knew better!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

4 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - So, another 3some gone bad. I have history with 3somes' they ruined my first marriage. After I stopped them, he went on to have affairs. I learned my lesson and for 15 years didn't have another while in a relationship. I met my sweetheart almost 10 months ago. It's my fir... (602 words)

Does unrequited passion amuse beautiful women?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

4 July 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - We’ve all met them. Gorgeous, intelligent women, who have what outsiders would judge, as beautiful lives. They have success in family and professional life, and in love. I’ve met some who are not only gorgeous and intelligent, but outstanding people as well. Some of you wome... (162 words)

How do I make the most of our time together, without letting my strong attraction to her get in the way of enjoying what we have?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

4 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I wonder if anyone can help. I met a wonderful girl in university with who I have the most amazing friendship, and I consider to be by far the best friend I have ever had. For better or worse though, I am very attracted to her. I did approach the possibility of a... (366 words)

Now he tells me he is 'too old' to have another child. It made me wonder whether I am okay with this

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

4 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all I have a serious question and could do with some really good advice. I'm 25 and my boyfriend is quite a bit older at 45. We love each other very much, have a great friendship aswell as relationship. I know this man is the one I want to spend my life with. Needless to sa... (235 words)

My husband walked out on me and the kids, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and i took the kids out to dinner on a saturday night. We had a great family dinner and then headed home. On our way home he stops at a local grocery store. The kids and I stay in the car. The kids decide that they would like to give their dad their father's day ... (443 words)

My new boyfriend is 6 years younger than me.....his mum is only 10 years older than me......is this morally wrong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4912 days ago

4 July 2011 (F)

- Ive fallen head over heels for a guy who is 6 years younger than me. Ive just turned 28 and he is 21 almost 22. We are both crazy about each other. I am worried that this is morrally wrong. His mum is only 10 years older than me. And she wants to meet me soon. Am I worrying too ... (65 words)

B/f says if he has sex too often he becomes emotionally attached

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

4 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - im having a proplem with my bf of a year. i know he loves me but to me we dont have sex often enough. sometimes i can tell he wants me bad but he holds himself back and i dont know y. i am sought of afraid to start something im afraid hell reject me so i rather dont try. is ... (164 words)

I feel like my b/f is trying to make me into a porn star!

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4 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years and I used to enjoy sex, but lately I seem to have developed a total aversion to it. I feel uncomfortable and self conscious all the time and I just can't enjoy it. I feel as if he's trying to make me into a porn star the whole time, ... (430 words)

I need to get over this no good man and move on!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I need some good tips to get over someone. Stop thinking about them and wanting to contact them. As I really want to forget this man!!!!! I'm in mid 30's and met a guy 5 years younger then me. His gorgeous and successful and told me straight out doesn't want a relation... (345 words)

I don't have her number, should I ask her out on facebook?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, Well I have a small problem... I'd like to ask this girl I know out but I don't have her number. I met her at my college and I think she's a real nice girl. The only way I have contact with her is facebook. We have had a couple conversations on facebook sinc... (196 words)

I really want him back. He said he just felt like doing what he did. What do I say and do to make this happen?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

4 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So i spent this whole day with this guy,, we'll call him M. He is a year younger than me but a little taller than me,, he's emo and a moody sod. we spent a whole day together and found that we liked each other, he started flirting like mad,, saying i love you to each other and ... (222 words)

4 year LDR and I'm doing all the chasing!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a long distance relationship for four years now and in the beginning we sent eachother messages and I called everyday. Now I found an instant message system that is cheaper to communicate with and he keeps saying he will do it but hasnt. Most of the times when I call ... (101 words)

I don't want to walk away if there's a chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4918 days ago

4 July 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Can someone explain why my ex boyfriend is behaving like this? he left me 6 weeks ago after a ridiculous row. everything was fine until then although he has done this once before. hes 16 years younger than me, weve lived together 18 months and he gets very depressed. he says he ... (438 words)

Ex wants me but doesn't love me and doesn't want love

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im going to make this as short as possible. I was in a LDR for 3 years, he dumped me mid april because he became depressed with his life. (We have met in real and get along amazingly) Since then he is on meds and waiting to see a councillor. Before when he fi... (233 words)

