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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Over/under on if she likes me or if we will have a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4916 days ago

6 July 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey guys I need of some very general advice. I Jane kinda had this thing with this girl for ages and now I am almost definate that i want to be with her. I'm gunna give you a lot of background info so that you can understand as fully as possible. Ok so it all started at my yo... (357 words)

I was nasty about him but then I fell for him. He won't forgive me for the things I said

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4916 days ago

6 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I didn't mean or plan on liking this guy but over time I did. Before that though I was messing around and kind of lied and deceived him....though my intentions were not to hurt him. As far as I knew he didn't have romantic feelings for me though at times we'd flirt it wasn't ... (175 words)

Want to try S&M but not end up in the hospital - any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

6 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello people, me and my girlfriend want to try bondage sex or sm.. (I don't know if sm is also the word in english so maybe it's not really clear to all...?) She likes pain, well a bit not that she wants to get hurt badly, and I love it when she takes control... doe... (103 words)

Guy says I am everything he is looking for - now the cold shoulder. Whats up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

6 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - So long story short I dated a guy for 5 months , he was all over me loving me so so much and telling me that I'm the one he always wanted to end up with , we live 6 hours away from each other , after we spent our first weekend together he started changing and although he denied ... (177 words)

Bragging about how cute another girl is?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

6 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, How am i supposed to feel when my fiance agrees with his cousin's/friend's opinion of other females, when I'm around? It makes me mad for a cousin or friend of his to come around him, when im with him, to tell him something about another female i.e. what she was ... (115 words)

Should I marry a guy I don't trust just to please my family???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

6 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, Am I wrong for holding off on marrying my fiance? I am currenly 5 months pregnant with our 1st baby, and a week or two ago, my grandmother came up to visit us and insisted we go ahead and get married. But, my fiance has some growing up to do. A few months ago, he ... (118 words)

I am thinking of breaking up with my BF so I can chase after my rock star crush! Is this crazy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

6 July 2011 (?) age 30-35 - I am inlove with Bret Michaels and I honestly think we are ment to be together. He is a rock star and I feel like I should be with him. I am engaged to my fiance Elvin and i love him but love bret michaels more....should I tel my fiance? should I try to be with Bret?I know this ... (67 words)

I'm pregnant and he told me that he hopes somebody shoots me in the face!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

6 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Me and my fiance have been together for at least 5 years. Okay, it is now 2011. I messed around only once and that was due to him stressing me out drastically, and he went out with another female in return. Okay, my question is: why is my fiance constantly saying m... (194 words)

What's the best way to ask her dad's permission to date her?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4673 days ago

6 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Quick question... Going to ask my hopefully soon to be girlfriends parents for permission to date her. Her mom likes me a lot, and so even though she's not *technically* allowed to date until shes 16 in a few months, considering the circumstances where i'll be in c... (264 words)

Is he really cheating or are they just trying to break us up?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4905 days ago

6 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What do i do guys? This is the second time he has been accused of cheating and IDK what to do. He says he doesn't like this game his ex is playing by her stating this rumor that he is dating her with me. If he doesn't like this game or isn't cheating like he says he isn't why ... (196 words)

I feel henpecked by my fiancée

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

6 July 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi... strange one this and its doing my nut in. it was my birthday last week and my fiancee, who i'm marrying in august, came over to visit. we talked then she started getting picky about things which started an argument off... i told her not today and if she wants an argumen... (126 words)

I'm shy, he's shy, and nobodies willing to make the first move, Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

6 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone i work in a hospital and i really like this paramedic everytime i see him he smiles and always makes a point of saying hi to me but whenever we see each other he always goes really shy and so do i how do i let him know i really like him without actually telling him? ... (59 words)

Low sex drive and not getting wet

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4917 days ago

6 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi,i have been wit my boyfriend for a year and 5 months now. we are stil very much inlove,but i dont get wet when we are making love. im afraid to lose him over this,we tried lubricants it helps to get me wet but what should i do to increase/improve on my sex drive.. plz help ... (59 words)

