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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:My ex of 6 months broke up with me almost half a year ago over one argument and many accusations that he had against me and then said that he had lost some interest and needed some space. He once said that I was the most well composed girl he ever met and I was so good to him etc. The thing was, I was VERY good to both him AND his Mom during the relationship but he tried to control me sometimes and treated me like I was 5. However, he kinda isn't going anywhere in life right now because he doesn't make enough money to pay his own bills and still lives with his mother. So when we broke up, he said that he needed time. But it turned out that the reason he dumped me was because he was trying to get with the girl he tried to get with before me. I had heard from somewhere that she rejected him. We were in no contact then 2 months later out of the blue, he texted me asking what's up? I had deleted his number because he broke my heart and when I found out about the other girl, I was very angry/hurt/upset. So I texted back asking who's this? When he said it that it was him, I didn't respond because I was still angry and didn't think hearing from him after 2 months was good for me then. Well, it's been almost 4 months since he tried to contact and I haven't heard from him since. My question is, what was it, do you think, that he wanted?
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reader, Duckyhelp  +, writes (19 September 2010):
 His plans with that stupid girl he chose over you fell through, he probs heard your doing great single and wants part of the action. BUT do not give him the time of day. You seem like sensible as you made the right desicion. Just care on living life and try not to think about it, as it involves thinking about him, and hes wasted your time in the past, so why let him keep doing it now!
Wish you well :)
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (18 September 2010):
Maybe he failed with the other girl and wanted to come back to you until he found someone else. My ex texted me after 3 months. She'd cheated, hurt me etc. I didn't respond. Best thing I ever did. Don't sit there mulling this over in your head. You most likely had a lucky escape from being used and hurt again.
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