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36-40,
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writes:So I went on a date with a guy for the first time a day ago. We spent literally eight hours together having fun. He bought dinner etc. and he initiated the date to begin with, and I think it took him a lot of courage seeing as he's younger and we work together. Anyway, he told me to call him any time I was free to make plans, because he's always free (besides work and classes). The question is, should I call him? Or wait for him to make another move? Did he say that and mean it? Or is he trying to avoid another date? I'm so used to guys just saying that they will call, so this is kind of a new thing for me. Thanks for the advice. Reply to this Question
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reader, single gal  +, writes (19 April 2010):
pick up the phone and call him. tell him you had fun the other day and would like to do it again. give him a day you are free. he will jump at the oppotunity. he spent 8 hours with you, he couldnt have done that if he didnt like you.
what have you got to loose, nothing. go for it
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2010): well i think that u should call him. if you doesn't, he could feel that you're not interested if he's a sensitive person (after all you told that he is younger...). and remember, he told u to call him, so if you don't he will feel that u're not interested.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (19 April 2010):
 It would be better to wait for him to call you again at this stage. This way ,you would know if he is serious about dating you .
After you have dated for awhile , you can initiate some of the calls.
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