I'm crushing on a co-worker!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4918 days ago

4 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do I feel this way about a guy i don't even know;)? am new at my workplace. and theres this gorgeous guy there, my first day i saw him i was like "oh my God hes nice" ive been there for 2weeks now and we work well together, he always comes to say hello and bye to m... (233 words)

To model topless? Or to reduce them?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

4 July 2011 (?) age 36-40 - hey people. So basically i am a very petite 5"2 brunette with 32dd breasts. I have two offers on the table to do topless modelling. A couple of years ago i wanted to do it, but now, i hate my boobs. they just look ridiculous on me and i am seriously considering a reduction, but ... (73 words)

Girls like jerks?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My friends told me that girls usually dump nice guys that's why my ex dumped me and I should become jerk. Is it true that girls don't like nice guys?... (31 words)

I would have been ok if he had told me the truth!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

4 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - About a year ago I fell in love. We talked, mulled over it, if we really wanted to start a relationship, but eventually decided that our feelings were too strong to deny. It was a LDR, mostly online, but we met, and it was awesome. We were amazingly sexually compa... (656 words)

My Wife cheated two months into our marriage, will we ever be happy again??

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

4 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Recently I discovered that my wife of nearly ten years had an affair with a co-worker. As if this wasn't painful enough for me to deal with, I also learn't that this happened only two months into or marriage! Now I find myself constantly questioning my own self worth, how ... (237 words)

Am I being neglected or am I being too clingy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

4 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i have an amazing boyfriend. he is also my first boyfriend; we been together for 5 months and everything is going wonderfully, however due to his uni course, he has to spend one month on a site doing archaeological digging. Hes busy from 9 until 5 however since he went on ... (128 words)

He said I was playing games but I really do like him and I want him back!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel really silly doing this but I don't no what else to do.. Sooo here it goes. I work part time as a barmaid in my local pub, and Friday just gone I worked a late shift as we had a big family reunion party in the Pub, and all night long a guy who was invited to this family ... (623 words)

She told me she was pregnant and I felt my heart shatter into pieces!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I have badly fallen for my professor, (spare me the lecture, i've heard it all). I've liked my professor for 2 years, and felt a deep connection with her the first time I met her, she began teaching me and although I didn't think it was possible those feelings just grew ... (186 words)

I went for her sister and it didn't work; will she give me a chance?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

4 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - After a checking this girl out for some time I decided it was time to approach her. I walked up to her and asked her out to lunch and she seemed excited and agreed to it. Her mum was standing close by so I said i wouldn't take her number there and then but would add her on... (284 words)

Overbearing Mother is coming between my 2 year relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My mom is having a problem with my boyfriend. We've been together for two years, and for the first couple of months of dating I was too afraid to introduce them because my mom doesn't really approve of me dating outside my race. Any who they met a long time ago, and get alo... (367 words)

Could it be possible he picked up genital-warts over 3 years ago?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

4 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - HELLPP! Ive been with my boyfriend for 3 years and last month we found out he has genital warts. I don't have them and now I'm paranoid he has cheated on me. He is the love of my life and I don't want to put him through me grilling him if he hasn't done anything wrong, ... (140 words)

Does a girl notice when you suddenly stop communication with her? When you talked to her almost every day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - This girl and I really liked each other. We were considering dating, until she saw her ex, and had an emotional breakdown. So I said I'd back off the dating topic altogether. We still talked over Facebook. She IM'd me every night and we still skyped. But I got the feeling ... (140 words)

Reasons I can't move in with my controlling boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, soo I've been dating my boyfriend for two and a half years. We both know we want each other in our future but today he asked me if I wanted to MOVE IN TOGETHER AND START LOOKING FOR A PLACE! And it scared me for some reason, I did feel trapped a little. And hes ... (202 words)

Should I tell her how I feel and risk the outcome?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I met this gal at my work place last year but we never talked just normal greetings. About some weeks we got talking and somehow got close but nothing serious happen b/n us because, I'm the shy type and never had any serious girlfriend. So I find out she got BF she tell me ... (402 words)

