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writes:My boyfriend has moved 400 miles away to University. Even though he's been gone just a few days and we've talked on the phone every day, I still miss him so much. The thought of only seeing him a few times a year makes it worse. (I may see him more next year when I finish my third college year and move to a University closer to him) For now though, how can I deal with it? Thankyou.- Rachel
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reader, petina1 +, writes (18 September 2010):
 You now have a long distance relationship. Thats going to be so tough. You could keep in touch on facebook and by email. That will keep expensive phone calls down and also you could see him with the web cam. That seems to be the way of the world today. Hope your love can sustain you and speed up the time when you will be closer. If it is meant to be then you will find a way to cope. Hope this helps
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reader, cooListic kid  +, writes (18 September 2010):
 I've been in a long distance relationship for 4 years now! I'll be honest some days are harder then others and you've just have enough, but i just keep thinking about how much i love him! and that when were finally together how amazing it will be. Don't think about him being so far away and how much you miss him even though i know its hard sometimes its better to try and keep yourself busy especially those days days you might not be able to talk. I think it really does make your relationship and love grow stronger it actually makes me want him more because i guess i cant have him right now. There's also the little things that can make it fun like phone sex and sending each other dirty little emails all the time even just sweet little notes or sending him a random letter to surprise him...it will defiantly brighten your day!! It, all in a way takes your relationship to a new level. I think now for me because I've dealt with it so long its in a way normal now, sometimes i even get sick of him haha. after all the tears and frustration i still love him and we find a way to make it work, you'll both find your own way to deal with it. just imagine each time you finally get to be with each other, how intensely intimate it will be! I hope this has helped a tiny bit. My final advice would be just let yourself feel the way you feel and don't hold back and talk about how you feel with each other...as best you can just roll with it as it comes.
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