Should I forgive her in light of her situation at home?

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

theres a girl 's' and we were friends for little over a year. i think i have been a good friend over the time but she has not, for example, when i liked 'r' she went out with him, when 6 months later i liked 'p' she dated him. i mentioned that i thought someone was fit 'j'(i didn't want to date him, he is married, i just thought he was awesome), she agreed with me, but then started to send me messages saying that she spent 6 hours talking to 'j' and that 'j' said, he liked her more. at first they didn't annoy me but by the end i was getting four or five messages a day, i wasn't jelouse just bored, and one day i snapped at her saying 'while you were with 'j' a married man i was spending time with people my own age, having fun', p.s i should note that her spending time with 'j' actually means going to his work place and talking for at most 10 minutes of each hour and just staring the rest. she fell out with me and i refused to speak again, but the problom comes when i realised that she has a terable home life i wont go in to details but she sees her parents maybe 5 mins every week as they work alot, i think she thinks of 'j' as a father type figure, she wants to be friends again and i am wondering what to do, she has a bad life and i feel sorry for her but she has hurt me in so many ways, via abusive texts 'never talk to me again, you f***ing bit**, i hate you' etc. how much should i forgive her in account of her home life

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