Should I take back my ex-girlfriend without any conditions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4917 days ago

6 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend dumped me 18 months back saying I am loser and I will always do stupid jobs and won't find good one. I was begging and crying in front of her like a baby that please don't leave but she did. I used to tell her that I was trying getting a good job but it was ... (350 words)

Is he afraid of getting hurt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4917 days ago

6 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everybody i like this man i met 6 months ago we were together for 8 weeks and i was getting feelings for him i never told him though he said he needed to get his head sorted before he could be with somebody properly he texts me everyday just to see how me and my son are my ... (104 words)

Have there been students who have married their teachers?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

6 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, my question is: have there been students who have married their teachers? (by the way, Im 15 years old, and my teacher whom I have a crush on is 30. He went out of the country to get a masters degree, but we remain in contact.) do you think there is still a chance that ... (64 words)

What does any of this mean? I can't figure out what this girl wants...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

6 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Any advice on why this girl i was with would say this after only the second date! Is this her way of telling me she isn't interested or what was she trying to tell me? Because only last week she said she liked me!! And now realised this... She said she doesn't know if ... (233 words)

My friend is making threats that sound like he is planning to hurt himself what should I do to help him??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4916 days ago

6 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Out of my friends I am the one they turn to when they have problems however I'm never able to sort out of my own and I really need someone to turn to. I feel completely at my wits end and so lost as I have never been in a situation like this before. I should probably give yo... (392 words)

Female questions....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

6 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Apologies if this is a bit of an icky question, but can someone still go down on you if you're on your period but have a tampon in? Of course I know you can't have intercourse or get fingered while you're wearing one, but are fingers and tongue around the outside okay? Also, ... (92 words)

Does he like me? Or am I just a friend to him?

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6 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - -He's a bit of a flirt but he told me that it's just harmless flirting and he doesn't chase after girls. -He asked me out and hinted to liking me heavily. -We made out when I was drunk. -My friends have threatened him to stay away from me but he still talks to me. -He said I... (165 words)

My girlfriend says I am a bad lover. What can I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4912 days ago

6 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a relatively inexperienced guy when it comes to sex. I have watched a lot of porn. I have read a lot about it both in books and on the Internet. I have friends in alternative lifestyles who exposed me to a lot of things in conversations - and sometimes even at parties.... (822 words)

Is my crush heading for a crash?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4916 days ago

6 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - has anyone fallen in love with their driving instuctor and its actually worked out? ... (14 words)

Ever since he admitted to cheating I've developed a jealous streak!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

6 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've adapted a jealous streak. I'm pretty sure its only happened within the last few months since my boyfriend admitted to cheating when we used to go out (which lasted about 10 months). He was at one of his gigs last night as he is in a band, it may be innocent but, he got c... (219 words)

Friend interfering with this girl I like

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4917 days ago

6 July 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - i like a girl in my class and we've been getting on well lately, i as going to ask her out. My friend had spread a rumor on bbm about me and her. She seemed happy to talk to me even after that but only now my fiend has started butting in when i'm talking to her, dissing me in ... (85 words)

What is the role of sex in a healthy relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

6 July 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I like having sex. It is very pleasurable for me. However, I only have sex in the context of a loving relationship. To me, it is something special, a sacred sort of ritual in which we expose our innermost, secret selves to our partner without fear of being judged. It creates ... (425 words)

It's getting to the point where he sees his ex more than me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

6 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I'm having a few issues with my current boyfriend. The thing is, he's spending a lot of time with his current ex girlfriend who he claims to still be a very good friend. He's driving her around a lot, picking her up here and there to do things and most likely b... (354 words)

Any tips to help me last longer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4915 days ago

6 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Firstly, I have been with two and the first was a bit of a bad experience but the second one was a lot better and when we first started sleeping together after the first few times of nerves I was fine and the sex was great. However, after so long my ability to last just went. I ... (261 words)

