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writes:Hi guys/girls (IM sorry if it seems im pouring my heart out but i dont really have anyone to talk 2 )im katie in 24 and compleatly lost at the moment, i really likes this guy slept with him 2 fridays ago, then the weekdend of that friday( sunday) he started going out with this girl, bu yet he hasnt told me just found out through a mate and of course the well known fb, and reading the things he says make me really jelous of her and wish it was me not her Basically i lost out big time but now i really want to show him what i think of him, ive still got him something, but that was day before i found out all about this i want to tell him but dont no how 2 LOL i no she is a lot older then him, and has a lush car, and he is really into his cars and i have seen them both togehter and hes always driving lolI sometimes think why do i bother but i no deep down when u like someone you should try your best I no this sounds alfull but i got my mate to text him to just make sure he was defo seeing her and he said yeah proberbly be with her forever,with a lol and a x at the end I made her reply bu havent u just started seeing each other and he replyed yeah but im need to start settling down im getting old with another lol at the end But im thinking to myelf my god i want you loads but dont no where to start I was told to write a letter my i dont think that will work Im just constuntly thinking about himPlease,please help
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reader, raiders  +, writes (19 April 2010):
 He is not into you, let it go. You can't be in a relationship with someone who is not into you, you two had sex and he left it at that just sex and wanted nothing more. You might have strong feelings for him but think on yourself your dignity and your pride. You are still young and will find love so don't keep yourself blind folded, allow yourself to see what else is out there.
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reader, Sanita  +, writes (19 April 2010):
Girl YOU NEED TO FORGET ABOUT THIS GUY. The resaon he left you to be with her is because he only wanted one thing "SEX" and he did so now there is no reason for him to stickaround with you. He has now moved on to his next victim. So YOU NEED TO MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE AS WELL. HE"S A JERK YOU DON"T NEED A GUY LIKE HIM IN YOUR LIFE. It hurts but life goes on.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (19 April 2010):
 Please do not write. Don't do anything. Do not scheme,contrive, or come up with plans that would just end up with you making a fool of yourself.
Stick to the facts : he slept with you on a Friday, then on Sunday he started dating someone else ( and,if I understand correctly, disappeared from your horizon without a glance back ).
He made his choice. leave it at that.
It may be true that "all is permitted in love and in war ", so you are tempted to fight to have him back.
But this is not love- you haven't had the time to develop any big feelings for him- it's just lust, or infatuation- fuelled precisely by the fact that he slipped through your hands. And anyway, he does not seem a specimen of man worth fighting for...
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2010): So, what's so amazing about this guy that you want to try so hard to get him to become your boyfriend?It sounds to me the best thing for everyone involved is for you to move on.. Go out with your friends, have fun, take your mind off him. You will soon be able to stop thinking about him. Then the next guy you meet, hopefully he will want to be totally with you and have you as his girlfriend. That's what you deserve.So move on... I know it can be hard, but it's not impossible.
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reader, Redoctober +, writes (19 April 2010):
Hello,
You obviously have very strong feelings for him for you to go to the lengths you have to find out if it is serious between him and the other girl.
I don't know if you two have talked or seen each other since the night you spent together but I would advise you to talk to him yourself and find out what he feels for you. He might not realise you have feelings for him and that could be the reason he started seeing someone else just days after you two were together.
He just started seeing this girl so it can't be that serious as yet I don't think.
So call him and talk and take things from there. Good luck
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