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Archived questions from: 13 July, 2011 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

After our 3rd date I gave her a kiss goodnight... Did I come on too strongly?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4906 days ago

13 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I've just got back from my 3rd date with a girl I like. We've had 2 highly successful dates and this 3rd one appeared to be no acception. We talked, laughed and had a nice evening, just like the previous two dates. But tonight I wanted to slip in the one thing that has been ... (219 words)

I'm not out yet, how do I ask a guy on a date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

13 July 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Ive liked men since i was 13 (now16) and i now have a really bad crush! I cant stop thinking about him! I just need some advice on how to go about asking him on a date( im still in the closet).... (42 words)

Long distance worry: she ended it but we still talk a lot.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

13 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So I met this girl last summer on a cruise, she is from Tennessee and I am from Pennsylvania, we talked for a while afterwords but we both eventually got in relationships with other people, until about this past May when by coincidence we both broke-up with our bf and gf's. So ... (191 words)

My boyfriend said porn stars are hotter than me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2905 days ago

13 July 2011 (F) age 30-35 - My boyfriend and porn. Ever since my boyfriend got a new job we've had less time for sex. Whenever we see each other we have a lot of sex. I'm not a prude, so with me anything goes (except threesomes). I let him do whatever he wants. I sometimes dress sexily, etc., and I try to ... (409 words)

What is love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

13 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a huge crush on someone and I also thinks he loves me too, but does'nt know how to tell me do you think he loves me the way i do?... (32 words)

He led me to believe that he cared for me, then just went cold.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

13 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I became friends with a guy for almost 2 years whom I really enjoyed. He was kind and caring,we used to have conversations about his girlfriend and my failing relationship with my husband long story short I am going through a seperation and one night hanging out with my friend ... (279 words)

Husband skinny dipping with my Bf and now hes texted her behind my back, how do I deal with this ?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

13 July 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I caught my husband skinny dipping with my best friend, who is also married. I feel he cheated even though they said nothing happened but it still hurts the same. This is not the first time he has done something like this to hurt me. When I caught them I made him get out of ... (212 words)

Rejected by her once before, but should I try again or will I make a fool of myself ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

13 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi all i was wondering what is everyone's views on a guy proposing twice. should he do it? to be more exact there is this girl whom i dated for a month and we got really close. as a matter of fact you would have sworn she was more into me than i was into her. we called texted f... (403 words)

Should I take the plunge and tell him how I feel or risk ruining our friendship ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

13 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'll spare you all the details but basically, he asked me out last year, I had to say no for personal reasons, but I liked him and have realized over the course of the last few months that I'm ready to date again, and I'm still into him. Whether or not he's still into me, ... (325 words)

His lil sis is wrecking my head with her childish behavior, help !!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

13 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am so annoyed and upset with my bfs little sister. She has really annoyed me because their other brother has a fiancé and his sister has her head up her effing arse! She wrote on her facebook wall. "Beth we should go on holiday. Would be soo cool xxx". And I saw and read all ... (212 words)

My ex bf wants us to have some fun and make it our little secret so my Low sex drive Fiance don't find out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

13 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ok well im back with another dilema :( my ex boyfriend (not my bby daddy) has been talking to me. he was always a great friend but when we were together we had sex once and thats all. we stayed in touch after we broke up.he was always a better friend than a lover. Recently ... (324 words)

I need advice to get her back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4910 days ago

13 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - So here's my situation in a nutshell...I have been trying to get back with my ex gf for a while now we still talk, she tells me she needs her space and I am giving it to her we still go to weddings and other stuff together...she tells me that she will give it another chance ... (156 words)

Would you date a girl with a moustache?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4908 days ago

13 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys. I just want to know what u guys think of girls that have moustaches and if you can date one. Because i have a friend, a girl that has a moustache which makes her so self conscious and insecure about herself. Also what are the best ways to cover up a girl moustache? I ... (66 words)

I cant deal with her mindgames any more! Should I let the relationship diminish, or finally answer her calls and let her carry on behaving this way?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

13 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I 30 and 26 respectively. We just hit the year milestone on our relationship July 11. I haven't verbally spoken to her since two days prior to my bday when she unofficially broke up with me June 27. Anyway I haven't desired to call her and tell her July 1st ... (360 words)

I feel inferior compared to his ex and their amazing sex life, should I ask him if he does wish I were more like her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

13 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So, I've been in a couple long-term relationships and so has my bf. I know we all miss a bit of what we had back when but are happy with what we've got now. My current is a great boyfriend and I wouldn't trade him in, but we do have a lousy sex life. Something my ex and I ... (308 words)

My boyfriend never wants sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

13 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend doesn't get horny at all I have tried everything. I have walked around naked I have teased him I have kissed him hard I have come on to him and I have done a few of his fantasies... He sometimes loses it while inside of me. Please help?!... (55 words)

Trying to not let my bf's ex make me self-concious. I think he thinks she's smarter and prettier than I am.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

13 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have a little bit of an issue, I'm dating a great guy, we've been together over a year. In the beginning, we met at University and his ex came here too. There was a little issue with her in the first five months of our relationship because she was still on his mind a l... (337 words)

My boyfriend caught me masturbating and said I was cheating!

