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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is there something wrong with me? I feel as if I have been left behind!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 July 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Heya, I'm actually a little embarressed to put this up on here but... I'm 18 years old, I am a female, but I am still a virgin :/ I also havent been in a relationship with a guy before, which is actually my bigger problem... I only had my first kiss a few months... (218 words)

What's wrong with me? Am I weird for this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What is wrong with me? am I weird? is it normal? My ex boyfriend and I broke up 6months and I've not been with anyone else since. I had a lot of guys come my way but they all wanted sex, but I can't have casual sex, I've got to be in love and have a strong feeling... (190 words)

Husband made me stop working , now wants custody of our child!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

31 July 2011 (M)

age - My husband got a new job, and we moved to this new town and he started his new job. He was telling me how great this was going to be and that I did not need to work anymore. I stayed home and took care of our child, he ended up cheating on me and now wants a divorce and custody ... (76 words)

What happens when you orgasm?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, can anyone tell me what happens when you orgasim, im a girl and me and my boyfriend have been having sex and i csnt seem to orgasim, but csn anyone tell me what actually happens and what it feels like? thanks.... (44 words)

My boyfriends house mate is acting weird around me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My bfs house mate is weird with me. He alternates between staring at me to being awkward and leaving a room I am in. He doesn't hold my gaze if we have a convo and can avoid me all together sometimes. I don't know if he dislikes me - I have never done anything for him to ... (67 words)

How do you tell if you really love someone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

31 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, I can't figure out how I truly feel about my bf of 10 months - how do you know if you really love someone? Thanks :)... (30 words)

Everybody hates my hair!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

31 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm not really sure if this a a newsworthy question but I could use some advise. I'm, black, 21 and in college (living at home) and I live in Jamaica and I'm currently growing my hair but for some reason everybody wants me to cut it. In Jamaica when someone's hair coul... (440 words)

Pain during sexual intercourse! is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

31 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it normal to have pain during sex x my and my bf are both inexperice him being my first bf and first sexual partner x I find am a little tight and find it really painful I found sex painful for the first time and at first when my bf fingers me I find it painful is it normal ... (72 words)

Is he stringing me along?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

31 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - ok so i met this guy online in the beginning of the year he lives ina complete different state i started dating somebody else but as time went on i realized the more me and this lnog distance guy talked the more i liked him and developed feelings i consoled him through alot of ... (557 words)

Should I just let him pursue me instead?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. Can you tell me if a guy is interested in me if he does not reply to my email? I sent him an email asking him to get together with me but no reponse from him. It has been a week and I happened to run into him at the mall yesterday. I DID NOT ask him about my ema... (215 words)

Feeling lonely

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

31 July 2011 (F)

age - I seem doomed for always having a lonely life. I was brought up in childrens homes and when I did get married after a few years my husband ran off with another woman. I haev ahd boyfriends but no one wanmts commitment these days. I have amde a fool of myself chasing men ... (192 words)

Need advice on going below the belt on my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I’m 16 nearly 17 and I need some advice on going below the belt on my boyfriend.We’ve been together for 6 months now and He’s getting pretty confident when it comes to pleasing me. We've both agreed to wait a while before sex but he often gets a bit carried away and normally ... (242 words)

Was it Implantation bleeding? or just a really light period?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

31 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I had unprotected sex twice about a week and 2 days ago(it was a Friday and Saturday). The day after,which would have been Sunday,my period was supposed to start. I am on birth control,and was on the last set of pills at the end,which are supposed to trigger your period. On ... (240 words)

Why am I so emotional especially as we weren't even dating and only went on one date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) age 30-35 - I'm not very experienced with guys and have had very few relationships. I recently net this guy and we have been talking for a while. So he asked me on a date which didn't quite go to plan and he said it would be best if we just stayed friends. The thing is I feel really upset ... (90 words)

Husband mistreats me and now he's dying. I'm not sure how to handle things

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

31 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband call me bitch whore tells me i cant cook tells me im not allowed to touch his money tell me im a fat useless bitch infrontvod my kids, i did leave him but after 5mths took him back thinkingbhe had changed he shouts at me all the time breaks and throws things when he ... (118 words)

