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writes:me and my bf have been together a year and a half. he cheated on me and i took him back bc he got a job to move out here for me. he worked monday threw thursday and today is friday adn he said his boss called him in. he said it was home comming and noone eles would work. he usually txts me back every few mins but he hasnt for two hrs and he dissapeard alot earlier...i dont know what to do.
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reader, Mickey26 +, writes (23 September 2010):
I totaly agree with caring guy answer, you will always have doubt that he is cheating bacause of him doing it to you befor. you just going to have to have trust, you do not want to spend ur relationship worrying even min if he is cheating on you...I been cheated on by my boyfriend who is now my fiance, he was deployed when he did it, and yes it took me a min to trust him, but he did gain it back, but you have to be willing to want to for give him and move on from it, no you will never forget it...but if his good out way the bad and he is really trying to prove to get ur trust back, then if you love him, you need to just relax, because what ever is dont in the dark will come to light
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2010): It could be that he's secretly buying you a gift or planning a surprise for an occasion or event for you. Maybe they called him for an earlier shift, since noone else would come in, or it's a more hectic work day for him.. It doesn't necessarily mean he's up to something bad. Unless you get proof of him cheating, I would just question him as to why he left so early and never texted you back like he usually does.
If he doesn't take to you questioning him, too bad.. that's what he has to expect every now and then, for previously cheating on you. Even if he never admits to cheating again, he'll still be more wearing of attempting to if he knows he'll have to make it through a series of questions every now and then, when he looks suspicious. There's no harm in asking him questions about his day, and if you do it often enough, it'll just seem normal to him.
Just try not to come off as though you're interrogating him, and you'll get results without causing other waves in your relationship.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (18 September 2010):
Since he's cheated before, there is always going to be doubt in your mind about whether he's cheating again. But no one can tell you for sure, because there's just not enough proof. His excuses do sound somewhat suspicious (no one else would work?), but before you can confront him, you need to do more digging and find out what he's up to.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (18 September 2010):
Since he's cheated before, there is always going to be doubt in your mind about whether he's cheating again. But no one can tell you for sure, because there's just not enough proof. His excuses do sound somewhat suspicious (no one else would work?), but before you can confront him, you need to do more digging and find out what he's up to.
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reader, elvira505  +, writes (18 September 2010):
assume the best okay, and wait if he repeated it again than keep track of him , and play it smart by checking behind his back without a noticeable change in your behavior until you find an evidence which proves , because the only evidence you have now is '' reputation '' which is not enough to accuse someone because people truly change and we've see this in out the history...
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reader, ex-teen  +, writes (18 September 2010):
 Let him do his deeds, don't ask him to be faithfull, ask him if it's ok if you fuck othet men, if not, break it up. couples need freedom to explore, don't stay in a one sided relationship. be equal. if he can't handle that then he doesn't love you. if he can then you will have a friend for life. trust me.
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