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writes:Hi, My boyfriend got married recently to another girl. I think he is happy with his marriage, he still wants to continue a relationship with me and wants to have sex. Not sure if he loves me truly. Can you help to advise me? Reply to this Question
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reader, Carrot2000  +, writes (24 March 2010):
 The fact that he chose to make someone else his wife, not you, should tell you that he doesn't love you. You're good enough to have sex with, but not good enough to be his wife. His actions alone have given you all of the information you need to figure out where you stand in the grand scheme of things. Move along with your life.
BTW, he was never your boyfriend if he married someone else while he was seeing you. He was HER boyfriend, and now he's HER husband.
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (24 March 2010):
 Nope he dosen't love you.. Men in love don't marry other women then ask you to be the bit on the side. This guy only loves himself.
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reader, kellyO +, writes (24 March 2010):
 Hi Anom,
Why are you even contemplating on this? He is obviously not taking you serious or this other person he just married. I pity for the poor girl. He doesnt seem to be someone who is satisfied with having one woman at a time.
I think he was most likely seeing the two of you the same time. He isnt trust-worthy and you shouldnt even be thinking of having anything to do with him.
Find someone else who will be more devoted to you and you alone he dont deserve you.
Hugs
Kelly
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reader, iloveblue  +, writes (24 March 2010):
 One advise you can always count on, never have a relationship with a married man.
It will cause you nothing but heartache and misery in the long run. I have never heard of any mistress say that they are truly honestly happy with their married boyfriends. There's always drama in relationships like this.
Another thing to remember, do not do to others what you don't what others to do to you. You will be someone elses wife later and for sure, your world will all crumble down if this happens to you. Emphatize with the wife, be in her shoes!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2010): Men love to have their cake and eat it too! He made a choice to marry her, therefore sacrificing a relationship with you. For your own good make the break. It will suck, but not nearly as bad as discovering that he won't leave her in the end.
I was "the other girl" and trust me, you think you won't feel bad because he was yours first, but you will. Its not worth the guilt and frustration. If he cared about you he would not have gotten married. Move on.
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