I can't let another man get close to me.... Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, I am haunted by a question... Back story: Two years ago, I was in a 2 1/2 year long relationship (that started out as a 5 year friendship) that suddenly, and quite unexpectedly went sour. My ex turned verbally and emotionally abusive almost over night- and, I, not know... (631 words)

I get the feeling he likes me but I am worried I could be reading too much into this!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 July 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Just want your thoughts on this. I like my friend's brother and I think he feels the same. He's about 5 years younger, met him a few times at social gatherings and just a bit confused. Last saw him at friend's bbq and did catch him looking at me a few times. Whenever I p... (272 words)

I know he isn't worth it but I still can't stop being upset!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont know what to do, i like this boy but i know that to him im nothing like a just another girl to him and that makes me feel so small and ugly and i hate it. When i see him out in town (nightclubs)it brings it all back and i think whats wrong with me? What have i done so ... (163 words)

Should I ask my dad if I can stay for a while?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I used to live with my dad up unti last year. I am 27 years old, and i have always lived with my family, partly because i haven't had enough money to move out, and partly because i haven't had the confidence or been independant enough to get my own place. My dad got rema... (311 words)

He thinks a relationship will distract him....should I let it go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I'm confused. There's this guy who I have known since high school. He apparently liked me back then, even though I had a boyfriend and I hardly noticed him. Fast forward four years...I ran into him through a mutual friend's party this April. He immediately stuck ou... (196 words)

How do I last longer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi There, Okay, I'll make this short. Soon I will be having sex for the first time. But my question is how do I 'last' longer? I know when I masturbate I ejaculate fairly soon. But often it varies. Now sex will be A LOT more different than Masturbation, and will fe... (117 words)

Korean girlfriend ends things just when I'm ready to tell her I'll go to Korea with her!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

4 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I met this Korean girl a little over a month ago. We started dating, everything was going great. After a couple of weeks she mentioned that she will have to return to Korea in October because her Visa will expire. I thought it over quite a bit, and I decided I would go with ... (433 words)

Does it bother you if you are aware that your husband is seeing another woman for sex, but he will stay in your marriage and take all other responsibilities?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4912 days ago

4 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - If you are the wife... By reading so many questions /dramas caused by husbands' cheating (on wivies' side and the other women's side), it seems that most husbands cheat for 'sex'. If the sexual ife is not as good as it used to be (e.g., you both are at middle age, 50s)... (173 words)

Does he like me? Or is it that he's moved into my city and is trying to get familiar with the surroundings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello Cupid! Several months ago, my female cousin phoned me about her friend whose brother needed a friend/tour guide when he moves to Atlanta in June/July. She said he was offered a job and wanted to attend school here while living with their father who resides 20 minut... (567 words)

I am very depressed over the way my calves look! Can ANYTHING be done with them?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4255 days ago

4 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Even though this isn't a relationship question, please, please help me. This is bothering me so much that I am literally almost in tears as I write this. I hate my legs, so much that I have become depressed. I am cursed with the most freakishly enormous pair of calves in the... (806 words)

Boyfriends says he'll come over and then never calls and never shows up!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, My boyfriend told me that he'll be coming over my home at around 10.00 am yesterday because we were planning to hang out together the whole day but he didn't.When I called him up yesterday morning around 9.30 am to confirm our plans, he didn't pick up his phon... (249 words)

Boyfriend is always using my insecurity against me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

4 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I am very insecure about myself, and my boyfriend knows it. But it feels like he is always using my insecurities against me in some way. He always is going on and on about how clumsy I am, and its not in a gentle teasing manner either. He is always telling his friends abou... (181 words)

He left me for someone else after only 2 wks..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I posted about a couple of weeks ago stating that my bf left me unexpectedly and i need some advice. Well, i learned today that he is seeing someone new. Him and i have been together 6 years and have only been broken up for 2 weeks. Within those two weeks i didn't contact him, ... (260 words)

Why can some people not compliment others?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Why are some people unable to compliment others? I have a co-worker who is also female and she never offers me a compliment no matter how good I look on a particular day. However I compliment her a lot. What may be the reason for this?... (48 words)

