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writes:It took me a long time to get a girl from my past. SHe broke up with me on prom (or she give me hints that she'd break up). It's 6 years later, and I see this facebook picture of her. She's pretty. it just breaks my heart to see how she has a bf. I think she'll be engaged soon or is. It's depressing to see this, and it breaks my heart. What's the solution? Drinking my pain away?
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reader, BrianC +, writes (18 September 2010):
dang man you have it bad. but its alright though. Girls really dont know how bad it hurts to feel rejected or not wanted by them. But its ok man. What I do is I just get her off my mind. I did what I could to get this one girl off of my mind. I played basketball non-stop with my friends. I tried to spend as much time as I could with my friends because we would never bring up the girl I lost. I became a member of the local community center's gym and it really got her off my mind. And just recently I met a new girl at the gym. So sometimes what you have to do is do things to get her off your mind. I know man its harder then it sounds but for me it worked real well. I mean its a full-proof plan. Theres more benefits to this then just sitting there thinking about her all day.I hope this helps man.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (18 September 2010):
 Dumped you at prom? That's harsh. 6 years and you're still dwelling on her, well it's about high time you moved on with your life and found a new girlfriend, hobby, focus on college, or if you're finished immerse yourself in your new career. First let go of your past, this happened how many years ago? Mentally forgive her, and block her Facebook account. Or delete your account if you can't handle it, but stalking her on Facebook is definitely not helping you move on. Then I suggest putting yourself back on the dating market because I doubt you've had a relationship since her. But drinking is NEVER the answer..you're old enough to know that. If none of that works,then I suggest you seek a therapist.
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