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

13 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, So ive been dating this guy for 2yrs now, and i always ask him to take showers with me and his response everytime is no, then when i was in the shower i was masterbating when he caught me. When i got out of the shower he was so mad at me and told me i pretty m... (97 words)

Promotion at work and planning for a baby and now my boyfriend is panicking.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

13 July 2011 (?) age 51-59 - Hi there. Here is my problem. Me and my bf of 18 months have been trying for a baby, we are also buying a house together. We both work full time and this would be our first house, our first child. It’s an exciting but stressful time. Here is the thing, my bf is a psychiat... (293 words)

My boyfriend has been telling everyone about my miscarriage!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

13 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, do you think I am right to be annoyed with my bf - we had a miscarriage last week. He told his mother and best friend (and told me he'd told them). I didn't want to tell anyone about it, but was fine with him telling people as long as he let me know who he had told. He ... (239 words)

Do women reach their sexual peak in their 40s?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

13 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I’m 32 years of age and ever since I was a teenager, I have always liked older women, very very much! Particularly women in their 40’s. During my teenage years I would find myself fantasizing not about girls in my class, but about their mothers! Not all but many of my... (130 words)

Is it unreasonable to ask what he wants?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

13 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I met a guy a couple of months ago .. we met at a bar, he works/lives down the road from where I live. Gave me his number and asked me to get in contact. It was brief. So a few days later I did. We spent 3 to 4 weeks of sending a handful of texts back and fourth.. hal... (469 words)

Why he is doing all of this but still has me blocked on Facebook?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4910 days ago

13 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my ex had a big fight not long ago, afterwards, everytime i went to his work he would rub it in that he wasnt talking to me by saying hello to my bestie all the time and saying bye to her and saying her name after the hi and the byes. i messaged him over fb after he did ... (410 words)

Why is he like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

13 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - There's this guy in class who took my number from a friend and started texting me. We texted for a few weeks and in class he keeps on looking at me and we smile to each other but we've never talked in person before. Recently he stopped talking to me. I don't know why. I tried ... (117 words)

Can anyone give me their thoughts on this situation and how to cope with the loss of a good friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

13 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have this friend which I met over 4 years ago and back then she use to be really happy, kind, and such. She also never touched alcohol or drugs. Well 2 years ago when she moved to another city for college she completely changed. She drinks until she blacks out, she is always ... (257 words)

He controls me and runs back to his ex, should I forget about him completely, or can I have both him and my happiness?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

13 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Am I the one in the wrong? So, I dated this guy who was very, very controlling. I wasn't allowed to wear make up to school, low-cut shirts, or talk to other guys to cushion his extreme trust issues. We broke up nearly two months ago but for the first month after we were no ... (485 words)

Cheated and feeling very guilty, how do I get over this and have a healthy relationship with my girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

13 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 29 years old man. I have a girlfriend who is living in a long distance with me. We used to live together and had a intimate relationship. Since she has left there was some problem between us. Basically it seemed that problem was only my side. I started to feel that she ... (301 words)

Ex girlfriend holding a grudge because I cheated, am I wasting my time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

13 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. Well i was with my ex for 5 years, and i cheated on her. She found out after we broke up, then she went through a horrible stage in her life. She contacted my mother on mothers day, and we started small talk i.e txing etc. Since last sunday we have been staying the night ... (147 words)

Circumcised vs. uncircumcised

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

13 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Is there a difference between a circumcised and an uncircumcised penis when it comes to giving a handjob or a blowjob? I've only ever been with a circumcised man, and I was just wondering if there is anything I need to know should I encounter a man who is uncircumcised. Any ... (54 words)

I don't hate my ex anymore and want to congratulate him on having a baby, how should I do this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

13 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Today I read a question about a guy that calls his gf names and wont let her eat til he says its ok. It made me feel sad and horrible for her because thats what my exbf did to me but he was badder. I treated him so good but he would always find something bad to say and make me ... (230 words)

Still in love with my ex, but she's getting married in August!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

13 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - This is a bit long and I apologize in advance for that. My ex girlfriend is getting married to a guy she's been with for two years now. She was my first love and although I've had other girlfriends after her, I still can't stop thinking about her. I've been invited to the ... (687 words)

Boyfriend has been acting different after getting back together.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

13 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So here is the thing im 38 weeks pregnant and due any day now. a few weeks ago my boyfriend/baby dad broke up and we got back together last saturday. from june 30 untill now he has been hanging out with his friends all the time. alot more then he use too! so saturday we went ... (293 words)

How do you make your relationship last during college?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4911 days ago