I don't like my fiance telling me how to do things!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - do i give too much attitude, is it wrong that if i offer to help doing something i dont like my boyfriend going to micro manage me and when he does i get annoyed feel like he thinks im incapable, he says he is just trying to help but than when he micromanages he tells me how to ... (87 words)

Was I rude and demanding to my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I had a huge fight yesterday with my fiance of 5 years because he said i embarass him because i told him to put something away in front of a group of people instead of asking him, do i have to ask him to do things? i thought if your in a relationship you should just be able ... (82 words)

I ran into my school teacher crush and after 12 years I still have a thing for her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 25. She is 40. She was my teacher in 8th grade. I hadn't seen her since. I ran into her the other night at a club. I went up to her to tell her who I was and we laughed and exchanged small talk. She was pretty drunk. I asked her about her family and stuff and if she was ... (206 words)

Why do people dislike me? Is speaking your mind really that bad?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

4 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This isn't a love/relationship question but I think this site is great and I go nowhere else for advice, so I hope there are people here who would take the time to read this and help me out. Okay, hi. I'm a 17 year old girl. I've never had problems with people and life ... (659 words)

I want to break up with my girlfriend but I'm afraid of her reaction and upsetting her family!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 July 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 2 or 3 weeks now. I'm thinking about breaking up with her because she makes me really mad. The main reason is that she hardely ever talks and doesn't want to do anything fun. By fun I mean normal stuff that everyone does, not ... (139 words)

I feel ashamed for being so weak! Any tips on how to stop this happening again and progress?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - excuse the length but it helps to write this. last night i had a long think about where my life is going and a guy ive known for a while and thought he was a friend isnt. i stupidly thought he loved me as i had strong feelings for him and always tried to make him happy ... (160 words)

How can I be sure if I am in the friend zone or not? I really want to ask her out!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright so there is this girl i had met at university who i really liked and coincidentally she lived in the room next to mine in residence so we got to know one another by the end of the year. So here is my problem, for most of the school year she had a boyfriend which was ok ... (290 words)

Teenage age differences, what's the big deal? Were me and my friends wrong back then?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

4 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I was brought up in Australia and many years ago when I was a young fella, I had a quite a large and great social group of friends. The ages of these people was anywhere from 15/16 to 22/23, and probably as many girls as guys. Now there were of course many couples within in ... (423 words)

Is there something wrong with me? Is this erectile dysfunction?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Right this is a kind of weird one tbh, I don't know if it is a form of erectile dysfunction or just thinking sub-consciously, which may haven't really read much into it tbh, be the same thing I ha, but whenever me and my girlfriend are kissing really passionately, I am fine ... (97 words)

I don't know how to end a relationship with no valid reason to end it

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been with a girl for a few months, and it feels like I have been almost pressured into being with her. It's only been about 2 months, but I am already finding myself craving time alone without her there. She hasn't done anything wrong, but she just seems too different to ... (297 words)

With no money.....how will I be able to change things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) age 30-35 - This might a little long and at some point nonsensical... This is the first time i ever write what's really on my mind and it's also the first time i express myself honestly and with no strings attached. I should mention however that i am not a US citizen... i am from Europe..... (1497 words)

My boyfriend's reaction is a bit odd, what do you all think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey ok i may be a being a bit melodramatic because im sick but i still want your opinion. ok ive been sick all week and i finally went to the doctor today and he told me i had swine flue. if i lived by myself i wouldnt care less but being that im surrounded by people who care... (222 words)

17 and never been kissed!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This is really lame. I'm seventeen and I've never kissed a guy. It's not that I haven't had the opportunity, I just want it to mean something. I've started kind of seeing this guy, and obviously we're going to have to kiss sometime soon. I just need some tips or something... (62 words)

How do I end a 7 month relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - How do I ditch my boyfriend? We've been together 7 months, but he's recently started acting different and I think there is another girl but dont want to jump to conlcusions. He hasnt been acting like a boyfriend, he never has time for me, he's always out with other friends, h... (80 words)

Half of me says I should stay because I love her, the other half says leave because she's a cheater....what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So i had been with my current girlfriend for 1 and a half years. we met in senior year of high school fell deeply in love it was great i couldnt tell you how strong my love for her was..i was gonna marry her i was completely commited to her. Then senior year came to an end. We ... (1305 words)

