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writes:Me and this girl starting dating around valentine's day. She was my first love. I'm thinking this is the girl im going to marry. We were great for about a month and a half and one day she starts pushing me away. She told me I was clinging and she needed space. I gave her space and she breaks up with me. She tells me that she doesn't have the same feelings for me. I panicked and told her mother everything that happened between me and her. Her mother told me that she wanted things go back to when her and me were happy together and that she still had feelings for me. She finds out im txting her mother and gets really mad at me. I got fussed out for over two hours on her porch. Then i find out that she cheated on me twice while we were going out. I called her out on it and she tells me that she never loved me. I don't know if she was just saying that or if she meant it. But i love this girl so much despite her cheating on me she was a good gf and i was the best bf i could possibly be and i would do anything to be with her again. Right now she probably hates me. Is there anything i could or can do for me to do for her feelings to change so we could have another relationship? i need all the suggestions i can so make sure u drop us a line thank you all! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionUPDATE: I was starting to move on and get over her. But now She is mad at me and her friend because we have been spending a lot of time together. She thinks me and her friend are going out but we are just real good friends. My question is why does she even care im hanging out with her friend when she told me she hates me and to never talk to her again???
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionUPDATE: I was starting to move on and get over her. But now She is mad at me and her friend because we have been spending a lot of time together. She thinks me and her friend are going out but we are just real good friends. My question is why does she even care im hanging out with her friend when she told me she hates me and to never talk to her again???
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2010): I know its tough but it is time to forget her and move on.
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reader, sunandstars  +, writes (19 April 2010):
This must be so hard for you, loving her but not knowing if you can trust her. But personally I think you should try and get over her. She clearly doesn't have the same feeling for you and you can't make her love you. You think about it, she cheated on you, and you still love her: why? She's not worth your time, you sound like someone who could get a lovely girl and have a strong relationship/marriage. There's plenty of girls, don't waste your time on a cheater. I hope this helps,
sunandstars x
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reader, Problem.helper +, writes (19 April 2010):
 She cheated on you twice and you still want her. She doesn't care about you how you do about her.
Dust your self off stand up and get over it. It's over.
I don't want to be hard on you, i know you love her but you are still young there will be other girls and even better who will love you.
You want her back because she was your first and that's why. If she want to take you back please don't do it. I did that mistake and lost 4 years of my life that i will never get back.
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reader, bOROi +, writes (19 April 2010):
It looks like she is not interested in continuing with you. The fact that she told you she chaeted twice while going out with you is hint enough that her heart is not for you. You are still young,you will learn that there will be others, and always look for those who want you and not cling to someone do doesnt want you.
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