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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: Is This A Problem?A few months ago my boyfriend and I discussed how to have more intimate time since work and being tired were getting in the way. He came up with the idea of planning midweek overnight rendezvous to make sure we got together.Since then I have planned two of these. He planned one 5 weeks in advance and then backed out on it the day before because he said he was busy and had to be in work at 8am the next day. Then he went into work a couple of hours later anyway.Should I be worried? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, CindyCares +, writes (19 April 2010):
Not yet. If he just cancelled once, hey it happens. If that should happen again,- if you start seeing a pattern of making dates and not keeping them, then you have to worry.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (19 April 2010):
He might just be nervous, or worried that it's not the right time. Talk to him again and see what happens.
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