How can I fix my trust issues?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello I'm in LDR with my bf. We're living really far away and could just meet up like twice a year because of professional reasons. We chat, skype constantly everyday but I have a problem of trust. He told me yesterday that he's tired of me asking if he's cheating or not ... (147 words)

How do I get the man I want and let the other one down gently?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i met this man 4 month ago, he stayed with me for the first week we met then we saw each other at least 3 or 4 times a week, but then he kept asking me if we could be sex budddies. i said no i deserved better and he understood. we didnt speak for 6 weeks and he text me at the ... (274 words)

Why do I fall for guys easily?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do i fall for guys easily? i met this guy from a friend and i immediately agreed to be his gf and then the next day we met and i had sex with him. When i went home my dad got angry and learned that i went out on a date and grounded me so i never saw the guy again. Yesterday ... (121 words)

In love with a man my family would not approve of, all the while they are trying to arrange a marriage for me! Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

4 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all, I am Indian,28 years old and in love with a white man 15 years my senior.We don't find our age differences an issue at all. From a cultural perspective, my parents don't approve of me marrying a white man and outside of our caste/religion. They want to decide t... (696 words)

What should I do? I'm doing things I normally wouldn't do and wouldn't agree with

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

4 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm involved with a married man who's still with his wife. we have a 1 years old baby we've been apart for 10 months because he lied about being married and I couldn't take him getting his cake and eating it too. But now we've been back together on for about two weeks and I ... (243 words)

Does watching lesbian porn mean I'm a lesbian?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

4 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear people Lately I've been thinking about my sexual orientation. I used to watch porn and I stopped because I hated it and I felt disgusted every time I do it. I watched lesbian porn and I felt aroused. But I HATED it afterwards. lesbian sex used to turn me on but it wa... (301 words)

How do I get over my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm having a really hard time getting over my ex after she dumped me, and its not helping that we're still friends. what should i do?... (27 words)

Does deleted message from my wife phone mean anything?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - A year ago there was this guy whom my wife befriended. She said he told he he love her but she declined his broposal. I told her to cut her cuntact with him to help him to deal with it and she agreed. But they kept texting since then. Yesterday alone he ther 15 messages and she ... (166 words)

She has my shoulder to cry on but I'm afraid she'll go back to her ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

4 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - i met this girl and is in love with her but we're just friends, we have been friends for quite some time. she had a bf when i met her and now they broke up few weeks ago. we talk a lot and lent her my shoulder to cry on. problem is, i really want to tell her about my feelings ... (95 words)

I'm hopelessly in love with a guy that doesn't love me back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm hopelessly I'm love with this guy. He's one of my closet fit friends, even though I don't see him that much anymore. He's like my brother and I'm like his sister. Iv been in love with him for 2 years but he's realy hot so he has girls typifying them self at him every were ... (118 words)

My girlfriend's family wont let her make her own decisions and she cant come to see me with my child!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone its been so long since ive post to you wonderful people. This now me and my girlfriend have a 1 month old daughter we stay about 15 minutes from each other. The problem is i want her to come and visit me sometimes now and her mom is standing on my way saying the ... (136 words)

Girls like jerks and reject the nice guys?

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4 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I posted this a week ago but didn't get any replies. So I am trying again today cause I want some advise. I m really down. After being dumped by my gf of 4 years for another guy 5 months ago and after most of the healing process, when I tried to look upon someone whom I t... (578 words)

This guy is the opposite of the type of man my parents want me to date!

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4 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18, just finished my first year in college and during that year, I met this amazing guy that really cares for me. He's such a great person and the first person to be so introspective and concerned about me. I've met his dad and brother, but he has yet to even be mentioned ... (252 words)

The ex--does he still like me or is it just about sex?

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4 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend and I have broken up since two months ago and right after we broke up he dated this girl then dumped her a month later. Then after a month went by he started talking to me again and wanted to know if i would like to mess around with him and of course ... (206 words)

My girl friend is worrying me. What can I do to stop her doing all these exhibitionist risky things?

