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writes:Hi,i dated this boy like 2 years ago and we went out for a pretty long time and got really deep in out relationship. when we broke up it was because of this huge dramatic thing that happened between me and my fake friends at the time. he broke up with me actually and I took it pretty hard. I ended up gaining 15 pounds and became really depressed. we havent talked since the break up so we arent friends. he went out with this other girl and have been going out for 5 months i think. she broke up with him for reasons i dont know. all i can say is shes a b**ch and everyone at my school wants to smack her. anyways, my best friend wants to get us to talk again but idk if i want to or if i dont want to. i dont know how to approach this situation. this friday im sleeping over her house and we are gunna hang out with a group of people including him. what do i do?!
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reader, sunandstars  +, writes (19 April 2010):
This sounds like peer pressure, your friend seems to want you to talk to him for some reason. You should think about why this is? Perhaps she wants you to be happy or is trying to get you back together? The sleepover: things may not be as awkward as it may seem, if you don't feel comfortable don't talk to him, just mingle with the other people, simple. I understand how hard this must be, like facing a fear, just do what you think is right, it's totally up to you: not you friend! I hope this helps you,
sunandstars x
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reader, Luckie128 +, writes (19 April 2010):
Hmm... well first of all it's your choice. If you want to talk to him than do so, if not than don't. it's really that simple. judging from personal experience, there's a reason why he is in your past..maybe he should stay there.
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