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I've never been in a relationship, and I'm worried that I'm too small. Can I get someone's opinion?

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Question - (7 July 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 8 July 2011)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

This is a question to all the gay guys (straight women as well) out there. What do you consider a "short dick?" A penis that is too small to give pleasure during penetration. I'm a 16 year old closeted gay guy and I've never been in a relationship. But I assume that I may be more of a bottom, idrk. But I'm worried that I'm too small to pleasure my partner if they ever wanted to bottom once in a while. Idk about you guys but I think gay guys are more judgmental than straight girls when it comes to penis size. Even in the relationship they like to see how they compare to each other or each others exes. Well I'm like 2 or 3 centimeters from being 6 inches, from a gay guys perspective, is that too small?

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A male reader, AvgGuy1 United States +, writes (8 July 2011):

AvgGuy1 agony auntWell... for one, you're still VERY young to be worrying about a relationship.

That aside, SIZE isn't really THAT important (unless you're dating some size queen - someone who WANTS someone else with a huge dick).

MOST, and I mean MOST guys are between 5.5" - 6.5" - EVEN if their profile says they're 7" or more; they probably aren't. Additionally, a penis that's TOO big is PAINFUL (in most cases). So don't worry about size. Just go with the flow. If you find someone that wants you to top them... and they know how big you are then it won't be a problem. If they're looking for someone who's a hung top just inform them... that they're barking up the wrong tree. If they're really interested in you for more than sex... it won't matter.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2011):

I don't think you're too small at all. I've only slept with 2 guys myself and they were both around 6 inches, and I got pleasure. If I were you, I wouldn't worry too much. I don't know about gay guys but I do know girls don't really pay too much attention to the size, because if you actually love the person, it doesn't usually matter.

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A female reader, Mickkiee United Kingdom +, writes (8 July 2011):

Mickkiee agony auntHi

Im a girl so im not sure about how gay men would react to size but often women take the view that size does not count its technique that matters. Its probably nothing honestly with age you become more experienced. 6 inches can give a lot of pleasure if it is used right all you need to find is your tecnique and your partner wll be begging for more.

All the best

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