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writes:My best friend's wedding is coming up in August and I'm a bridesmaid. One of the groomsmen is someone I dated for couple of months two years ago (he's actually the groom's best friend). Well, I never got over him and as far as anyone's told me, he hasn't tried looking for another girlfriend. We're both single and will both most likely still be single once the wedding is actually here.I was just wondering if anyone on here has any tips for hooking up with him? When I say "hooking up", I mean making out and sex and all that other good stuff. It's pretty common for a bridesmaid and a groomsman to hook up, right? Anyways, just curious. Thanks to anyone who does! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2010): I'm the original poster! He broke up with me because I still had unresolved feelings for another ex of mine. He didn't want to deal with that (understandably) and thought maybe we could give it another go when all was said and done. It took another year for that to be the case but after that, we just stopped talking.
We're all so very close in our "circle of friends" that it was almost perfect to be dating him. Actually, it WAS perfect; I had never been happier in my life until the groomsman came along and then... I stopped being happy when he left my life. I know I should have more confidence in myself but it's hard when you have bi-polar disorder.
Maybe I am setting myself up for disappointment...? I just basically want to know what could've been had my other ex not been so far in the picture at the time. Also, my best friend and her fiance are trying to set us up anyway; so I'll see how that goes...
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reader, TimmD +, writes (19 April 2010):
 Well, for weddings it's pretty common for people to come with a date... even if they are a part of the wedding party. You can try to hook up with him, but you better be sure he doesn't bring a date.... no matter how serious he may be with her.
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