Is there anything that can make penetration less painful for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4908 days ago

6 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 18 we've been in a relationship for 9months now. I haven't had sex with anyone yet but when I plan to I plan on using condoms , we've been talking about having sex before , I'm a virgin but he's not , I trust him 100% but I'm scared because he's ... (117 words)

He is still active on a dating site and winking at women...what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

6 July 2011 (F)

age - Well....He is still on the On-Line Dating site and is now Active! And by the way.... thanks to all who answered my question last week about my Fiance being on the ON-Line Dating site(At that time he was not active and I actually didn't say anything to him ...I just wanted to ... (138 words)

Do people without a conscience who use others get away with it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

6 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - What happens to people who do not have a conscience and go through life using other people and manipulating them? Do they end up ahead? I know somebody like this who keeps using people but is so sweet about it they get fooled. Goes from man to man. Takes their money, plays th... (106 words)

We are supposed to be having our first date tonight...but now she is acting real odd!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

6 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been friends with this girl for a few years now. we've not been close but always shared a strange attraction. Anyway, we both are recently single, but she's still living with her physically and emotionally abusive ex for about another week from now when she's supposed to ... (371 words)

My partner is a virgin....what if I try and he doesn't want to do it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

6 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So i've been dating this guy for a couple of months. I am 23 and he is 21. But he's a virgin. I knew it even before we started dating, but i didn't think it was important. I'm not a very sexual person but still, eventually i'm gonna want to do it. And i don't know if he will.... (181 words)

Is he flirting just to pass the day at work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4917 days ago

6 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I wanted to know your opinions.I´m student and I got a summer job during summer. I started to work in one german company whose seat is connected to the seat of another company(german company, too) so we have some common space). Every day I meet my "co-work... (272 words)

He asked me to marry him....do you really think he could've changed?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

6 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend and I( 15 and 17) have been on and off for about 6 months. I never thought me and him could be together when i first saw him because he's all like handsome with blue eyes, and a super athletic body; he plays football and runs track. After 2 months of being to... (353 words)

What am I trying to convince myself of?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

6 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some advice really quick, because i am seeing this guy tomorrow and i think i made a drunken mistake last week! I want to sort out what to do, I don't know whether i should stop things before they go further! Basically he has liked me for a while and i ended up telling... (338 words)

Sex with a high class prostitute

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4912 days ago

6 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Is that less reprehensible? It is interesting to see how people judge prostitutes very harshly and yet someone who has lots of casual sex, one night stands and has a very high number is not considered trashy, just living their life. I guess when it comes down to money pe... (210 words)

Would you date him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

6 July 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - would you date a guy that over all is a very nice guy just a few issues, he has a nice body but he isn't the most attractive person in the face, he can not get an erection because he has diabetes, seems to adore me and has a great personality. i am at my sexual peak in life ... (81 words)

Friend's prank went wrong

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

6 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi this can be a bit long but i seriously need help i had a breakup with my bf 7mnths ago...it was very painful for my bf who couldnt move on.. he started to blackmail me, threatening me ,send msgs, abuse me n my parents, give blankcalls at my landline at 3 at night..things ev... (313 words)

When you know you both like each other, but neither of you want to admit it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4917 days ago

6 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello I just want you guys to help me with my situation right now.. I been single for almost 3months now from a long distance relationship.. so now, i have this guy who is very nice, kind , loving and respectful ,and he lives on the other side of the world but made... (207 words)

I'm dating a guy for the first time, and I have no idea what to do or how to act!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

6 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I just got my first boyfriend and i dont know wat to say arond him also i dont know if i ask him to go to the movies or will he ask me please help me... (36 words)

I'm having trouble trying to figure out where I am with this girl!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

6 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm chinese but immigrated overseas when I was a child. I grew up and have become assimilated. About a year and a half ago I went back to china for a family matter. There I was introduced by a family friend to a girl. It turned out that she has been studying overseas in th... (467 words)

