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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've been talking to this guy on my tennis team for a little bit. We talk perfectly online, where I can totally be myself and talk about anything that comes to mind.But then, when it comes to real life, he intimidates me. He'll give me a look, and i'll shy away. We made a bet, i had to talk to him if I lose, and I did, but I can't find the nerve to speak to him.How do I overcome this problem?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2010): As a girl about your age, I did the same thing. But you need to be brave and talk to him! He obviously likes you online and REALLY wants you to talk to him. Be yourself and he'll like you. Don't worry.Have some confidence in yourself. Imagine yourself as the prettiest girl around. Think of yourself as a great prize. Make him want to deserve to have you speak. Good Luck!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (24 March 2010):
 You need to be confident, relax and calm .Do not put him on a pedestal.
He is only human and have flaws too.Try to bring him down to your level. Do not be intimidated or awed by him.
Imagine that you are online talking to him when you are facing him.
It takes a bit of practice and you will get over those jittery phase.
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