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How can I get my wife to dress sexy for Halloween?

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Question - (18 September 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 20 September 2010)
A male United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

What is the best way to get my wife to wear a super sexy hallowen outfit? For the last few years, we have gone to the same adults-only Halloween party, made up of neighbors and friends. The "adults only" part is not as racy as it sounds. We all have kids, so it simply means we have one party a year that is not overrun with children.

A nice side effect of having an adults only party, is that quite a few of the women used the opportunity to dress very sexy. We all had a laugh looking at the pictures afterwards, and i even had to delete some of the pictures at their request. I did not, however, delete the visual images out of my mind. I have gone back to those images many times, when "taking things into my own hands" as it were, and even sometimes when having sex with my wife.

My question is how do I get my wife to dress sexy this year? What would be the way to broach this subject in a manner most likely to get what I want: I.e. Her wearing a sexy revealing Halloween costume to the party?

Now, some of the women have great bodies, some do not. My wife would be in the middle somewhere.

Please save the comments about not pressuring her, or objectifying women, blah, blah, blah....

If you were unsure, or nervous about weari g so ethic g revealing to a costume party such as this, what could your spies or bf do or say that would give you that little nudge, or confidence, to make you GO FOR IT!!!

I think my wife is super sexy, and even the idea of her wearing a slutty costume at a party gets me hard...

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A female reader, Gabrielle Stoker United States +, writes (20 September 2010):

Gabrielle Stoker agony auntAhh...memories of Halloweens past come to mind :) I've always had a gala time at Halloween parties since around 2003 I think. The first time I dressed as a devil (horns, trident and all) and the night ended very very well. I did a police officer last year (apparently I look particularly do-able in a hat. Basically if I get a hint from a guy I'm interested in that he thinks I would look good in a particular costume is enough to have me hunting the shops.

Just tell her how much it excites you. Surely that should be motivation enough.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2010):

It's the best night of the year! Thing is - you can't 'get her' to dress like that, she either wants to or she doesn't. So - bring the subject up. If she's not into it, at least you tried. If she's up for it, great for you both!

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (18 September 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntLOL, Halloween is an excuse for women to dress up as sluts and no other woman can see anything about it. I dress very scantily on Halloween, and of course there will be other women who will talk about the sexy angel whose breasts are about to pop out of her costume. Now there's some that are racier than others..some aren't as bad and still leave a bit up to the imagination. Ask her if you can help her selecting her Halloween costume this year. When you guys go costume shopping, give her some sexy ones to try on and see what she says. Compliment her and tell her how good her bum looks in that police officer costume...that you would love to see her in it at the party and she's not taking it off even when you take her to bed..And who says Halloween stops there? You can bust out that costume and night stick and use it any night of the week. ;)

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (18 September 2010):

I'd just tell her and see what she says. I don't think there's any other way around it. Just tell her you fancy her, think she has a great body and you'd like to see her in a racy Halloween outfit.

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