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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:So my ex responded to my message I sent 2 nights ago. I wrote her saying "I'm sorry to hear things have been bugging you. It is true I am thinking about u but I don't let it absorb my thoughts for I don't yet know what plans are in store for me and I want to leave my life open to God to take me in any direction"This was a response to her first message telling me "I know we said we would't talk but some things have been bugging me so much and I've been wondering if you've been thinking about me as much as I've been thinking about u."Now she responded back to me saying "Well have u been learning anything or gotten stronger spiritually since we broke up?"Once again I don't know how to respond. I feel like I should wait till tomorrow like last time but I feel like the more time goes by the further away she'll get from me, should I reply tonight? Also I just don't know what to say, I have learned a lot yes and grown spiritually somewhat but I feel like if I say yes then she'll think I'm better off without her but if I say no she'll think I'm still obsessive and weak. Should I ask if she has as well? By her first message would she appear to have learned a lot and grown spiritually? I just don't know and I'm in a tough situation.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (19 April 2010):
 You should reply to her without any delay . Tell her the truth and what you feel inside of you .
If she rejects you , accept it as the will of God. Your perceptions of her could be wrong. You need to take that risk and be more assertive.
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