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writes:So my friend reconnected after so many years, we went out in high school for like a month, purely innocent. So now, we have gone out to the movies twice he has treated and he is such a gentleman. But, we text like 24/7 and tells me that he doesn’t text much, but with me he can do it all day, the thing he told me was that he is not ready for a relationship, because I have hinted that I like him, and he has hinted that as well. However, I told him I wasn’t either, I just wanted to take it slow, and he said that he might say that he is not ready but anything can happen. Am just a bit confused we have so much fun together, and he told me he’s planning an outing with me at a theme park during the month of Halloween. We flirt slightly, he’s so sweet and caring, he saids he’s gonna buy a shirt that saids “I’m with Nerd” he calls me his nerd (and tells me good night my nerd and sweet dreams? What can I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2010): Hi there
i was a bit in the same situation as you a while back. He was an absolute gentleman to me, paying for things, texting me 24/7 and it got to the point where i really liked him, but he said he wasnt ready for a relationship. Cutting a long story short i backed off a little (its hard i know) and gave him some time to think about what he wanted. A few weeks later i confronted him and said how i felt and i didnt want to be dragged on hoping he would change his mnd. He asked me to be his girlfriend that day and we are still together.
Anyway what im trying to say is maybe you just need to lay cool for a few weeks and give him time to think about what he wants. He may soon realise that if he doesnt make a move your going to loose interest and he could miss something special. Sometimes backing off reminds them your not just going to stay around waiting.
I hope this helps :)
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