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writes: Ok, So I have been with my BF for almost 6 yrs and I am so in love with him. He has three children prior to our relationship which I also love. What I dont love at all, are the baby mamas I have to deal with. All three of his baby mamas still have feelings for him and have expressed their feelings to him and has also told him they dont like for me for whatever reason. I dont care. We had a situation about 4 yrs ago with one his his BM's where we broke up and he went back to her. Now I have told him, I am not compfortable with him being friendly with his Bm's. as far as his and her personal lives, considering what happened the last time I was ok with him being "friendly". He says he has to have that relationship for his children. But again being cordial and friendly are too different things. Am I wrong for requesting he not discuss any personal matters with his BM's and only keep convo to their children?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2010): I think its perfectly right of you to expect him to keep his conversations with these women to a minimum and then only to talk about the children. They are his ex partners, he shouldnt be dicussing anything private with them. He might want to keep them interested and on the back burner, so he has them "on call" for when hes alone. But thats not fair on them, theyre just going to be used by him and they cant move on properly as things are. And its also not fair on you, because you cant relax knowing hes sharing things with them that he shouldnt and they are waiting in the wings for anytime you arent around. Altogether not a good situation. Sort it out with him not them. He seems to be the one keeping them in a string.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2010): I can tell u this my daughter's father and I have a great realationship with one another. But our talk is all about her but at times he says things to me about sex and I check him and tell him it aint gonna happen. Maybe he is the one making advances at her. I think that u should look close at that. They have a child also and she thinks that I want him and they have been together for about 10yrs and I have told her that I do not want him and if I did I would have stayed with him that's what some women problem that get mad at the wrong person look at him first and c were get hope that what i went through can help u.
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