His mother doesn't approve of me and I can't wait forever!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years. I want to get married. He is egyptian muslim and i am white muslim. His mother is racist and hates british girls (muslim or not). He is very close to her as his father died at a young age and she brought all 4 children up by ... (707 words)

I'm not sure if he is into me, am I wasting my time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Is he into me or not? So i went out for dinner with an old college friend. This is the first time we went out alone.It was not a date, more like two friends catching up. I think both of us had a good time. So he stays in another city. Around 3-4 hours away from where... (290 words)

I cried deleting my ex-girlfriend pictures

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend left me 8 months ago.Today, I deleted her all pictures from my computer. But while I pressing deleting button, I was feeling like killing her forever. Afterwards and even now I can't help crying. Anyone here has experienced the same thing deleting your pictures? ... (54 words)

Will I ever quit feeling like he's hiding something from me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

31 July 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I caught my boyfriend looking at internet porn and some of it was illegal. After confronting him and forgiving him, things seem fine. I am able to search his internet history (complete history, including anything he might delete or look at on "private browsing") and I ... (99 words)

I don't feel like I turn him on the way I used to

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together almost two years. The relationship is amazing and the sex is just as great. I know its normal for the amount of sex a couple has to decrease over time. I still want it more often and have always wanted it more than him. My problem... (889 words)

Everybody at works think we are an item but I am not sure what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4842 days ago

31 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I work with a girl who I have developed strong feelings for and I don’t know what to do. She broke up with her boyfriend about 5 months ago and we have become very close, we have spent a lot of time together, going out to dinner, to the movies or just finishing work and... (370 words)

Is this classed as a holiday romance now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 July 2011 (F)

age - My daughter went on holiday she hated it and came home early when I asked her why she said "everyone" was sleeping qround getting boozed out off their head and the other girls were laughing at her because she didnt want to sleep with anyone (she didnt meet anyone she fancied) ... (143 words)

Can eating ice make you gain weight?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I know this isn't a relationship question but I need a serious answer as I can't find one on google. I have gained a stone in the last year and I'm worried its because of my addiction to ice? I'm very active, I don't have time for 'exercise' but I am on my feet all day in w... (104 words)

Do you think he is having second thoughts about marrying me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a bit confused. About 5 months ago I was talking to my boyfriend of 10 months about our future and he didn't say much at all in response. I took this to mean that he wasn't interested in anything other than being boyfriend/girlfriend and just let things lie. Anyway 4 months ... (327 words)

Help with irregular periods and pains.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - with my period, im always at different times sometimes its at the begining of the month middle of the month or towards the end, My last period was 28 june,so that that maybe over 4 weeks ago, i have the symptoms of one starting like pains in my belly but only seems to be... (121 words)

Am I being too fussy and picky when it comes to girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

31 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a virgin guy and 20. I've finished my first year of uni. There have been a few girls. I kissed one in a club, danced with a few and there was one i was interested in but she wasn't. Anyway yesterday i met up with my mates who i hadn't seen in a few years and we all went out ... (487 words)

I want him to have a good career and status but he wants to stay and take care of his parents. Is there any solution to this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi friends. I have a problem and i really wanna solutn of dat. My bf is the owner of a jwelery shop or say, his father is. His brother has settld himself and has a good career n status of his own. But my bf is just like a care taker of his father's shop. He has just passed ... (198 words)

Why did my normal 5 day period only last 2 days?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 July 2011 (?) age 36-40 - My periods usually lasts for 5 days, but this month they only lasted for 2 days. What could be a reason for that?... (23 words)

We've been online dating for 2 years but have never met in person once....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

31 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - How long is too long for a no-contact LDR? When I say no contact, I mean no physical contact. At all. We've been 'dating' online for over 2 years and through that whole time we've never met in person once. I've tried, I've made trips to see him but things would always go ... (352 words)

Am I experiencing a phantom pregnancy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently my body has been acting REALLY weirdly. My stomach has bloated out by a HUGE amount (I keep getting asked if I'm pregnant it's that bad) and it's rock hard. I honestly look 6 months pregnant. I'm getting cravings for strawberries, my boobs are ultra sensitive, I'm ... (199 words)

Does he think of me as a good mate or something more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Last nite i stayed round my mates house who i used to like ( still do a little) but he has told me clear that there is no spark there for him, ( we have slept together a few times )before he ound out i liked him Anyway last nite i called him in to talk to him he basically... (274 words)

