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writes:I think I am falling for my best friend, a girl, again.We have tried to go out twice before, and they lasted roughly...a day or so, but they were about a year apart. I think I am getting stronger signs from her that she likes me. So i just confronted her about it.It turns out she was feeling the same things, but after our last relationship she promised herself she wouldn't ever go out with me again, because she didn't want to hurt me.I asked if she would just be open about it for the future, and she said yes.A few extra things:we say i love you and really mean itwe both care about eachother alot.i trust her pretty much more than i trust anyone else.what should my next move be? and how can i make her feel comfortable with dating me in the future?
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reader, whoisMYquestionmark +, writes (20 April 2010):
That sounds a lot like my boyfriend.What you should is show her how much you love her. Why did it not work before. Think of ways to make her comfortable with you. She'll really appreciate it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2010): hey, im the one who posted this, and she said, she "just wanted to be friends" and its weird. we go in and out of this liking thing alot...its sometimes obvious and sometimes maybe im not picking up so well...but im very confused
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reader, TimmD +, writes (19 April 2010):
 Why did it not work in the past? I think I'd start with understand what didn't work and focus on changing that for the future.
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