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*aulforan11
writes:Hey guys so I posted a question a while ago that my gf seems to not care about the relationship and treats me like crap. Well I ended up talking to her and telling her how I feel. For about four hours she changed after that conversation and currently she's back to being rude and have an attitude and never wants to have sex the list goes on. She says se has been like this her whole life and has ruined relationships because she always has an attitude and shows a don't care attitude. I love hee a lot and don't want to be the Guy that got away. I want to make this work but one I can't talk to her cause she gets mad and the more I talk about our issues the worst it all gets. What can I do to stop this....please I need help Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2010): Sorry to say that the other aunts are right,she aint never going to change and your just another relationship going nowhere,unless she wants to become a better person then your better off without her
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (18 September 2010):
 Ah I remember you, and whatever I said when in your last post still applies.
This girl doesn't care about anyone but number one, herself. You're going to be the only one trying to make this relationship, she doesn't care. She does not want to change, there is no adjusting her attitude. And you can't make her change. If she doesn't change she will be one lonely old maid, because guys aren't going to put up with her horrible attitude. Frankly, I don't see why you are still around in this one-sided relationship...I bet she doesn't even care if you break up with her, she already has admitted to ruining previous relationships, yours will be just another mark on the board. Wake up, break up with her..
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (18 September 2010):
Bud, your just the next person in a long list of people that she has treated badly. How many other guys and girls has she treated like you with her spoilt brat attitude. You're not going to be the guy that got away to this girl. You'll be the guy who let better women pass you by.
In the same way that a woman can't make a man change, a man can't make a woman change. You know she won't change. She changed for 4 hours, then became abusive and bitchy again. She's done nothing her whole life to change, and she won't change now. You even tried to talk to her again and she didn't change.
There really are FAR better women out there who won't act this way. Let her be the spoilt bitch, leave her and find a woman who will treat you like a human. You don't need this hassle. What you need is a decent woman you can trust, talk to and be treated decently by. This girl is the nightmare
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