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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi all, I'm 28 and back at university for the second time. I'm nearly finished the term and just noticed this guy staring at me... a lot! I didnt really notice him much before but now I see him looking at me from the corners of my eyes I cant stop thinking about him. The thing is we have never ever spoke and now in class we are making eye contact. Sometimes he looks right in my eye and I have to look down as Im a little embarrased. I am confidant though and look very good for my age. He is only 19, or maybe 20-21 I'm not quite sure. Also when we are not in lectures he completely ignores me! ? I tried to say hi to him on the bus but he looked at the floor before I could. I'm really confused as now I've started liking him but hes giving me mixed signals. Whats going on and what should I do? Thanks everyone :)
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (25 March 2010):
 He is a secret admirer of you who is not too secret.Probably he is intimidated by you or is too shy to make the first move.
You will have to break the ice and he would not reject you . Most of the time , if a girl approaches a guy , she will receive a cordial or warmth response.
If you like him , you will have to start the ball rolling.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (25 March 2010):
 His behavior is quite strange but I say you should just go over to him after class one day and say hi. You'll know then if he is interested or not by the way he acts at that moment. Catch him right after you obvously see that he is looking at you. He may just be really shy out where you are in a position to approach him but in class he is safe to look. You could also just sit next to him in class so that he can't get away after.
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