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writes:Hey guys, I've been with my boyfriend for nearly a year and I love him to pieces. wouldn't trade him for the world. One thing that's bothering me though, he's met my WHOLE family and they adore him. He's even met my nan's friends! But I haven't met any of his, except his parents. I really want to get to know them but I don't want to bring the situation up with him, I want to wait until he asks me, y'know? I don't know what to do :( Reply to this Question
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reader, HP1993 +, writes (11 December 2010):
HP1993 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Well it's been nearly a year and still nothing. I've brought it up with him a few times and he always says "we'll go soon" but we NEVER do :( we've seen a couple of his cousins out and about and he stops and talks to them, but he doesn't even turn to me and say "this is ____ my cousin" or "this is my girlfriend". It's getting me down, making me feel miserable and I think it might be changing my opinion of him in a way. Being in a relationship sucks sometimes.
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reader, EbonyBlossom +, writes (24 March 2010):
 You should bring it up. Maybe he's waiting for you to show some enthusiasm about it. Unless there is a serious reason for him not to want you to meet them, then I'm sure it's just because he hadn't really thought about it. It's a totally normal question to ask. He could just be nervous, my boyfriend was nervous about me meeting his family for the first time, but once it was over and done with I'm welcome there anytime =]
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