Did she have a better sex life with her ex? Why wont she talk about it and give details? Why does she have a problem kissing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

6 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi All, please help. My Girlfriend and I have been together for nearly 5 years now and we are very close. We are both in our early thirties and are thinking about starting a family. I've been at uni since we've been together and we've been living at my parents' houses (pa... (755 words)

Why does he let girls touch him and constantly go on about him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

6 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, well I really don't know where to start with all of this. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and 3 months, we've had our ups and downs with in our relationship but then who doesn't? He has a lot of girl mates, and I know all of them and get on with most of them... ... (749 words)

Why is my FWB acting like this? And why only now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4837 days ago

6 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my coworker became ftf's, fwb, cuddy buddy's whatever u wanna call it a year ago. I knew what I was getting myself into and I understand a ftf is not meant to last but I thought I knew what I was doing. He's starting to act different and I honestly don't understand why ... (732 words)

Is it bad that my ex-boyfriend is essentially my "muse" even though we've been broken up for a year?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

6 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all. So, I like to write poems, and sometimes I write to sort of have a release for my emotions. So sometimes I may feel a bit crappy about my ex-boyfriend, so I write poetry that kind of expresses how I feel. My question is, is it kind of lame that I'm still writing p... (100 words)

Not sure if my relationship is 'normal' and to complicate things further there is another guy on the scene....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

6 July 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I am in a new relationship for just over a month. My problem is very complicated... we are both in recovery from an addiction. He has 17 years while I have less than a year, which means that our relationship would be disapproved of so must be kept secret. This means that we ... (358 words)

How can I find out if my friend is actually my brother?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4917 days ago

6 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok this is gunna sound like a strange question but how can I find out if my friend could be my brother? I,ve been talking to a guy (23) from england online for over 4 years and I feel kinda close 2 him. But a couple weeks ago when it was fathers day we were talkin about his ... (170 words)

Questions about dating, religion and kissing.....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

6 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok here we go, first of all ive met this guy but the problem is im totally in love with him but i cant be with him even though i want to... this is because i am christian and in our religion we only date others in our religion? anyway i really think hes the one though...:/ ... (115 words)

My boyfriend's friends have a problem with me and I don't know how to deal with it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

6 July 2011 (?) age 51-59 - My and my bf are about to buy a house together and he has just informed me that he does not think that some of his friends will come round as they have a problem with me. The reason being that a few times in the past I got really drunk and was out of order with these friends. ... (318 words)

She is known as a homewrecker.....should I run for the hills?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

6 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing a woman for the past seven weeks. We get on well and she has all the makings of the type of woman I want to settle down with. She's been hinting at a deeper commitment which I'm all for but there's one obstacle. I found out from five mutual friends that she has ... (127 words)

Is it wrong of me to think of my hot cousins when masturbating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

6 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - sometimes when i masturbate i think about my cousins and second cousins. they are pretty and i know this sounds wrong but i think they are hot. its just so much easier to think of them because they are so hot! is it wrong for me to do this? any other suggestions? what should i ... (57 words)

Do I really want to spend my life with a liar?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

6 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Everyone, I have a bit of a problem, my boyfriend - I love him dearly - keeps on lying to me!! Not about anything major like being unfaithful etc etc (that I know of!!) but he lies about silly things that there is no need to lie about. This frustrates and hurts me so... (313 words)

How do I come out without it seeming like I'm just experimenting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

6 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a sixteen year old girl and I recently met this girl and we're together now but i still like guys. My cousin is also a girl and she came out before I had a chance to tell my parents that I have feelings for this girl. For the last three months I've had to listen to my mom ... (133 words)

Oral sex tips?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

6 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - help can anyone give me some oral sex tips i never get my husband to ejaculate during oral sex help anyone... (21 words)

Being with a girl through a rough time, now she's out and finally being happy. I'm left behind? What gives?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

