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anonymous
writes:hi there friends. I really need your guys help please. I am 17 years old female and I have a boyfriend i mean its being just like around 2 months n week more and i dunno he loves me a lot, he is from some other country and I am also but we stay in the same country.i said to him that we can never be together ever cause my family isnt gonna allow this as they are very strict at this, all things he started avoiding me when i rejected him he wasnt even talking to me he became quiet but i was liking him that time coudnt say it... i spoke to him i dunno what to do, i know there's nothing going to happn but i love him we are in a relationship now and i am reli scared, dunno what to do ? i want to leave him cause the love is getting deeper.... he says he loves me like hell.....but we fight also many times but he says fight doesnt mean i ll leave you but he says many things which are hurting.i m scared of him to some extent. I haven't said to my friends about my relationship with him cause they also know that there's nothing going to be there they only know we are just friends as they said to me dun go 4 relation never possible, I am alone i cant share with anyone about me but he says about himself to close friends and he can share also about it. i need your peoples help please i dunno what should i do??? please help me.I am alone, my family are also strict, my friends will get angry and my boyfriend dont know, what am i supposed to do ...? Reply to this Question
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (20 April 2010):
 Babe if you are scared of him at this early stage of your relationship I would get out before it gets worse! No partner should make you feel scared of them.
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reader, raiders  +, writes (20 April 2010):
 You are in love with him but can you see your future with him. You are from different cultures and are you prepare for your parents judgment. Family bond is very important, and I would advise you to take a good look at your relationship, is this worth loosing your relationship with your family. Are you willing to stop contact with your parents for this man. Is this man willing to marry you and take care of you. If you feel you can't live with out this man and his love will fulfill the emptiness your family might leave, than go for it. Also have you tried telling your family, you might be jumping into conclusions, talk to them first.
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