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4 July 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - My girlfriend and I weve been with each other for about 7 months now were both in year 9. we have had a few break ups but we love each other! i wanted to ask a quite important question,my girlfriend has quite a lot of boy mates which i know a few of them fancy her she goes to a ... (255 words)

Should I consider it? It sounds like maybe he likes me a little though? He's a decent guy

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4 July 2011 (F) - there was a guy i knew from grammar school and now i am 26..i think a few years ago we may have liked each other..we hung out once to catch up but then i think he wound up in a relationship with another girl from the same school. I met someone as well. I have been single for ... (527 words)

If you are not beautiful? Beauty is so useless. Why do people give such a damn about it?

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4 July 2011 (F) age 36-40 - I hate my body and can't accept it! let's just say that my body looks nothing like the 36-24-36 ideal of the media. And sure people say that it's the inside that matters but people are so hypocritical! Especially men! Because they say they want a loving girl, who is intelligent ... (531 words)

Help! I can't find the right words! How can I maintain a lot of online contact with him successfully?

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4 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello Agony Aunts, Uncles, cousins, sisters, brother, etc. Please help! I have been in a relationship with a really sweet guy for about a month now and we'd been good friends awhile before, and we drive each other crazy and talk for hours and get on really well when we're ... (261 words)

Partying with my Girlfriend

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4 July 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Im a high school student and ive been with my girlfriend for 4 mouths and im really in to her shes got a sexy body and loves me like me crazy and says she could see us lasting for a long time and says we should have sex soon (and were both vergins) there is almost nothing wrong ... (332 words)

Went to surprise him and caught him with my best friend!

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4 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright, so a few months ago I got together with this guy I've had a crush on for years and we decided to have sex but earlier the day I went to his house to surprise him. Door was unlocked so to keep it quiet I went up to his room and pushed it open to sorta 'scare' him. What ... (96 words)

What makes her tick? She's not demonstrative in public. In private all she wants to do is cuddle

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4 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm honestly not complaining. I love the feeling of cuddling with my girlfriend on the couch. I'd just like to know why exactly she might like it so much. However, she seems to prefer to do that more than anything else, and though I've offered to take her out to someplace els... (139 words)

Third date sex and now no contact

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4 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I slept with a guy I met on the third date. He dropped me home yesterday afternoon and i still have not heard from him. Feeling the typical feelings of anxiety, guilt etc Am i freaking out too soon, should I still give him some time to contact me, should I contact him etc I j... (80 words)

Am I smothering her? Need some tips please on how to handle my new love

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4 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there. My girlfriend and I only recently started dating and this is the first proper relationship I've even been in. Because of that, I'm worried that I'm perhaps doing too much too early in the relationship. So far, I've written her a letter to tell her how much I like ... (151 words)

Why me? What is it with girls who want to cheat and then want to start again?

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4 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship with this girl for 6 months on and off we first got together on a party night. We had our fun and that was it. Then we met about a month later and we seemed to be quite right for each other. At least that's how i felt. Anyways she was cheating on ... (213 words)

Can a girl like me just because of my personality, please help me

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4 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I've always thought that looks are perhaps 90% and personality is just there like bonus points, so I never thought a good looking girl would ever seriously like me. To break it short though: I met my cousin's cousin (my age) and she seemed to like me, I thought she just thinks ... (286 words)

If we do get back together, does it mean we won't have the exceptional chemistry we had earlier?

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4 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Aunties, I have recently broken-off a two-year relationship, so I'm in no hurry to get involved with a new guy. That being said, I have started to wonder if an ex is considering trying it again with me. I'd be all for it if it's not too soon. My biggest fear though, is ... (112 words)

Why is he like this now? it's like he cant be bothered with me, which is confusing

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4 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My ex and I got back together 3 week ago (we split last time because of distance) he said things would go back to how they used to be. however, we havent done one thing that we used to do last time. He's never got time for me. he is either working, getting drunk, or too hung... (91 words)

Haven't met anyone as good as my summer love. Is it worth the time to try and start anything?

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4 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i really liked a guy last summer, we hung out a few times, then i went to school. this summer, we've been talking a lot more and we're getting pretty close. but fall time is coming and we're going to different colleges. Is it worth the time to try and start anything? i'm pret... (83 words)