6 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - We really liked each other. Really close to dating. She would always say how she hadn't felt that happy in a long time when she was with me.Then she saw her ex and sort of went into an emotional breakdown. I had to back away a little so she could figure stuff out. I liked h... (202 words)

I need help writing my final goodbye to my ex fiance so that I can get closure

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

6 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - i broke up with my ex fiance about a year ago to date and have cut communication for about 5 months now, but i recently found out she was asking about me. She was asking if i was dating and talked to my sister about how much she missed me, and regrets breaking up but i have not ... (276 words)

We never talk but he's always looking at me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4917 days ago

6 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hi dear cupid :) there's a boy at my school who i used to be friends with him last year but then this year we never talked and he looks at me a lot and he shows a lot of signs that prove that he likes me but then he got a girlfriend but yet he keeps looking at me and still sh... (121 words)

Relationship/ Personal Help wanted please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4918 days ago

6 July 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone, I'm 15 yrs old, and have always been single, no first kiss or nothin, but i want a relationship. However, there are a few probs... I have a crush on an slighlty older girls (16, goin to be 17 soon (but im gunna be 16 soon) shes a senior in HS this upcommin year, ... (797 words)

I know he is looking at other women when we are together, so why does he bother lying about it???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

6 July 2011 (F)

age - My boyfriend oogles other women, and even when it's totally obvious and I ask him right in the moment, he will deny it, get angry with me and call me a jealous, insecure women. Why will he not just own up to it?... (44 words)

Being a virgin has ruined my chances at love in my home town...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

6 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so ive decided to start dating but the problem is women wont even go on a date with me where I live because i am a virgin. There was a incident a year ago when everyone found out I was a virgin and now it has kinda ruined me here in my city. Once word gets out about ... (134 words)

I left my husband for him, but he is still living with his wife,,, What should I do now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

6 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive been married for 11 years and it hasn't been a perfect marriage by no means. He has been abusive and neglected me. He always did things with his friends and never with me and it got very lonely. I meet a man at work and felt an instant connection with him. He and I began ... (334 words)

This guy just wont leave me alone!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

6 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey so I was at a festival and some guy asked me for my number. Being stupid... I gave it to him. At first it was cute but now he will not stop texting me and calling! I told my parents because hes freaking me out so I told him that i was getting my phone taken away for 2 ... (84 words)

We are all friends, but the girl I like, likes another girl, what should I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4916 days ago

6 July 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi. I'm a male who's turning 16 next month. To to the point now. First,I will need to tell you the story :). Alright. Sometime during the beginning of April I started hanging out with this girl and her friend. We've "known" each other since 8th grade or so. I'll call the f... (615 words)

My ex husband of 5 years won't take no for an answer, how can I get him to stop trying to have sex with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

6 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex husband and I get along very well as parents. We have been apart for 5 years. I am in a serious relationship with another man. Several times since we parted he has come onto me sexually and I have told him no, that it isn't gonna happen. Once he chased me around a room ... (288 words)

Parents, do you think a 19 year old female should have a curfew??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

6 July 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Several months ago my family "adopted" a 19 year old girl who was in need of some help and guidance to get her life back on track and graduate high school. Things are going really well, except for one thing. We dissagree on what time she should come home when she goes out on ... (232 words)

He cares about me as a friend, but I want him to love me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

6 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - they iz a guy i luv but the guy doesnt love me wat must i do and we are close friends... (21 words)

He is the one for me, so why does he treat me like the one for right now??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

6 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - iv felt for a long time that i simply dont turn him on visually.what are definate signs your not the one turning him on?? i remember a few weeks into dating him , we were in town and he thought nothing of pointing her out as his mates sister, fine, until he went on to say h... (301 words)

What is up with the hot and cold? is he scared?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

6 July 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - more confused than ever! i posted here before. i met a guy online a couple months back, talked on phone, emailed, then we met about a month ago.we laughed,chatted, major eye contact! he was supposed to return in a couple days, but he didnt. over a week went by, and i sent him... (665 words)

How do I trust my LDR guy when I have caught him in so many lies?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

