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*opelessromie27
writes:Okay, so there's this guy that I really like but I'm not outgoing and rarely spend time with him. Today I kissed him (on the cheek!) but I've been felling like a waste of his time because of not seeing him. He really likes me too, kind of a shy emotions guy. Point is, I like him, he likes me, I want to end anything we have because I don't wanna waste his time, I kissed him, now what? I wish I couldve explained this better. Sorry! Please help though. I have no idea what to do.
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reader, Hopelessromie27 +, writes (22 April 2010):
Hopelessromie27 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you agony aunt!!! It's nice to have someone who can relate yo what you're going through. I'll try this out tomorrow! Super scared but filled with adrenaline! Thank you once again!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2010): I know exactly what you're going through! I have the exact same situation right now. If you want to be with this guy, then talk to him about the situation, he might be shy but if you start the conversations he'll find it easier and more comfortable. Whatever you do, don't put him under pressure! He'll freak out and possibly ignore you for a while. Also, make sure you don't blank him. If you decide you don't want to be with him make sure you tell him and explain to him why - he deserves a reason after all! If you do talk to him, and he says he'd like to meet up outside of school/work or whatever, then agree to it, and meet in a general place (personally, the guy I like came over my house, but that isn't always the best thing!) Be casual with him, flirt with him, and play hardish to get! Guys love it, trust me, I'm doing that right now! I hope I've helped :)
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