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writes:I have dated this guy for about 10 months. He says he's divorced and his kids and ex live in another country. Yet he is always going to visit or they visit. Am not bothered by him visiting his kid but he stays in the house which she got in the divorce.He has the$ to stay anywhere he wants. When the kid visit, she comes along and stays at his apt.he has never invited me to visit his apt in 10 months and I told him that bothers me. He says that its his kids home and he's not ready to bring a new woman there. I just broke up with him but I still love him. He's told me he wants to have a family with me. I don't trust him atall but I feel like am not being suppoprtive of him. I am extremely confused!!! He makes me feel guilty when I don't drop everything to be with him but he also travels a lot and we have long periods when we do not see or talk to each other. And I always feel like am just the booty call but he tells me am not. He tells me he loves me and that I should be patient but I think he's gameing me. Help!!!
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reader, Red Green 0289 +, writes (24 March 2010):
Sounds like he's got an agenda and your time's not quite up yet. There's a huge difference between having you over and having you spend the night. I can understand not allowing you to sleep over when the kids are there, but otherwise something is wrong. It can either be (a) he's married and his trips abroad are FAKE or (b) he's messed up and is placing others needs before yours.
You might want to check into who else lives at that house...
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