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26-29,
anonymous
writes:please please help!!I am fourteen years old and I am seriously in love with this guy in my school. We have talked a few times but I feel sparks and everything else whenever I see him or hear his name. my friend has known him since like kindergarten and has said that whenever he knows a girl likes him.... he makes them feel special... which he has done to me. How do I know if he really likes me.. or if I'm just another girl?
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reader, spud8r +, writes (25 October 2010):
This was the case for me at that age, except I was the guy all the females flirted with. And yes I flirted back to virtually all that did to me but there was only a fuew that I actually saw a future with. Just tell what your heart says, see his response. There is less pain in seeking out then finding there is no mutual attraction then not seeking out at all. I've come up short both ways several times and at least for me that's how it went.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks youuuuu (:
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reader, spud8r +, writes (18 September 2010):
Just ask him straight forward!
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reader, Shadow_Phathom_of_the_Opera +, writes (18 September 2010):
 Pay attention to the ladies he is with. Watch how he treats them, compared to you. Usually, a guy who really likes you will go out of their way to do something extremely special for the girl he likes. Trust me, if he really likes you, he'll ask you to join him in an activity. If not, there is one more thing you can do, but you must be brave.
If he's not the type who will put you first/give you the best of his heart... then you can invite him to sit with you at lunch, but optionally, it's a good idea to also have lunch with your best friends at the same time while this is going on, or he will lose interest. On the other hand, if your beauty can attract love, then go solo, and have lunch with him.
Have faith. If this doesn't work, there is still chances with him in the future, perhaps, and if not, there are also plenty of men that will want your love at some point in life.
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