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My gut is telling me that he's gay and he doesn't realize he is!

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Question - (19 April 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 19 April 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I think the guy I've been seeing may be gay

why do I think this?

1. He asked for a threesome with another guy and when I said 'no' he said he was only joking and seriously wouldn't do that

2. He wears spandex under his sweatshirts (he says it is for warmth)

3. We've had sex but after the first two times he just doesn't want to have sex anymore, nothing I do turns him on. I even offered to go down on him.

4. He started hanging out with 'the boys' a lot. Specifically one guy (who I know is for sue straight tho)

so all these have reasons that could make him not gay, but he seems straight otherwise, but my gut is telling me that he's gay and doesn't realize that he is.

please let me know what you think.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (19 April 2010):

Well something is going on. For a young man to have sex for a couple of times then stop, I'd say that something is wrong anyway. I think you need to talk to him and ask him where he sees this relationship going. Don't ask him if he's day, but certainly tell him that you've noticed changes.

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