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I'm liking my boyfriend's friend!

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Question - (18 September 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 18 September 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *rincessxbox22 writes:

ok so ive been going out with my bf now for almost 6 months and in 9th grade. suddenly i started falling for one of his best friends and i have a feeling his friend has some feelings for me cuz he flirts with me alittle but not over the top . heres the thing. i love my bf and all but i cant help but like his best friend i just need advice on how to get his friend to like me back and tips on how to flirt with him to get him. i know this is wrong but please give me advice if ur just gunna tell me how wrong it is and dont have an answer for my question dont answer at all.

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A female reader, petina1 United Kingdom +, writes (18 September 2010):

petina1 agony auntYour of the age where it's the most natural feeling in the world to look around and see how the land lies as far as relationships goes. If you end up with this lad it won't stop you looking around still because the grass seems always greener. Hormones play tricks with us all the time and your heart will rule your head. You could ask him what type of girl he likes and if he says 'someone like you', then there you go, then it's up to you what you do with that. Only problem is then you could be breaking two friends up, would that be worth it. Hope this helps

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2010):

yeah, u say u love him but u lyk his best friend? if u really love him, try to control yourself. i know i might sound a bit like a jerk but plz, its only for the best of u

i have a friend, actually one of my closest friend, who like the same girl as I did. Once i realize that we liked the same girl, i stopped talking to that girl and after about 2 months, they started dating. that friend of mine, even till now, is still one of my closest friend. he broke up with that girl after summer...pretty fast huh? :(

Sometimes u have to give up something to keep another. If u are greedy, u might loose both. But for ur situation, its a bit harder to decide. It's harder for you to avoid, since they are best friend. But try ur best. if there is an easy way out, the whole world would probably be doin that now. Haaha.

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