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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Me and my boyfriend have been dating almost 6 months and we always have our downfalls, usually me being paranoid that he longer loves me because he doesn't reply back to my texts. But in the end everything's okay, until the next encounter.We're both 15 and totally insane about each over, but the latest problem is, is that he asked me to go the local fair with him and I said yeah. But a couple of days ago he said he was grounded and unable to go and it realy upset me. However, I got a text off his cousin (we're good friends) saying that he saw him down at the fair with my friends ex and another male guy who looked linked romantically to her. I immediately began to think that my boyfriend has started to like her and losing feelings for me. But everyone says he doesn't like her.I texted him saying 'you liar, you said you couldn't go' and he replied 'my dad changed his mind last minute'. And so cause I wanted to know what was going on I asked if I could see him tomorrow, he just replied 'I'd rather you didn't'. I don't know what to do anymore. Does he still love me? Or is he sick of me? I don't know what to do, I'm an extremely sensitive girl who's new to love (he's my first boyfriend) he loves to wind me up but recently he's gone too far and I point it out and he just goes off in a mood. Is he getting sick of me?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (18 September 2010):
You need to be dealing with your own trust issues and paranoia here. I don't think he's sick of you, but I you seem so on edge that he's starting to feel suffocated, hence why he went to the fair and didn't tell you. You say he's gone too far, that he winds you up. If that is so, why are you going out with him? He does seem to be growing distant, but if you're always texting, or always worrying, or always being paranoid every time he doesn't get back to you, eventually he will have to end it. I would give him a few days to cool off, then talk to him and ask him calmly he he wishes to continue seeing you. But you need to be addressing your trust issues, because if you don't your love life will be a mess
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