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female
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*enu
writes:my question is regarding wearing saree, i am a housewife. i wear sarees only, recently was hurt when my neighbour, an old lady rebuked me for wearing a saree sexily, whe said that i should not expose hips n navel when i wear saree. i have got used to wearing saree revealing hips etc since my college days.how can i change myself suddenly?my hubby has no probs regardn my saree wearing style.just wanted ur valuable n frank comments on this
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reader, Najma  +, writes (16 September 2010):
You just ignore her. Being an old lady always respect her in decent manner and wear as you like. Absolutely thare is nothing wrong in wearing saree below navel low on hips. It is comfortable, good for health and gives a lady elegance.
Najma
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reader, EbonyBlossom  +, writes (24 March 2010):
 She's only your next door neighbour. You shouldn't care what she says. Your husband probably likes it, isn't that more important? Live how you want to =]
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2010): Would it be tasteless for me to tell you to tell this woman to go f*** herself? Seriously, whats left to say?
Do you feel good wearing them? Does your husband like you wearing them? That's all that matters. This neighbor was WAY out of line to say that to you, and you should NEVER change yourself for anyone else.. let alone some snotty neighbor.
p.s. I think sarees are beautiful, and I would love to have your confidence to wear a sexy saree. Keep being yourself!
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (24 March 2010):
 It's not her business. I feel sorry for her because she's older and didn't get the priviledge of living in times when people have more freedom. But you're free to wear what you want; she should respect that. You're an adult and she's not your mom.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2010): Next time you see her, you should berate her for dressing too conservatively
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (24 March 2010):
 As long and YOU and your husband don't have a problem, I wouldn't worry.
Who does she think she is? The Fashion Police?
I think Sarees looks gorgeous no matter how you wear them!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (24 March 2010):
 Just ignore that old lady. She is from another generations and you really can't blame her. You have a nosy neighbour.
Who is she to tell you how and what to wear?
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reader, Miamine +, writes (24 March 2010):
 mmmm... I am not Hindu, but many Hindu girls in England wear sari's that are sexy and look very pretty. Times have changed, we modern people like to look beautiful. Things are changing in India, in Britain and all over the world. Your sari is suitable as far as I'm concerned. If your husband doesn't mind, and finds nothing wrong with the way you dress, then you are respectable. If you wasn't he would say something. This woman is old, she lives by the old rules. I think she's a bit jealous of the freedoms modern woman have. Tell her your sorry, but your husband likes you to dress this way.
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reader, Entirely Unique +, writes (24 March 2010):
 If you're happy with the way you're dressing and so is your husband then I don't see why you have to or want to change that, how you dress isn't really anything to do with your neighbour unless you was running around the garden naked which you're not.
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