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writes:I'm a girl of 14 and I really like this boy in my school. He tells me he likes me as well but I get the idea that he's leading me on. My friends think he likes me but I'm still not sure. He even called me boring last night but will not tell me why! He just acts like he doesn't care about me. I told him this and he says he does care, but I don't know what to believe anymore. This situation has been going on for months now and it's causing problems such as stress. Should I carry on chasing him or should I just give up? Reply to this Question
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reader, Spades  +, writes (25 March 2010):
 This has been going on for months?
I would stop chasing him. You want him chasing you, not the other way around. If you keep doing this, he will see you as "too available". He can come and go as he pleases knowing that you will be there regardless of his treatment of you. I don't think he means any harm by this, I don't think he's thinking much about it at all.
This is something you should carry on with you throughout your teenage and adult life.
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reader, MissSincereHeart  +, writes (25 March 2010):
 hey der dear, im not gonna say what other aunt agony says like " ur too young to be in love/ to like someone".
first of all, ders this quality in a guy tt u shud noe tt usuali brings them down & make them unwise in making decisions. It is ego.
In your case, u say the guy says ur boring. I'll tell you.
Usuali its a tactic for guys to get to know u betta. Its bcz, when u reply to tt, it some sorta tactic for the guy to lure you into hys world. When he does tt often, it means tt he really does wana noe u betta & more each day.
As said in the 2nd para, ego is mens bez fren. When they talk to you, they wudnt wan their frens to say tt thy're uncool or stuff coz they will feel ashame.
Like example, instead of saying to u: Honey, i wana take u out for a romantic dinner,
they'll say: hey der, i wana treat u to dinner.
yea, tts true.
Secondly, u cant listen to what ur frens say, even if he/she is ur bez fren coz sometimes, they judge them only by what the guy's personality is like,
but u, to know him betta, gotta dive into his heart den u'll noe, honey.
And if u reali do like him, tell him straight.
be strong dear, its not something wrong to like someone, coz its ur decision.
if he does not like u the way u like him, tell him:
"its my decision & my own choice to like u, u cant stop me from liking you."
den , u gotta stop chasing him honey.
find someone WHO LOVES YOU , NOT SOMEONE WHOM YOU LOVE.
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reader, Annaaa. +, writes (24 March 2010):
well, first things first, is that hes a boy. most boys are like that, one minute they will be all over you, the next its like they have become bored. all you gotta do, is play hard to get. then the more he chases you and stuff, it will mean he most likely, likes you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2010): If he tells you your boring but won't explain why he isn't your time. He really doesn't care about you. He is just saying that to make you stay with him because he doesn't want to be alone.
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reader, Kayla Grace  +, writes (24 March 2010):
 I think you should just ask him if he likes your or not be strait up about. if he does like you he would tell you!
33 GOOD LUCK!!!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (24 March 2010):
Yes, he likes you. But get him to do some chasing. Be harder to get. If he likes you, he can do some running. If he doesn't do some running, leave him in the past.
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