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female
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anonymous
writes:I've fallen completely in love with a girl and she said she likes me too and we've kissed but she said she doesnt want to be a lesbian and doesnt want to be in a relationship with a girl. she said she doesnt want to be the subject of gossip or anything like that.i dont want to go around chasing someone who is so confused. how can i fall out of love with her? is it possible?? we live in halls together, i see her all the time. how can i stop it hurting when i want to be with her so much??
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reader, Red Green 0289  +, writes (20 April 2010):
Consider her just like a guy who will kiss you, but not date you... not relationship material.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (20 April 2010):
 Can you not just love her as a friend. Eliminate the sexual part of it and you have a normal girlfriend relationship. Most of us love our friends a lot but sex doesn't come into it. Appreciate her for her not as a potential mate.
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reader, raiders +, writes (20 April 2010):
 You can't make someone a lesbian, she is obviously still in the closet and you can't force her out. Move on with your life and look somewhere else, you don't want to be in a relationship with a person who is going to be embarrass to be seen with you. You should stop having contact with her and put some distance between you and her. Maybe when she comes out of the closet you can have something going on, but for now move on.
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