13 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I was wondering, how do you make your relationship last during college? My boyfriend and I have been dating over a year, and things are amazing. We both want to make it work, and I'm looking for advice on how we can work. We'll both be going to the same community colleg... (100 words)

Are there any methods of temporary sterilization?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

13 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What are some reliable forms of temporary sterilization for women? I'm on birth control, but I want something that's 100% without having to clip myself. I've never heard of one, but maybe others have? Are there anything out there? I'm currently not having sex with my boyf... (72 words)

Have you ever dumped someone despite knowing how much they loved you?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

13 July 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Who has dumped someone even if you knew how much they really loved you, and was how much they loved you the reason why?... (24 words)

I want to be with my girlfriend, but everything is pointing to a break up. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4911 days ago

13 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 18 years old and i have been dating my girlfriend for about a year and a half. She is head over heels in love with me, and i thought i felt the same, and i think i still do, but sometimes i'm not quite sure. It's been a rocky relationship lately, both of us have threatened ... (204 words)

My mother doesn't think we are compatible because of his future career, and deep down I know she is right......what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4911 days ago

13 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and we are so in love with each other. I know how he loves me so much and trying to make me happy as he could. He is a mature minded man although we are in same age. He is patience and low profile. He guide me how to be a g... (415 words)

I cant seem to turn my boyfriend on! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4842 days ago

13 July 2011 (F)

I have a girlfriend of 2 years who would never betray me, but then another woman who gives me what I need....who do I choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

13 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i've gotten myself into a terrible situation and i need advice, please. i have been with my girlfriend for two years now. she's been very good to me and treated me well. i know she would move mountains for me if she could. and she's a great parental figure to my son who loves... (318 words)

How to make sex less painful for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4906 days ago

13 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been really intmate, it will be our first time together or for either one of us. We usually get in the mood and I go beyond to get her aroused and she does but our problem is that it hurts her a lot which we know is normal but she says she feels ... (78 words)

Bad break up and our engagement has ended....what do I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

13 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated someone for 3 years. We got engaged in 2010 and broke up this May. He is now 27 and has only had 2 partners in an 8 year period. He is very athletic, tall, handsome. But he had a lot of weird beliefs about sex. He claimed to have a porn addiction in high school and ... (441 words)

I need help trusting my boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4910 days ago

13 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is so sweet. We've been together for over a year now and for some reason I don't trust him. He trusts me completely. It never used to bother me, we used to be fine before but now I get upset all the time when we watch movies with girls that are trying to be sexy or ... (223 words)

Is it stupid to try couples counselling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4911 days ago

13 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, I'm almost a month and a half out of a 5+ year relationship and I'm having a hard time. I feel like I'm doing this break up thing the best I can but it's not enough. I work more than a fulltime job, I joined a gym, I see friends, I laugh, but no one replaces my perso... (457 words)

Can ex sex buddys be just friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

13 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone!! I have a question, so me and this guy have known each other for 3 years. We were friends, but we liked each other but then we lost contact. So I got a boyfriend and he got a girlfriend, but my relationship ended very quick. We were rude to each other so yeah....... (339 words)

I feel that a relationship revolving around drinking and spending the night in another girl's house is completely shady. Am I being unreasonable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

13 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating on and off for a little over 3 years. During a year-long break after 2.5 years of dating, he began to hang out with a group of girls, and continued to hang out with the same group of girls after we got back together. Now, I have absolute... (163 words)

How can I get a girl to have sex with me in high school?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

13 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - first of all i mean no disrespect to any one who may read this so please do not take me as some horny teenager. to get down do it. this is my last year of high school and most of my friends by now have had sex all of them but me. and you want to know something rather odd or ... (342 words)

Am I handling this mutual breakup right? I miss him so much.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4911 days ago

13 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - We just broke up a week ago. We are both 23 and he is my first boyfriend and I am his second girlfriend. We have been dating for 3 years and to the day we broke up we were still best friends and very civil to each other and still inlove. It was a mutual thing and happened ... (292 words)

He misunderstood my texts and now wants to break up with me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

13 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - On Monday Fourth of July, I sent my bf of 8mths. a text saying I was drinking at a friends house and that her bf was there. So my bf thought right away that I was cheating that I was with a friend of my friends bf. But the thing is it was a joke I lied I didnt even go out on ... (377 words)

Girlfriend says I have communication problems, but I don't know how to work on it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

13 July 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Well, Me and my girlfriend have been dating for about a year. I had just ended a 23 year marriage were I was misrable. When we started this relationship she told me that I have a communication problem. I have been trying to work on this problem but she still to this date says ... (129 words)

I'm insecure and not sure about my boyfriend, also my ex is back in the picture!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4911 days ago

13 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i love ma bf but i feel too insecure :( iM not as good looking as all the other girls. now a days the perfect girl has to be skinny and pretty im not skinny nor fat :( im in between :) well what can i do to not feel so insecure? :( my bf hates it that i feel this way he says ... (243 words)