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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi. How come when I give my husband a blow job, for days afterward I have snot and mucuous in my throat, and during the mornings I end up gagging and coughing? Today I threw up a little because of all of the snot. When I don't do that, my mornings are fine. I told him this and now he is offended that his penis "makes me sick." He said just not to "think about it" and he acts like he doesnt get how it causes that. Then he said "fine then don't do it anymore but i wont do that for you either." And I said I don't mind making you happy but it frustrates me when you refuse to believe me about things and tell me not to think about it. I mean making that smart comment was like telling me it's all in my head. I'm tired of guys telling females that. Even male doctors do it to females a lot-"it's in your head."
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2010): So... ok... here is a probable cause. Your immune system is overactive and it believes that it is being intruded by a foreign body. This can happen if you live "To Clean" of a life style, as many of us did as children and now have developed alergys. Maybe take some anti-histamine for a couple days before giving head see if that helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2010): He sounds immature and selfish. Do you have orgasms when you have sex? If he is having all the orgasms by using your body there is an imbalance that will lead to resentment on your part. Many women decrease or stop having sex with a selfish husband after a while. It is very important to talk to him about his attitude - if he still behaves like a boy and he dismisses your concerns then you have to take care of you. Ask him if he would rather not have sex with you, or if he wishes to destabilize the relationship over a blow job? Tell him about the increasing number of marriages that are sexless. Maybe he will rethink his attitude.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know that when I use a new toothbrush to brush my teeth afterwards, it usually goes away in some days. This time I don't think I brushed that good and mucous lasted for some time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell his sperm doesn't get into my mouth usually. Maybe precum or something, but that's it. So don't know what's going on.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (19 April 2010):
 PS. I read another time about a girl who usually would get teh sperm up her nose when her bf came in her mouth. I personally have never had that happen to me, but if his sperm enters your nose that could be a possible explanation?
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reader, chigirl +, writes (19 April 2010):
Well, why it causes it to happen I dont know. Your husband sounds very immature. You are not saying you dotn like givinghim head, you are saying it makes you sick. He shoudn't be saying he wont do this for you in return, that is just mean and hurtful. But he is your husband, not mine, so you deal with that response as you will. Anyway, have you tried to give him head but NOT let him come in your mouth? Could it be the sperm that does it? Do you swallow? Have you tried just spitting it out?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (19 April 2010):
 It could be some infections or viruses that is causing you to have those snot and mucuous. Those mucuous and snots are supposed to wash away those germs or virus.
reference
http://www.nhs.uk/chq/Pages/970.aspx?CategoryID=118&SubCategoryID=125
http://library.thinkquest.org/J0112390/Boogers.htm
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