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female
age
36-40,
*urvlyeyes
writes:Hi, ive been with my boyfiend now for ten months. I started seeing him two weeks after a relationship break up of 5 and a half years. Everything was great for two months, now its on and off, i dont know what to do. Hes really insecure and suffers from depression. He keeps telling me he doesnt love me then rips me down for the person who I am tells me he doesnt love me and all that, then changes that he does love me with him begging me to take him back. He then says how much he loves me. This happens all the time, he then smashes things up and said hes gonna kill himself if i dont stay. One weekend i disappeared and he went to find me. i didnt want him to know where i was so he then texed me saying he cut himself and smashed up the tv and bed. Next day tried jumping off a bridge. Really dont know what to do I love him to bits, hes starting to get help but really dont know what i can do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2010): He sounds emotionally unstable and he could hurt you.
Break up (but get a restraining order first). Stay with a friend or family member for at least a week after the break up.
Be a little of afraid of this one. I'm not an alarmist and I don't like drama being created where there is no drama, but he sounds very unstable.
Take care of YOU.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (18 September 2010):
He's right about one thing. He doesn't deserve you at all. Walk away from him. Now. If he has family that care, tell them. Alternatively, call the Samaritans.
http://www.samaritans.org/
tell them the story, ask what to do. But don't stay with this guy anymore, as he will drag you into his little work with him. Remember, if he hurts himself, he does it of his own accord and it has nothing to do with you.
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