6 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone... I want to know your opinions on this: Im in a long distance relationship with my bf, but I do not trust him completely. the reaons being is that he has lied to me before about small stuff, like meeting up with a friend (who is also a female) and he swears h... (624 words)

Cheating.lies.affairs.guilt.fool

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4917 days ago

6 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - was with my man for 2 years until he left me in may 2010 as he had met someone else although we kept in touch.2 months later we started meetin up as friendsm him sayin she was out his life,and he had only done it to push me away.We were gettin on well ( i was over th moon to ... (421 words)

I need advise about how to get over my lying cheating ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4918 days ago

6 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I was with my man for 2 years until he left me in may 2010 as he had met someone else although we kept in touch. 2 months later we started meeting up as friends after he told me she was out his life, and that he had only done it to push me away. We were gettin on well ( i was ... (452 words)

I discovered that my ex has been cyber stalking me, should I tell him I know??

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6 July 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi all! A few months back I allowed my now ex boyfriend to do a little work on my computer knowing I had nothing to hide from him and he could access all areas no restrictions. But the next day I logged on and something just told me that things were not right and had a gut ... (203 words)

My virgin husband is making me get an std test before he will marry me...

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6 July 2011 (F) age 36-40 - My fiance is making me get an STD test before he marries me. He is a virgin and I'm not. I have been with 2 guys before him. He told me he just wants to be sure I am clean before he marries me because he does not want to catch an std. He is demanding me that I show him the test ... (272 words)

Post-divorce friendship or 'no contact'?

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6 July 2011 (F)

age - My exH and I have known each other for 20 years of which 18 we were married. We had a very close relationship and considered each other best friends. Money, material things, and flaunt have always been very important to him as it gives him power. His dad had strong ... (299 words)

It's like I'm a toy and she's the child playing with the toy! Break up or not?

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6 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So my girlfriend and i have been going out out or about 4 months. When we first started going out, she would act like i was a god (talking about how perfect i was, etc.) We would text each other everyday and spend a lot of time together. after the first month, it began to... (345 words)

I have issues over trust due to past cheating partners!

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6 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello Aunts and Uncles. Having slight issues. I have picked up trust issues over the years due to partners cheating. I have gotten much better at trusting people but im finding it hard at the moment since i met this new guy. He has said it had been over for months he ju... (132 words)

How would a man behave if he were conflicted with choosing between his new life, new woman and his old life, wife & kids?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

6 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - How would a man behave if he were conflicted with choosing between his new life, new woman and his old life/wife and kids? I would really appreciate hearing from actual men how they would handle this sort of decision. Additionally, I am nothing special compared to his ex. I'm ... (75 words)

Anyone have ideas for simple gifts for my deployed military man?

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6 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a man who is in Afg. I want to send him packages, more so I want them to be simple but I want there to be small trinkets that pack a big punch. Anyone have any ideas of where I could start with that? I dont want all of it to be lovey dovey, practical would be a great ... (82 words)

I honestly don't have a clue where I stand with him!

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6 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I honestly don't have a clue where I stand with him, he speaks to me so often and we have such a good bond. We have so much in common and the conversation flows but then things go wrong. I really like this guy and when we were hanging out he said he really liked me but nothing ... (137 words)

How do I get rid of my boyfriend? And should I see the other man or permanently refuse him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4918 days ago

6 July 2011 (F) age 36-40 - Hi, I wanted to ask some suggestions/advice from all. I am having relationship problem right now with my 2 years boyfriend. I met him online and been chatted for more than a year. Three months ago we did meet even I was shocked and really doubted it. Because I've known my bf... (759 words)

Does 'Screwdriver Guy' like me or is he just being neighbourly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

6 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My question is about a really lovely guy whom I'm not sure likes me. I recently moved into a block of flats and one morning, walking out the main entrance, I morning, walking out the main entrance, I turned to notice a very attractive guy walking behind me, whom it turns out ... (721 words)