Why does he pin my legs down to the bed, during sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

31 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello Just a quick question really so thatnks for reading Ive just started sleeping with a new guy everything is going good and sex life is fab, but my one question is during sex he holds my leg down like he pining it to the bed when hes inside me, it doesnt bother ... (116 words)

We fight over silly things and I am totally lost in this relationship..please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I spent the night at my boyfriends house and we had a great time. This morinig he calls me to wake me up instead of walking up the stairs to wake me. I got pissed at this because he could have just walked up and said hey I'm leaving in 15 min. I got pissed at and got dressed ... (128 words)

What do men think of breast implants?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

31 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi just wondering about breast implants what do males think of them? and people who have them down short story i have a breast problem when i was 15 i knew i had small boobs but they said when i grew older they would grow to be similar size ( one is always slightly bigger)... (167 words)

Would guys be turned off by a 24 year old virgin?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

31 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This may seem like a weird question, but I've got to ask. My sister is 24 and still a virgin. Would you guys be turned off by that? First some background info: My sister and I are very close and currently share an apartment. It's a handy living arrangement because she ... (262 words)

Is my male friend living in hope?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

31 July 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - At the beginning of the year I decided I need to widen my social circle and find friends who have children the same age as my daughter. Emailed a few people on Facebook that I went to school with and now back in touch with some old school friends. One friend in particul... (406 words)

How do I tell my b/f that I'm not a virgin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How am i going to tell my boyfriend that iam not a virgin anymore?... (14 words)

Cheated on husband with his brother, he left but now is back and we had sex again!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - okay 3 years ago my brother in law came to live with my husband and I, well 5 months into him living with us, my bil and I starting having feeling (which we addressed) and then a sexual relationship. my husband at the time was in jail for fdomestic violence and had a major ... (217 words)

Some quick questions regarding smiling at the opposite sex...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

31 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi there, a fairly simple couple of questions regarding smiling at the opposite sex. As a girl (or lady), do you like being smiled at by a guy - whether you know them, or don't know them. Secondly, once you get to know a guy better, do you still smile at them when you see... (248 words)

Now that I am 25 I'd love to ask out my 37 yo former teacher

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 25, working in IT, enjoying life. Recently I saw my ex-geography teacher, Jane*, who last taught me at high school 9 years ago way back in 2002. She's about 37 now The last time I saw her - 4 years ago in another town when I was in the pub with friends. I know for ... (188 words)

Where do I start to meet other gay men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

31 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 23, have Asperger's syndrome, and although I've had some struggles in life, things have got a fair bit better over the past 2 years (well, since November 2008 to be really technical, but...). I find it difficult to make friends, unless they're people older than me (I... (489 words)

It was supposed to be our time, but he had ended up having to work!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 July 2011 (?) age 41-50 - I have to admit I am a little annoyed just now. Me and my bf booked our annual leave some time ago and it started yesterday, two weeks. He broke his leg some 6 weeks ago and has been off work since, but it worked out that he needed to go back to work yesterday, to catch up. Let ... (556 words)

How come she has a new guy in her life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend of 4.5 years split up abaout 2 months ago. We have a 1 yr old son and we started working it out. Things were going good untell she started being mean. Then we didn't talk much for about a week and then I found out she was testing another guy. When I ask her ... (115 words)

The day before he told me he loved me, now nothing!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

31 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a very toxic, deluded relationship, but got over the guy and started a thing with someone else. A sweet, loving and caring man. Sometimes we had fights, but in general everything was ok. For about 1,5 year. We talked about getting married one day, etc. And then, ... (266 words)

My boyfriend's mother ---

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4860 days ago

31 July 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Thank you for all advice. I'm 33, my boyfriend is 34. Both my parents are living he has a mom and a drug dealer slash user bro. My boyfriends dad past away a year ago. My boyfriend n I live with my son who is 11, we have dated 3 yrs now. Before his dad past all was great, e... (606 words)

I took him back, but I don't love him anymore.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my husband going on 12yrs. this Aug. we been married going on 9yr. we have 4 little boys. what i need is a mans view,we were arguing a lot but nothing serious,or so i thought,well he left me for a girl who ive never met ,but he was gone for 13 days but by the 7th ... (191 words)

How can I tell her in a nice way that I'm no longer interested in her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so I met this girl the other day at a social event and I got her number. Well we went on a casual date and while everything went great something she did finally made me put two and two together. See I have this friend and you know us guys that like to brag about there ... (188 words)

We planned our pregnancy, now I am having second thoughts

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

31 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a bit of a dilemma..... At Christmas, my parter and I decided to come off using contraception and just to let nature take its course and see what happens. Last month, we booked our wedding and honeymoon for July next year and I went back to the doctors to get some ... (286 words)

I'm a 21 year old male virgin and I feel so pressured to lose it.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 21 soon to be 22 and I'm still a virgin. For the most part I'm OK with it 90% of the time but the other 10% is hard to deal with. Growing up I was usually the last of the bunch to do certain things (driving, dating, etc.) and I still am and sex is one of them! Sex ... (313 words)

Our sex life is dull and she told me she has no desire and thinks she will never have the desire again!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

31 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been married to my wife for 10 years next month. Our sex life has been very dull over the last few years. Recently we had some issues with our marriage and has been very rocky to say the least over the last 5 months. We have not had sex in almost 5 months. We are ... (130 words)

Do shallow people lead better, easier and more fun lives?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been wondering for some time about some of my girlfriends who I think are somewhat shallow. I mean, they don't reflect on anything, they just pursue what they want (sex, money, relationships) and don't much care who and what they damage in the process. They give lip ... (234 words)

I'm all for being in a healthy relationship and having our own lives, but I don't even see where ours mesh anymore.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year and a half, and we're not connecting these days. Ever since graduating this past spring and moving 1-2 hours away from each other (1hr by car, 2+ by train), it's been difficult to spend time together. I moved back to th... (728 words)

Should I tell my FWB about my feelings for him? I don't want to risk what we have and scare him off.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

31 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so heres the story. Theres this guy i have known for the past 2 yrs. I met him because he was my boss. Well he was transferred about a yr ago and up until may our relationship had been strictly professional. We no longer work together in the same store. Back in may i helped ... (180 words)

Why do girls think that all men are scum just because they weren't treated right by a guy once?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

31 July 2011 (M) age 30-35 - It really bothers me when women say that all men are pigs and all men are scum. When I hear girls say that, it kind of offends me. I am a nice guy. Every time I'm around a girl, I'm always a gentleman. (Hold doors open for them, pick up things when they drop them, etc...) And I ... (184 words)

I'm not sure how one talks about boundaries in a relationship. Advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4862 days ago

31 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I recently kissed/made out/cuddled for the first time. He always asked what made me uncomfortable, and stopped when he sensed I didn't like it. When I asked him later if that bothered him, he said no, we were both inexperienced with things. We are LDR, an... (229 words)

He's not offering any support -- am I overreacting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm very upset with my boyfriend and I'm wondering if I'm overreacting or being a jerk. My grandfather was recently hospitalized and has been in and out of congestive heart failure. I am 20 and still living at home. My parents have decided to fly down to stay with him this ... (492 words)

I'm automatically friend-zoned?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not really in this situation at present… still, is it normal for a non-ugly female person to be "friend zoned" by a guy they like? What might they reasons be for this? I only ask because I was reading a website (Urban Dictionary) and the majority of people seemed to concu... (309 words)

He doesn't want to love again, but he does want sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

31 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How should i act when i see him at work tommorow? he just wants sex? I really like this guy at work. He stares at me when am not looking and am the only girl he chats to at work. I thought he was sweet. So I gave him my number. We got chatting and he says he likes ... (193 words)

I'm left emotionally and physically starved

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

31 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, please, I desperately need help! My boyfriend/partner of several years is driving me sexually and emotionally insane! We live together for 2 and a half years now but things arent good. When or if we row he wont speak to me or let me speak to him for days on end. Because of ... (326 words)

How do I tell guys that like me that I don't like them back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

31 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I dont know how to tell the guys that like me, that i dont like them back. (yes, guy(s) - there is 2) The first one is like my best friend, i've known him for 7 years and we've always been best friends but recently he started developing feelings towards me that are much st... (239 words)